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Considering most of the time we get negative attention from "normal people" surrounding us in our everyday life, we sometimes wonder "why am i doing this to myself? i mean, its like people are not even able to admire and recognize the work,dedication and determination and will to be better required to achieve this"
So we start to act and think like egocentric people, cause we cant get positive attention from people, and we have to find some satisfaction, some pride , "something", from what we did to ourselves.
And the cycle goes on...
I and a friend in particular, discussed about it recently, and we figured out that we both get NEGATIVE attention MOSTLY from men . Aggressivity, insecurity come mainly from other skinny or out of shape men,and god know they are numerous.
Its like feeling comfortable with ourselves makes em uncomfortable, like if we were mirror reflecting their laziness, their lack of will and drive in every circonstances.
Even when you don't even want to hurt their feelings, you put em to shame once you get sleeveless, they cant say shit and stay still, speechless, and you can see they re about to have anervous breakdown (epsecially if their girlfirend is by their side)
We figured out that most of the time, even if we re not in a bad mood, we have to act aggressively with these people, even if we dont want to be assholes, they force us into acting like ones cause they do their best to make themselves look better compared to you.
So what are we supposed to do? most of the time we just bash em ridiculing their physique or their insecurity, and case is closed.
Sometimes few people may admire you and try to make friends with you, but after a while they too would start to be jealous and disgusted cause they cant touch what you achieved.
We can also see some women from time to time who are so pissed to be with skinny or fat losers that they start to hate on you cause you re not "their" guy and they havent been able to seduce you (they lost at the lottery)
In fact, we figured out that being muscular mostly got us NEGATIVE ATTENTION from the average joe.
Even if you act cool and humble, people would try to start shit with you cause they feel so uncomfortable.
But... Arent these guys the "anormal" people?
honnestly now, dont you guys think THEY are the weakest link, the abominations of nature, with their scrawny asses, bags of bones or disgusting tub of lards?
Arent THEY THE "ANORMAL" people?
ISnt a muscular guy what a man should be?
Judging by how most women react when we're in the place, looks like we are the real men.
I use to say, "i'm not abnormally muscular, you re just abnormally skinny"
ITs all a matter of perception heh?
IN my mind, they have an abnormally underdevelloped muscularity.
Just wanted to share this with a bigger audience.
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Well thats a grade A meltdown.
But i understand what you are talkin about.
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just trying to start a smart thread for once...
What the point of doing something that most of the time get you negative attention from the others?
When you think about it, it makes no sens at all.
Ok, most of us dont care about what the other may say/think, but come on, we all sometimes wonder why people arent more open minded about it.
Not later than two hours ago i was going back home by train from work, and had a bitch staring at me for all the route, so i know that being muscular will be the way to go for the rest of my life, but all the other negative people are really getting on my nerves.
Cant do much about it, not going to change i guess, so i guess i have to destroy em instead of just ignoring em.
Problem is, you cant be an asshole 24/24 7/7, and when you think about it, THEY RE FORCING YOU INTO GETTING AN ASSHOLE... they re asking for it.
And you re finally doing what they want you to do...ironic isnt it.
Most of serious lifters who achieved good builds i know, are most of the time really cool, down to earth and positive people. Some of em are even far more smarter than the average joe.
But when we chat, we always end talking about how "other people" just cant stand us.
I think "normal" people are far more intolerant, ignorant and aggressive than "us".
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meltdown.
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Hey man don't you know the rules.....if you write anything longer than two paragraphs around here it's by default marked as a meltdown. Any content regardless of however good it may be will be ignored.
Good post though
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Considering most of the time we get negative attention from "normal people" surrounding us in our everyday life, we sometimes wonder "why am i doing this to myself? i mean, its like people are not even able to admire and recognize the work,dedication and determination and will to be better required to achieve this"
So we start to act and think like egocentric people, cause we cant get positive attention from people, and we have to find some satisfaction, some pride , "something", from what we did to ourselves.
