1. Down size any large living space
2. Dont rescue adult children
3. Sell or give away any stuff that cost you more money to keep
4. Sell or give away items that you have more than 1 or 2 or 3 that you no longer need
5. Dont base your identity on your work
6. Give up gruges
7. Give up fear
8. Give up controlling behaviour
9. Give up perfectionism
10. Give up 'some day'