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Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« on: April 11, 2025, 03:46:27 PM »
Crazy I was blinded for 10 years and they lack empathy. Anyone have any good stories or experiences?

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #1 on: April 11, 2025, 03:54:51 PM »
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #2 on: April 11, 2025, 03:56:21 PM »
Crazy I was blinded for 10 years and they lack empathy. Anyone have any good stories or experiences?

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #3 on: April 11, 2025, 06:27:17 PM »
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #4 on: April 11, 2025, 06:34:02 PM »
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #5 on: April 11, 2025, 06:37:18 PM »
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #6 on: April 11, 2025, 06:38:32 PM »
This was a serious honest question

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #7 on: April 11, 2025, 06:51:17 PM »
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #8 on: April 11, 2025, 11:16:26 PM »
I once posted on a bodybuilding board with a guy named Brian Hankins.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #9 on: April 11, 2025, 11:17:42 PM »
No I have not. I can’t imagine being around a woman who was a narcissist. You did it for 10 years? As she sex out of this world? What kept you?

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #10 on: April 12, 2025, 12:12:31 AM »
Crazy I was blinded for 10 years and they lack empathy. Anyone have any good stories or experiences?

No, I worked for one, and that was bad...  but I watched a bunch of idiots vote for one twice for president which boggles my mind 

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #11 on: April 12, 2025, 12:39:53 AM »
Most modern women are narcissists while accusing all of their exes of being so.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #12 on: April 12, 2025, 01:22:28 AM »
I don't know. I have felt a lack of empathy.

But what I have seen is couples where both accuse each other of being a narcissist. And also a psychopath of course ;D

It's the classic amateur diagnosis I guess. And hey, maybe there are traits of those and maybe there are many cases where one would also get that diagnosis from an expert but these accusations are common from what I've seen. People do cold things to each other seemingly without a care.


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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #13 on: April 12, 2025, 01:22:49 AM »
I suspect the girl I'm ''dating'' right now is a narcissist, also one of my exes is definitely a narcissist, but then again, any human being who is extremely good looking, will become a narcissist, it's the way it is

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #14 on: April 12, 2025, 01:26:11 AM »
I suspect the girl I'm ''dating'' right now is a narcissist, also one of my exes is definitely a narcissist, but then again, any human being who is extremely good looking, will become a narcissist, it's the way it is

I'm not sure that's how it works, but maybe...


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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #15 on: April 12, 2025, 01:33:44 AM »
I'm not sure that's how it works, but maybe...
The majority of people are very ugly, only a very small percentage are incredibly good looking, of course these people will eventually become narcissist, it's their looks, the attention they get, etc, it gets to their head

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #16 on: April 12, 2025, 01:45:25 AM »
The majority of people are very ugly, only a very small percentage are incredibly good looking, of course these people will eventually become narcissist, it's their looks, the attention they get, etc, it gets to their head

I know what you mean, but I'm talking about "true" narcissists, which I think is related to psychopathy aka antisocial personality disorder. Beautiful people can get away with acting like a jackass, for a while, ugly people may have to emphasize other characteristics to get by, they could be fake in the other direction, but I'm pretty sure true psychos are pretty much born like that. They also can't be humbled enough to shed the trait. They can't ever be cured, which is the tragedy about it. At least that's how I understand it, but I'm far from an expert...

I do know psychiatrists always caution common folks from diagnosing others by looking at internet check lists. But like I said, I know what you mean for sure 8)

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #17 on: April 12, 2025, 01:50:02 AM »
I know what you mean, but I'm talking about "true" narcissists, which I think is related to psychopathy aka antisocial personality disorder. Beautiful people can get away with acting like a jackass, for a while, ugly people may have to emphasize other characteristics to get by, but I'm pretty sure true psychos are pretty much born like that. They also can't be humbled enough to shed the trait. They can't ever be cured, which is the tragedy about it. At least that's how I understand it, but I'm far from an expert...

