It's only Gay if you RECEIVE from the pool boy (No Homer Simpsia)
Rule no °1- its not gay if the balls don't touch.
In answer to OP's question
1. Strydom
2. Dillet
3. Matarazzo
4. Nubret
5. Prime Levrone.
There were so many good physique from NABBA , WABBA, AAU etc... its hard to say.
Jeff King would be a good choice, Belknap if he weren't 5'2". Phil Hill circa 1988. Mentzer 78.
Jusup Wilcosz...
Can't think of his name but he was an amateur guy who never made pro but was awesome had massive arms. Competed in the mid to late 80's.
If I had to pick just one to look like on a daily basis, probably Dillet.