And the cycle goes on...
I and a friend in particular, discussed about it recently, and we figured out that we both get NEGATIVE attention MOSTLY from men . Aggressivity, insecurity come mainly from other skinny or out of shape men,and god know they are numerous.
Its like feeling comfortable with ourselves makes em uncomfortable, like if we were mirror reflecting their laziness, their lack of will and drive in every circonstances.
Even when you don't even want to hurt their feelings, you put em to shame once you get sleeveless, they cant say shit and stay still, speechless, and you can see they re about to have anervous breakdown (epsecially if their girlfirend is by their side)
We figured out that most of the time, even if we re not in a bad mood, we have to act aggressively with these people, even if we dont want to be assholes, they force us into acting like ones cause they do their best to make themselves look better compared to you.
So what are we supposed to do? most of the time we just bash em ridiculing their physique or their insecurity, and case is closed.
Sometimes few people may admire you and try to make friends with you, but after a while they too would start to be jealous and disgusted cause they cant touch what you achieved.
We can also see some women from time to time who are so pissed to be with skinny or fat losers that they start to hate on you cause you re not "their" guy and they havent been able to seduce you (they lost at the lottery)
In fact, we figured out that being muscular mostly got us NEGATIVE ATTENTION from the average joe.
Even if you act cool and humble, people would try to start shit with you cause they feel so uncomfortable.
But... Arent these guys the "anormal" people?
honnestly now, dont you guys think THEY are the weakest link, the abominations of nature, with their scrawny asses, bags of bones or disgusting tub of lards?
Arent THEY THE "ANORMAL" people?
ISnt a muscular guy what a man should be?
Judging by how most women react when we're in the place, looks like we are the real men.
I use to say, "i'm not abnormally muscular, you re just abnormally skinny"
ITs all a matter of perception heh?
IN my mind, they have an abnormally underdevelloped muscularity.
Just wanted to share this with a bigger audience.
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Hey man don't you know the rules.....if you write anything longer than two paragraphs around here it's by default marked as a meltdown. Any content regardless of however good it may be will be ignored.
Good post though
I know the board is filled 99,9% by pure crap, and that down to earth and actually INTERESTING threads are now rare, but why dont u guys share your thoughts on that matter.
I mean, at least my thread is really about weightlifters and our way of life...
Oh, and another thing, english is not my mother tongue, and i think i made significant progresses compared to my previous threads from 1 year ago ...
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I know the board is filled 99,9% by pure crap, and that down to earth and actually INTERESTING threads are now rare, but why dont u guys share your thoughts on that matter.
I mean, at least my thread is really about weightlifters and our way of life...
Oh, and another thing, english is not my mother tongue, and i think i made significant progresses compared to my previous threads from 1 year ago ...
Oh, your english is fine. Where are you from?
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Oh, your english is fine. Where are you from?
if i tell you "guys, cowards,backstabbers, irevelant,losers", which european country comes to your mind ? ;D
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if i tell you "guys, cowards,backstabbers, irevelant,losers", which european country comes to your mind ? ;D
This sounds like New Zealand. But wait, you said Europe.
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if i tell you "guys, cowards,backstabbers, irevelant,losers", which european country comes to your mind ? ;D
France?
losers would point to germany though...
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if i tell you "guys, cowards,backstabbers, irevelant,losers", which european country comes to your mind ? ;D
Italy?
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France?
losers would point to germany though...
you got it, france.
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This sounds like New Zealand. But wait, you said Europe.
Awww.....looks like I upset my little friend :-*
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you got it, france.
bonsoir!! ca va?
ilya ne pas beaucoup des francoises ici.
je pense que la france est une place tres belle. je parles pas francais, j'ai oublie tous.
mais les filles sont tres jolie. ;D ;D ;D
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hahhahaha, now i think about it, almost all european countries are as pathetic as france...spain, italy, germany...bah, getting a visa for canada, moving once for all from this dying muslim-infested shithole under one or two years.
