Easy it's like this, If your dancing with the girl dont worry about the music, follow her lead, just go opposite of her or follow her hips, it will get you by. If your dancing by yourself watch some BET son and learn how to move your shoulders thats all anyone does in the club anymore anyways. And big huge doormen don't get alot of women, its us medium fit guys that get all the women and we work doors to. Not as scary compared to you guys with 18 inch arms.. you guys get yours but thats after weve already had em... haha just f*cking wit yall