I do know psychiatrists always caution common folks from diagnosing others by looking at internet check lists. But like I said, I know what you mean for sure 8)
This may sound crazy to you, but I have the theory that a large, very large percentage of the human population is in fact a narcissist, (NPD, narcissistic personality disorder), this is due to genetics, and the way they were brought up when they were little. Yes, people who have NPD are pretty much psychopaths

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #18 on: April 12, 2025, 02:02:43 AM »
This may sound crazy to you, but I have the theory that a large, very large percentage of the human population is in fact a narcissist, (NPD, narcissistic personality disorder), this is due to genetics, and the way they were brought up when they were little. Yes, people who have NPD are pretty much psychopaths

I don't know. They say true psychos wreak an incredible amount of havoc in society and it wouldn't ever function if that was the case. I have read the claim that rates of psychopathy is higher in blacks, maybe that's part of why Africa is how it is, in addition to the low IQ. I've also read that most psychos aren't super intelligent as some think.

"Approximately 70% of the population is estimated to have no psychopathic traits whatsoever. The remaining 30% have low, medium, or high levels of psychopathy."

And

"4.5% of the general population (or 1 in every 22 persons) is a psychopath."

IOW, the traits are common but the "true" ones are way less.


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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #19 on: April 12, 2025, 02:12:46 AM »
I don't know. They say true psychos wreak an incredible amount of havoc in society and it wouldn't ever function if that was the case. I have read the claim that rates of psychopathy is higher in blacks, maybe that's part of why Africa is how it is, in addition to the low IQ. I've also read that most psychos aren't super intelligent as some think.

"Approximately 70% of the population is estimated to have no psychopathic traits whatsoever. The remaining 30% have low, medium, or high levels of psychopathy."

And

"4.5% of the general population (or 1 in every 22 persons) is a psychopath."

IOW, the traits are common but the "true" ones are way less.
The percentage of psychopathy is debatable, there is a female psychologist who believes 1 out of 2 men is actually a psychopath. No one knows the exact percentage, also a true psychopath is usually the person that you meet and you are thinking ''what a charming, great guy he is'' not knowing that he's a wolf in sheep's clothing

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #20 on: April 12, 2025, 02:36:05 AM »
The percentage of psychopathy is debatable, there is a female psychologist who believes 1 out of 2 men is actually a psychopath. No one knows the exact percentage, also a true psychopath is usually the person that you meet and you are thinking ''what a charming, great guy he is'' not knowing that he's a wolf in sheep's clothing

Yes I know about the charming psychopath. Also great at love bombing at the start of relationships. The apparent emotions are just learned imitation. Very high casual sex partners, longer relationships harder.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #21 on: April 12, 2025, 02:51:14 AM »
The only time that Patrick1 see’s Danimal77 is when he looks in the mirror 😆

LOL... WTF do you know about dating anyone? Bwahahaha lololololol.

Holy Shit :D trying to imagine you on a date... with a woman... who's still alive. Oh brother
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #22 on: April 12, 2025, 04:32:31 AM »
I don't know. They say true psychos wreak an incredible amount of havoc in society and it wouldn't ever function if that was the case. I have read the claim that rates of psychopathy is higher in blacks, maybe that's part of why Africa is how it is, in addition to the low IQ. I've also read that most psychos aren't super intelligent as some think.

"Approximately 70% of the population is estimated to have no psychopathic traits whatsoever. The remaining 30% have low, medium, or high levels of psychopathy."

And

"4.5% of the general population (or 1 in every 22 persons) is a psychopath."

IOW, the traits are common but the "true" ones are way less.
lack of empathy and psychopathy are desireable traits for politicians

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #23 on: April 12, 2025, 04:47:03 AM »


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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #24 on: April 12, 2025, 04:50:53 AM »
No, I worked for one, and that was bad...  but I watched a bunch of idiots vote for one twice for president which boggles my mind


And Thankfully both times they were beaten by Trump.

Tough luck Khvntmala & Killery & all the Loony lefties who wasted their
vote on them.  Were you one of Them ??