First of all, thank you so much Johnny for taking the time to answer my post. I'll take a much closer look at the links tonight when I get home, but I can see they are quite in depth just from scrolling through. I already have the Robert Graves book, which is excellent, so obviously I've struck a gold mine of info here. (Guess your research abilities far exceed mine!)
The story of lilith being Adams "connected" wife or wife prior to Eve is a passage in the bible stating God made Adam(and his wife) as one. "He made them,Them he made". This is found in the Alphabet of Ben-Sira an early christian text from the middle ages.
Just as an aside, I've also read recently that according to some Judaic texts, Adam was purported to actually have had three wives, the second having been created from the earth, which repulsed Adam. It was only on the third try, with the meek and lovely Eve, that peace in Eden was finally attained.
In Modern magic or "new wicca" lilith is regarded as a feminine demon and embodies the power of feminism or females and is a symbol for the female.
For some strange reason, I thought there was some connection with the Moon Goddess, and I thought Lilith for some reason had more presence in the Wiccan faith.
(If I find anything, I'll post it, because I know everyone is just waiting with bated breath on this one. Who would deny that Bodybuilding + Wicca go together like a wink and a smile!)