Shut up Allex
You will find people with low self esteems will ask the why questions, people that wish they could keep a sound diet, a sound training schedule, and look like you! This will come fromfamily mostly cause they have to adjust to it, they may say those things to keep you in balance which is fine every needs to think about expenses and having a life outside of the gym. But for the most part extended family, and friends will pretty much hate on you, sad but true. Take everything with a grain of salt if they offer suggestions consider them if they offer their opinion pass it up