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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #50 on: April 13, 2025, 09:03:14 AM »
Good post, me.
Royalty is that you?   :D

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #51 on: April 13, 2025, 09:07:55 AM »
Royalty is that you?   :D

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #52 on: April 13, 2025, 10:45:33 AM »
Bro...

LOL most everyone online "gets" a lot of chicks. Sometimes they don't have time for them though, or don't like their personalities.

Yeah, I doubt Pamith has much time for anything other than no-strings hookups with his busy schedule! I'm a huge fan of the guy, though. He cracks me up. The pictures of him raiding his fancy-dress box are hilarious.


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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #53 on: April 13, 2025, 11:01:22 AM »
I have. She was gorgeous - definitely a 10 by any standards. She looked a lot like Angie Harmon. No matter where we went she got stares.

Eventually I really got sick of the bitch. It was always about her. That makes the most beautiful woman become ugly in a flash. I regret the time I wasted with her.

My ex from my 20’s looked like Angie Harmon with lighter hair.
I don’t remember ever seeing anyone else that looked like them.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #54 on: April 13, 2025, 11:04:45 AM »
oh brother.... "he was a narcissist"

basically every woman ever after a breakup about their ex bf

and the new guy they're seeing is the "best thing ever happened to them"....  "soulmate"..  "never felt this way"  ::)

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #55 on: April 13, 2025, 11:11:31 AM »
oh brother.... "he was a narcissist"

basically every woman ever after a breakup about their ex bf

and the new guy they're seeing is the "best thing ever happened to them"... "never felt this way"  ::)

Don't forget the typical, 'I'm healing now, and I'll never let anyone steal my light in a toxic relationship ever again'

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #56 on: April 13, 2025, 12:10:07 PM »
oh brother.... "he was a narcissist"

basically every woman ever after a breakup about their ex bf

and the new guy they're seeing is the "best thing ever happened to them"....  "soulmate"..  "never felt this way"  ::)
For being masters of psychology women somehow get fooled a lot.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #57 on: April 13, 2025, 02:45:36 PM »
Yes I know about the charming psychopath. Also great at love bombing at the start of relationships. The apparent emotions are just learned imitation. Very high casual sex partners, longer relationships harder.
Like for example, you appear to be nice and charming, but in reality, maybe you are a psychopath?

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #58 on: April 13, 2025, 02:49:25 PM »
You’re not fooling anyone, you are for dicks.
Bro...

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #59 on: April 13, 2025, 11:52:17 PM »
Apparently he's LEO

Some security guards have excessively ornamental uniforms.

Then again, some psychopaths get their victims by impersonating cops.

The only people who know the answer are Pamith and the bodies under his porch.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #60 on: April 14, 2025, 01:01:25 AM »
Some security guards have excessively ornamental uniforms.

Then again, some psychopaths get their victims by impersonating cops.

The only people who know the answer are Pamith and the bodies under his porch.
Oh if only I could be a roach on one of his kitchen walls!!   ;D

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #61 on: April 14, 2025, 12:51:05 PM »
I`ve  gone out with total psychos when I was in my cups.

ln fact my first wife was an Italian beauty from the streets of the South Bronx that could fight like a man......we got married on the stage of a strip joint a she was as stripper herself, so I was a tad nutty myself......guns were drawn,fistfights, and I got my forehead smashed against a Trojan machine while my back was turned, and mind you I rented the bar and all who attended we`re invited.

A good time was had by all.  ;)

Don`t judge me,unless you want to,I was once crazier than I am today,and I`m nuttier than squirrel shit.   :D

I'm feeling a bit emotional tonight as I've just had yet another bereavement, so I hope GetBig can forgive me.  But at this point in my life I literally and honestly can only think of one regret I have at this time - I absolutely fucking KNOW that me and you would have partied the fuck out of wherever.  Your war-stories are so similar to mine....

Dammit... maybe in the next life dude...  :'(
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #62 on: April 14, 2025, 05:10:47 PM »
Like for example, you appear to be nice and charming, but in reality, maybe you are a psychopath?

It never crossed my mind when younger but later I was trying on all sorts of diagnoses, still do. I don't know but probably not, lots of other issues for sure. Could take those tests to see if I have few or many of those traits, or ask others, but I'm not sure if I want to know :-\ I think there are some diagnoses that I read psychs are reluctant to label their patients with because the label is stigmatizing, as well as not good for the patient to dwell on :D

As I and MAXX said those labels are always thrown around after breakups.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #63 on: April 14, 2025, 07:53:12 PM »
I'm feeling a bit emotional tonight as I've just had yet another bereavement, so I hope GetBig can forgive me.  But at this point in my life I literally and honestly can only think of one regret I have at this time - I absolutely fucking KNOW that me and you would have partied the fuck out of wherever.  Your war-stories are so similar to mine....

Dammit... maybe in the next life dude...  :'(
We would have had crazy fun,and ended up arrested a lot also.  :D

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #64 on: April 15, 2025, 12:23:05 AM »
We would have had crazy fun,and ended up arrested a lot also.  :D
why bro?

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #65 on: April 15, 2025, 02:43:41 AM »
why bro?

Because the younger version of me was always living dangerously - and from Wes' stories he definitely did!

But that was decades ago - I'm just your cookie-cutter family guy nowadays - it's the next generation's turn
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #66 on: April 15, 2025, 07:00:32 AM »
Because the younger version of me was always living dangerously - and from Wes' stories he definitely did!

But that was decades ago - I'm just your cookie-cutter family guy nowadays - it's the next generation's turn
Exactly.........I lived on the edge bigtime.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #67 on: April 15, 2025, 11:54:01 AM »
well I got really close to her kids the son especially I pretty much raised them about 3 years into our relationship he killed himself so I kinda stuck around for the kids and I didn’t wanna make them feel like they were abandoned. Especially the baby she was two years old when I came into her life. She’s now 12.

10 years together and you never married her?

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #68 on: April 15, 2025, 12:33:20 PM »
Nope

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #69 on: April 15, 2025, 12:34:42 PM »
After we broke up, she came clean, admitted to having a drug problem. I suspected it for sure, but had trust in her just thought she was mentally unstable which she was, but the drugs, which is cocaine added to it obviously, I had my blinders on.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #70 on: April 15, 2025, 05:11:54 PM »
But that was decades ago - I'm just your cookie-cutter family guy nowadays - it's the next generation's turn
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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #71 on: April 15, 2025, 08:27:39 PM »
Most modern women are narcissists while accusing all of their exes of being so.
So true.  I see it all the time.

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #72 on: April 15, 2025, 08:50:31 PM »
Because the younger version of me was always living dangerously

What like playing with your Masters of the Universe action figures in public when you were 17 years old at the opening night of the MOTU movie?

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #73 on: April 15, 2025, 09:28:07 PM »
No, I worked for one, and that was bad...  but I watched a bunch of idiots vote for one twice for president which boggles my mind

LMFAO.  How'd I miss this red meat?

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Re: Anybody ever date a narcissist?
« Reply #74 on: April 15, 2025, 10:46:25 PM »
What like playing with your Masters of the Universe action figures in public when you were 17 years old at the opening night of the MOTU movie?

Haha I remember the Dolph movie post

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