Only spend money on women you are already banging.
My wife pays for my dinners, literally. She buys all the groceries, gets carry-out. Sometimes she'll ask if I can go pick up some carry-out, and will leave her card so I can pay with it - lol!

I pay all the bigger things, like insurance, property taxes, phone, internet, tv, electrical, etc. She does pay the water bill though at least. Overall I am getting rolled here and paying for most of the stuff. Our home is about paid off, but I also made more payments than she has. But she's helped pay it off as well, at least.