Can we now get back on topic ?
Muslim infested shithole, that characterizes europe pretty good!
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hahahahaha ;D
not bad.
where are you from?
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bonsoir!! ca va?
ilya ne pas beaucoup des francoises ici.
je pense que la france est une place tres belle. je parles pas francais, j'ai oublie tous.
mais les filles sont tres jolie. ;D ;D ;D
Damn! Speak french too?Great!
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hahahahaha ;D
not bad.
where are you from?
germany.
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if i tell you "guys, cowards,backstabbers, irevelant,losers", which european country comes to your mind ? ;D
wow, i didnt even read that entire rant, but im pretty sure you are gay. meltdown
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germany.
so you have the same flood of backward camel fuckers coming from the south ruining your country and replacing your people in a schyzophrenic mix of failed melting pot and affirmative action thanks to our neutered politics...
Shock of civilizations...south slowly invading and getting control of northern nations.
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Damn! Speak french too?Great!
no, not really.
If you grow up in europe and keep your ears open, you can learn the basics in italian, french, spanish, german or english pretty fast.
I can read all those languages to a certain degree, as they are very similar, but when i try to speak, i mix it up with japanese.
Japanese took all my brains memory. ;D ;D
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no, not really.
If you grow up in europe and keep your ears open, you can learn the basics in italian, french, spanish, german or english pretty fast.
I can read all those languages to a certain degree, as they are very similar, but when i try to speak, i mix it up with japanese.
Japanese took all my brains memory. ;D ;D
same for me, as my english skills are growing, my french is getting replaced, i mean i 'm thinking in english, using english words while speaking french... instead of adding a new language, i'm replacing my mother tongue.
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so you have the same flood of backward camel fuckers coming from the south ruining your country and replacing your people in a schyzophrenic mix of failed melting pot and affirmative action thanks to your neutered politics...
Yes, way too much. I hate these backwards oriented assholes. Most of them live in germany for 40 years and have "saved" their muslim ethics from before 40 years. Their own countries may have changed, but they haven't.
Thanks to Hitler and his crew we're unable to say any word against a foreigner, otherwise we're labeled as "racist".
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same for me, as my english skills are growing, my french is getting replaced, i mean i 'm thinking in english, using english words while speaking french... instead of adding a new language, i'm replacing my mother tongue.
But you've that funny accent, don't you? :D
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Yes, way too much. I hate these backwards oriented assholes. Most of them live in germany for 40 years and have "saved" their muslim ethics from before 40 years. Their own countries may have changed, but they haven't.
Thanks to Hitler and his crew we're unable to say any word against a foreigner, otherwise we're labeled as "racist".
the sad thing is, and thats why we re moving i and my girl to north america, we ve lost this fight.
they re now too numerous, outnumbering our natality rates (even if biased and socialist medias keep not saying it like it is) and will take control politically, economically and socially of our aging and brainwashed european populations.
It's not rare here in france to see or hear from white people being hunting down the streets by ethnic gangs.Its now common.
But since our politics and medias are all neutered carreerists, it s not going to change...
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Thanks to Hitler and his crew we're unable to say any word against a foreigner, otherwise we're labeled as "racist".
yes that is the reason, talk about a backfire, because of the nazis, europe (and the western world for that matter) are deathly afraid to say or do anything that could possibly be interpreted as 'racist'. political correctness has gone waaaay to far. europe will now willingly lay down and let anyone walk all over them apparently. all thanks to hitler's efforts to do the opposite.
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no, not really.
If you grow up in europe and keep your ears open, you can learn the basics in italian, french, spanish, german or english pretty fast.
I can read all those languages to a certain degree, as they are very similar, but when i try to speak, i mix it up with japanese.
