Mayhem is definately all about ego stroking and "muscle worship" and there's rarely a new thread now a days. Get Big is full of hilarious antics and innuendo, definately more bang for the buck, so to speak. If you're gonna piss your time away at work, home,whatever, on bodybuilding board then getbig is second to none. If you're easily offended and hurt that someone owned you, then perhaps Mayhem, BB Dungeon, Iron Age,et. al. are for you, good luck staying awake though.