Think of it like this Tox,
If there is an afterlife and we do live forever....
Then our life on earth is but twinkle in the infinity of time as we evolve as a spirit.
So as these times of extreme suffering occur they are but a pin prick when viewed in this perspective.
So perhaps the harder our life on earth is the more we grow as a spirit.
Where's my bong? I'm having a hippie moment! j/k
I like this response . . .
about the question, on one level, I think it must have something to do with choice. if God showed his face, we wouldn't have a choice.
but maybe "God" really doesn't give a shit about whether you believe in him, TA.
although I'm a churchgoer, i sometimes wonder about how "personal" the "God" is. We want him to do things for us, now . . . be someone we can relate to like a friend (and the Bible plays on this big time) . . . show his face, perform a miracle, etc.
but the Prime Mover (or whatever) of the Universe probably has bigger things on his/its plate. the Universe is huge and ancient and we're very small and insignificant in so many ways. even in the evolutionary sense. life on earth has its own imperatives, and as individuals we're not even aware of them. all we're worried about is stuff like getting laid and looking good and driving a nice car for the most part. and meanwhile, it all just keeps moving on. toward some obscure end . . .
but then again, they say that when a butterfly flaps its wings in China, it can cause a typhoon in the Southern Ocean. so maybe we do matter. or maybe the whole "butterfly effect" was just made up to make us feel better about ourselves.