Japanese took all my brains memory. ;D ;D
Yeah, my language is shitty to learn.i know it because i did japanese teacher little bit in here.
You guys germany are brilliant. I had a germany girl friend who can speak english,french and spanish.
But, here in spain, lower level of education. They dont even speak english.
I went to dusserdolf 2 years ago with my wife and Germanys are all inteligent.
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yes that is the reason, talk about a backfire, because of the nazis, europe (and the western world for that matter) are deathly afraid to say or do anything that could possibly be interpreted as 'racist'. political correctness has gone waaaay to far. europe will now willingly lay down and let anyone walk all over them apparently. all thanks to hitler's efforts to do the opposite.
the way i see it; muslims , allied to chinese, will take control of europe and russia over the next decades (its going to happen quicker than we think considering the muslim friendly africans are breeding 4x faster than the natives), and the last whiteys will stand in north america and another major world conflict will take place.
When you think about it, there s awar going on currently, a silentious war, a birth war, and we far from winning it, anywhere in the western world.Considering they re growing in number and are hostile to us, and that they immediately start to act violently against everything that is white once they represent the majority, we re about to face a major racial/civilisational conflict worldwide.
i talk with a lot of elite youths from all europeans country at my current work, highly skilled guys and girls , and they re all planning to head to north america in the next 5 years.
European native population is quickly getting replaced by massive injections of unassimilable and highly hostile to west civilisation people, the vast majority of em being muslim friendly...
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Yeah, my language is shitty to learn.i know it because i did japanese teacher little bit in here.
You guys germany are brilliant. I had a germany girl friend who can speak english,french and spanish.
But, here in spain, lower level of education. They dont even speak english.
I went to dusserdolf 2 years ago with my wife and Germanys are all inteligent.
Duesseldorf is cool. I live in that area. Me and my girlfriend often go shopping there.
Tomorrow, we're going to Duesseldorf to do karaoke! ;D ;D
But, germans aren't overly intelligent. Most people don't speak proper english as well. french is very rare, as well as spanish. other than that is only a few. Most people are dumb as shit, actually.
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Duesseldorf is cool. I live in that area. Me and my girlfriend often go shopping there.
Tomorrow, we're going to Duesseldorf to do karaoke! ;D ;D
But, germans aren't overly intelligent. Most people don't speak proper english as well. french is very rare, as well as spanish. other than that is only a few. Most people are dumb as shit, actually.
haha yeah i heard you. They dont care about anything, the "ennemy" is the vile America, they piss on the usa on a daily basis, while buying nike shoes, american made video games, drinking coca cola and watching the last american made Tv soap.
Europeans have turned into a vast piece of hippie/communist crap. They re not going to understand what will hit them.
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haha yeah i heard you. They dont care about anything, the "ennemy" is the vile America, they piss on the usa on a daily basis, while buying nike shoes, american made video games, drinking coca cola and watching the last american made Tv soap.
Europeans have turned into a vast piece of hippie/communist crap. They re not going to understand what will hit them.
Yup, totally agree.
They hate america while listeing to rap music and shoving down burgers.
I'll be moving away in 1 or 2 years, so then i'm hopefully gone when the shit hits the fan.
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what's are you talking about finurface. one of the best things about being big is making small bitches insecure
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Finurface=Fecesinyourface......
If this is you from ya know,,,,wayyyy back in the day, you cannot be talkin about yourself in your original post. I remember the pics! 8)
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what's are you talking about finurface. one of the best things about being big is making small bitches insecure
sure, but...what when this little bitch is a colleague, or someone "above" you in the hierarchy if you see what i mean.
Or when the little bitch, is actually with 5 others littles bitches, all carrying knives and other funny stuff?
You have to be careful with all these little bitches, cause considering they are more numerous, the odds they drive you crazy before you "own em" are high.
And i'm sick of that.
IN perfet world these losers should just give it up, but in your everydaylife, they re doing their best to piss you off especially at work,using lame and harrassing tactics you have to counter constantly.
