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Re: if you were me
« Reply #25 on: September 13, 2006, 05:30:30 PM »
restraining order
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Re: if you were me
« Reply #26 on: September 13, 2006, 05:35:18 PM »
I'll pm you or you pm me if you seriously want my two cents


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Re: if you were me
« Reply #27 on: September 13, 2006, 05:37:58 PM »
I went through this before myself and with a friend that I helped too

things rarely get better

things tend to get worse

get a support group and network

thats all
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Re: if you were me
« Reply #28 on: September 14, 2006, 01:27:17 AM »
WOW!!! This was one hard thread to follow although i tried...no more pub stops for awhile, ok xxxLinda?

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #29 on: September 14, 2006, 03:34:25 AM »
Ya it was, and I'm still confused.  ???
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Re: if you were me
« Reply #30 on: September 14, 2006, 04:48:29 AM »
Ya it was, and I'm still confused.  ???

If I was only allowed to speak on this topic I could clear it up in just a couple posts..:)

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #31 on: September 14, 2006, 05:21:26 AM »
If I was only allowed to speak on this topic I could clear it up in just a couple posts..:)
and you can't why??
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Re: if you were me
« Reply #32 on: September 14, 2006, 05:34:31 AM »
and you can't why??

I promised Ms Stella I would be good and not engage in activities that could upset the delicate balance of the feminine echosystem here..:) Surfice to say I am in the camp that thinks sometimes what is seen is not what actually is true.

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #33 on: September 14, 2006, 06:09:04 AM »

I've already said I'm not pressing charges, i'm scared of him
If thats the case I would honestly go to the police or get a lawyer involved and get a restraining order against him. These kinds of situations never get better. Only worse. Try to move on. There are lots of people out there that would be happy to be with you, LindaXXX.

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #34 on: September 14, 2006, 11:07:24 AM »
I promised Ms Stella I would be good and not engage in activities that could upset the delicate balance of the feminine echosystem here..:) Surfice to say I am in the camp that thinks sometimes what is seen is not what actually is true.

You know damn well.  But.....

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #35 on: September 14, 2006, 11:08:32 AM »
restraining order


that might be my best bet


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Re: if you were me
« Reply #36 on: September 14, 2006, 11:16:50 AM »
be happy


Thanks, playbody.


I realise I'm banging on about this way too much, but it's still happening. 

And, at risk of repeating myself, I repeat:

I brought this bloke home from the pub: Last Friday in July.  That was nice.  Then he came back to my house on the following Monday.  I made him a cup of tea and he said are you online?  He went on my computer and left himself logged onto getbig.  I found his thread and went mental.


I promise I've had a life since, but I'm still debating.  I feel sorry for him.  He






oh fuck it.
the cops are still phoning me.  The landlady at the pub he trashed after he kicked in my door has forgiven him too.  I feel sorry for his wife and kid (if they're not fictional

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #37 on: September 14, 2006, 11:18:32 AM »
things rarely get better

things tend to get worse







i disagree.  things can only get better

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #38 on: September 14, 2006, 11:30:57 AM »
can you tell us this bloke's getbig name?
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Re: if you were me
« Reply #39 on: September 14, 2006, 11:31:44 AM »
WOW!!! This was one hard thread to follow although i tried...no more pub stops for awhile, ok xxxLinda?

Lisa

no, i can still go to the pub.  he's barred.



He logged back on on the Wednesday (2nd August) and read all of the crap I'd written.  Then Always Sore and YoMammaBeenLurking and Deedee and flower egged me on.  We sent him spare.  Then he kicked in my door and took out 3 or 4 local pubs.

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don't know whether anyone got hurt

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #40 on: September 14, 2006, 11:33:05 AM »
can you tell us this bloke's getbig name?

it's a little name:  tingnting

sorry, cheri, it's a very long story
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Re: if you were me
« Reply #41 on: September 14, 2006, 11:34:28 AM »

Thanks, playbody.


I realise I'm banging on about this way too much, but it's still happening. 

And, at risk of repeating myself, I repeat:

I brought this bloke home from the pub: Last Friday in July.  That was nice.  Then he came back to my house on the following Monday.  I made him a cup of tea and he said are you online?  He went on my computer and left himself logged onto getbig.  I found his thread and went mental.


I promise I've had a life since, but I'm still debating.  I feel sorry for him.  He






oh f**k it.
the cops are still phoning me.  The landlady at the pub he trashed after he kicked in my door has forgiven him too.  I feel sorry for his wife and kid (if they're not fictional
Its Playboy, but i'll forgive you LindaXXX.  ;)

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #42 on: September 14, 2006, 11:38:45 AM »
paul j brady.  if you look on the inheritance thread, you can read his ebay account, his gambling habits and his payforsex account.

also, my details have been internetted there.

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #43 on: September 14, 2006, 11:40:44 AM »
Its Playboy, but i'll forgive you LindaXXX.  ;)

i like spelling things funny.  Thanks for forgiving me playbuddy


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Re: if you were me
« Reply #44 on: September 14, 2006, 11:42:01 AM »
it's a little name:  tingnting

sorry, cheri, it's a very long story
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He's mean  >:(  But he's also in Time-Out  ;D
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Re: if you were me
« Reply #45 on: September 14, 2006, 11:44:25 AM »
oh really?  he's barred from getbig too?

that will really piss him off

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #46 on: September 14, 2006, 11:49:11 AM »
this is not a good idea, as he can still read it as a guest.  He's more obsessed with getbig than i am.

I'm still scared of him (he lives down the road) and i'm still standing in the comfort of my living room on my computer.  Sad eh?


At one point it made me feel powerful.  Every day I feel something different.  I need to get past this

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #47 on: September 14, 2006, 11:50:39 AM »
If I was only allowed to speak on this topic I could clear it up in just a couple posts..:)



pleeeeeeeeaaaaaaasssssss e, Always?

I'm asking really nicely xL

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Re: if you were me
« Reply #48 on: September 14, 2006, 11:53:54 AM »
this is not a good idea, as he can still read it as a guest.  He's more obsessed with getbig than i am.

I'm still scared of him (he lives down the road) and i'm still standing in the comfort of my living room on my computer.  Sad eh?


At one point it made me feel powerful.  Every day I feel something different.  I need to get past this

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I guess just ignore, don't provoke and always stay cautious would be the best advice.  He'll eventually realize there's more to his life and move on.
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Re: if you were me
« Reply #49 on: September 14, 2006, 11:57:44 AM »
i provoked him big time, here. 

I cannot ignore it as the cops expect me to give evidence