I know from my personnal experience most people hate me at my work place, and that they wish they could go train with me an hour per day like i do with some of my best friends/colleagues. I know they re scared shitless of me cause not only am i smart when it comes to work, but i am a highly muscled (in their own view) guy too...so they cant touch me and are affraid i could make fun of em or ridicule em about their physique if they try to get too personal with me
. But... Why dont they simply stop hating on me, and do seomthing about themsleves, instead of being losers by the day?
These people are doing the same shit since months now, no drive, no will, always complaining about how life is so unjust and that "if only they could" they would look and feel good...
Most people are idiots, sheeps, without an ounce of will and jealeous haters. And I learned it from lifting weights and becoming someone "different" from the others losers.
IN conclusion, i think i get more troubles /negative attention from being muscular than i thought in the first place.
I think it makes people scared, angry, and all in all, doesnt make me as happy as i should i would be.
But, it for sure did a lot of good to me over the years. It helped me a lot to keep heading forward in several occasions.
And it made me the good guy i think i am today.So it's a part of me.
I just hope I ll find a way to make people stop acting like sore losers when they first meet me.
I got a lot of positive attention and created a lot of major relationships thanks to being a confident,muscular guy;
Being different and more confident than "normal people" acted as a filter, which allows me to see quicker than ever who s a frustrated loser and who's someone worth my attention.
But as soon as this filter started to work well, i quickly figured out the sad and obvious reality:
most people are worth shit.
And only a very few are worth it.
I think i'm so fucking sick of bumping into the same closed-minded people randomly, that im going to become even more self centered, (didnt say "egocentric" ) more focused on my own hapiness, my precious loved ones (very few), and that all in all im not gonna wait anything from anyone like i did until now.
In fact i have nothing to learn from these people, im far more advanced psychologically and physically than em, and they just should thank god to cross my road and if i bless em with a look at their pathetic existence.
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Finurface=Fecesinyourface......
If this is you from ya know,,,,wayyyy back in the day, you cannot be talkin about yourself in your original post. I remember the pics! 8)
I have changed ;)
I finally joined a gym 6 months ago...and i got my legs triceps and chest growing, im not the "upper bodybuilder /typical beach body" guy anymore ;)
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I have changed ;)
I finally joined a gym 6 months ago...and i got my legs triceps and chest growing, im not the "upper bodybuilder /typical beach body" guy anymore ;)
Glad to read that. Keep at it! 8)
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you got it, france.
France!? Nothing there except cheese-eating surrender-monkeys. ;)
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Considering most of the time we get negative attention from "normal people" surrounding us in our everyday life, we sometimes wonder "why am i doing this to myself? i mean, its like people are not even able to admire and recognize the work,dedication and determination and will to be better required to achieve this"
So we start to act and think like egocentric people, cause we cant get positive attention from people, and we have to find some satisfaction, some pride , "something", from what we did to ourselves.
And the cycle goes on...
I and a friend in particular, discussed about it recently, and we figured out that we both get NEGATIVE attention MOSTLY from men . Aggressivity, insecurity come mainly from other skinny or out of shape men,and god know they are numerous.
Its like feeling comfortable with ourselves makes em uncomfortable, like if we were mirror reflecting their laziness, their lack of will and drive in every circonstances.
Even when you don't even want to hurt their feelings, you put em to shame once you get sleeveless, they cant say shit and stay still, speechless, and you can see they re about to have anervous breakdown (epsecially if their girlfirend is by their side)
We figured out that most of the time, even if we re not in a bad mood, we have to act aggressively with these people, even if we dont want to be assholes, they force us into acting like ones cause they do their best to make themselves look better compared to you.
So what are we supposed to do? most of the time we just bash em ridiculing their physique or their insecurity, and case is closed.
Sometimes few people may admire you and try to make friends with you, but after a while they too would start to be jealous and disgusted cause they cant touch what you achieved.
We can also see some women from time to time who are so pissed to be with skinny or fat losers that they start to hate on you cause you re not "their" guy and they havent been able to seduce you (they lost at the lottery)
In fact, we figured out that being muscular mostly got us NEGATIVE ATTENTION from the average joe.
Even if you act cool and humble, people would try to start shit with you cause they feel so uncomfortable.
But... Arent these guys the "anormal" people?
honnestly now, dont you guys think THEY are the weakest link, the abominations of nature, with their scrawny asses, bags of bones or disgusting tub of lards?
Arent THEY THE "ANORMAL" people?
ISnt a muscular guy what a man should be?
Judging by how most women react when we're in the place, looks like we are the real men.
I use to say, "i'm not abnormally muscular, you re just abnormally skinny"
ITs all a matter of perception heh?
IN my mind, they have an abnormally underdevelloped muscularity.
Just wanted to share this with a bigger audience.
Do you even have muscles?
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the sad thing is, and thats why we re moving i and my girl to north america, we ve lost this fight.
they re now too numerous, outnumbering our natality rates (even if biased and socialist medias keep not saying it like it is) and will take control politically, economically and socially of our aging and brainwashed european populations.
It's not rare here in france to see or hear from white people being hunting down the streets by ethnic gangs.Its now common.
But since our politics and medias are all neutered carreerists, it s not going to change...
We'd welcome you in America finurface. Right now we are at war with our own - spineless liberals who are destroying our country within. While not as bad as Europe, they are still here, and have recently acquired much more power. These are the people that blame their own country (America) for trying to fight the threat you talk about. They take the side of those who want us dead, and call anyone who stands against them racist. It is refreshing to hear a European finally speak the truth.
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We'd welcome you in America finurface. Right now we are at war with our own - spineless liberals who are destroying our country within. While not as bad as Europe, they are still here, and have recently acquired much more power. These are the people that blame their own country (America) for trying to fight the threat you talk about. They take the side of those who want us dead, and call anyone who stands against them racist. It is refreshing to hear a European finally speak the truth.
I fear the replacement processus may take rid of the american rampart too over some decades.Thats why we re moving to canada; we just want to live as far away of the big cities as possible , in little white communities. But yeah, i'm aware of america's slow sliding into another socialist shithole.
Pelosi taking control, bush being more and more disaproved, iraq war have been painted as a distaster / quagmire by medias and politics...
When in fact the lesson to be learned from iraq is; these fucking camel fuckers are too stupid to deserve euqality, liberty and peace.
The mistake was to believe they wanted it, when in fact they dont care about it and just want to kill each other.
And America did the mistake to think they needed help... they dont want it, they dont want to mature, and worse...they now want to come here in our mainlands (alrdy done in europe), and start to destroy us from inside, thanks to the politically correct bulshits.
We re basically opening our doors to people who want to destroy us by any means, and who know they re going to take control of our soil only by having more babies than we do.
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I read about half of that and I guess my input is that it's best not to get angry or get egotistical, but to rise above it and just focus on what you're doing. These people in your way are just tiny distractions that aren't worth bothering with.
If no one liked your muscles, why should you care? If you love it, why get angry? They're the ones that are angry and jealous, so let them be insecure with themselves while you focus on making yourself a better person, mentally and physically.
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So you finally joined a gym and now everyone is staring at you. ::)
wait until you have been a member for 1 month...they won't be able to control themselves around the monster that you will be
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I don't know you, I have never met you..and I hate you too
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Do you even have muscles?
No, that's why he's aggressive. :D
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I fear the replacement processus may take rid of the american rampart too over some decades.Thats why we re moving to canada; we just want to live as far away of the big cities as possible , in little white communities.
Speaking as a Canadian: Please go elsewhere. Perhaps a compound with an armed perimeter in Idaho would suit you better. :)