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Title: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 14, 2009, 12:39:44 PM
Ok so I know this is probably been done to death on here but i need help...

PLease give me some ideas ladies and gents

Ive gone through all the normal stuff but would like it to be a tad different. This is the best ive come up with so far.

http://mixershouston.hmns.org/ 

Its a museum that opens up and serves drinks and has live music...

im open to any ideas let me hear them
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 14, 2009, 05:51:29 PM
even though we bicker on the politix....here is toxic advice...

DO NOT go to a museum or a movie or where there r distractions right off the bat....you r avoiding conversation and using filler material that will do the conversation for you.

make reservations at a semi decent resturant...(NOT an arm and a leg place)...Houstons steak house...ummm..ruth christs....a hole in the wall place that has REALLY good food.....just a nice place without it being overboard...

be confident...not in a " o i can do ya anytime i want" way...but " i'm honest and witty and charming but have a bit of a brazen streak" kinda way

...TALK...and MAKE HER TALK...without it seeming forced...you either got this or not..srry...i'm for example a natural talker...sex does not factor into this...i can talk to a friggin donkeys behind..

IF dinner goes well...go watch a movie...after of course asking her casually " up for a movie"?
if movie is sold out...have a backup coffee place in mind...and again TALK!


most importantly..BE YOURSELF...its ok to lose a girl being yourself..than having one being fake...


i speaketh a gem....MY girl loves me unconditionally...honest ...i've turned into quite the ugly fuck
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 14, 2009, 05:55:17 PM
n o...watch her table manners over dinner...watch her language...watch her mannerism and the way she carries herself
if she has got none on the first date....TRUST ME... SHE IS NOT WORTH  THE HASSLE

tox has speaketh
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 14, 2009, 06:18:20 PM
Sex.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 14, 2009, 06:28:44 PM
Sex.

= non girlfriend material..on the first date...

and if she has EVER done that..non GF material....

whats the difference between a slut and a stud?

to be a stud..u need charm...charisma...perso nality...looks..
to be a slut....well...kinda just gotta..umm show up!

SOMEONEs gonna do ya and tel ya its the best he had :-\
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 14, 2009, 06:57:03 PM
= non girlfriend material..on the first date...

and if she has EVER done that..non GF material....

whats the difference between a slut and a stud?

to be a stud..u need charm...charisma...perso nality...looks..
to be a slut....well...kinda just gotta..umm show up!

SOMEONEs gonna do ya and tel ya its the best he had :-\

I'm not a male chauvinist. Something trivial like sex has no bearing on how I perceive women.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 14, 2009, 07:05:28 PM
I'm not a male chauvinist. Something trivial like sex has no bearing on how I perceive women.

same concept different story...

so doc...you'd value being a doctor just as much if EVERYONE ws a doctor?

...think not....i think it'd pay less...no?

me...i kinda like chalanges..things that r hard to get...
if a douchebag can get it...i am not interested...
i like aiming higher ;)


heehee ;D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 14, 2009, 07:07:59 PM
n jake...quit riding my ass on getbig ya fuck >:(

lemme know when u r gonna be in MD....les do an OC weekend...my girl will prolly be with us...but she's cool..she wont mind us going to a niteclub without her...a boys nite out...for 1 of the nites..

not really fair to leave her by herself for both nites..

you'll like her...she is easy going :)  hell bring your girl....then we can ditch both ;D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 14, 2009, 07:16:30 PM
same concept different story...

so doc...you'd value being a doctor just as much if EVERYONE ws a doctor?

...think not....i think it'd pay less...no?

me...i kinda like chalanges..things that r hard to get...
if a douchebag can get it...i am not interested...
i like aiming higher ;)

heehee ;D

Cooter is cooter, Juni. There's no correlation between how long getting into someone's pants takes and what level of quality person they are. That's an old wives tail started by romantics and fools.

I suggested "sex" because you don't want to waste any time dating someone if there's no compatibility.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 14, 2009, 07:26:10 PM
Cooter is cooter, Juni.


thats like saying ..a diamond is a diamond....and a steak is a steak and wine is wine and bud lite is equal to a belgian award winning beer

Quote
romantics and fools.
  guilty as charged
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 14, 2009, 11:53:04 PM
even though we bicker on the politix....here is toxic advice...

DO NOT go to a museum or a movie or where there r distractions right off the bat....you r avoiding conversation and using filler material that will do the conversation for you.

make reservations at a semi decent resturant...(NOT an arm and a leg place)...Houstons steak house...ummm..ruth christs....a hole in the wall place that has REALLY good food.....just a nice place without it being overboard...

be confident...not in a " o i can fuck ya anytime i want" way...but " i'm honest and witty and charming but have a bit of a brazen streak" kinda way

...TALK...and MAKE HER TALK...without it seeming forced...you either got this or not..srry...i'm for example a natural talker...sex does not factor into this...i can talk to a friggin donkeys behind..

IF dinner goes well...go watch a movie...after of course asking her casually " up for a movie"?
if movie is sold out...have a backup coffee place in mind...and again TALK!


most importantly..BE YOURSELF...its ok to lose a girl being yourself..than having one being fake...


i speaketh a gem....MY girl loves me unconditionally...honest ...i've turned into quite the ugly fuck
yesh yesh brothers in iron are always brothers in iron or brothers in getbig as it were...we may disagree(240's ass annoys the shit out of me on that board but he is still cool in my book, dont tell his ass though) but youre still a brother...

Ive actually hung out with her a few times in a social setting she is the little sister of a friends g/f...
she has very good manners and very shy, im not the guy with a lot of game and she isnt the talkative girl but for some reason im am the guy with alot of converstation naturally around her  ??? i have no damn clue why...

I felt the same way about the live music and such, i.e. we wouldnt have the chance to talk and get to know one another but being a museum hopefully we would be able to get away a little bit and have it be somewhat quite. I was planning a dinner either before or after. Ok new plan dinner, museum/drinks/music, either a show at the museum or dive bar...sound better?

Kaje I love your advice the majority of the time brosky, we agree on most things but if i was simply looking for ass I wouldnt put this much effort into it...
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 14, 2009, 11:53:58 PM
LADIES WHERE ARE YOU AT???

this is what getbig is for a sounding board I need advice from the female side  :-[ ???
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 15, 2009, 04:23:23 AM
yesh yesh brothers in iron are always brothers in iron or brothers in getbig as it were...we may disagree(240's ass annoys the shit out of me on that board but he is still cool in my book, dont tell his ass though) but youre still a brother...

Ive actually hung out with her a few times in a social setting she is the little sister of a friends g/f...
she has very good manners and very shy, im not the guy with a lot of game and she isnt the talkative girl but for some reason im am the guy with alot of converstation naturally around her  ??? i have no damn clue why...

I felt the same way about the live music and such, i.e. we wouldnt have the chance to talk and get to know one another but being a museum hopefully we would be able to get away a little bit and have it be somewhat quite. I was planning a dinner either before or after. Ok new plan dinner, museum/drinks/music, either a show at the museum or dive bar...sound better?

Kaje I love your advice the majority of the time brosky, we agree on most things but if i was simply looking for ass I wouldnt put this much effort into it...

You guys are hopeless, LOL!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 15, 2009, 04:31:15 AM
You guys are hopeless, LOL!
LOL  ;D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Quickerblade on July 15, 2009, 04:34:39 AM
Toxic, you make great points man, except for the Talking part.
He will shoot himself in the foot if he talk, he will talk himself out of pussy.
Its obvious he lacks confidence and this girl is on her way to owning him mentally...its true.

Clear you're mind, have no expectations, the more u try to impress the more u seem desperate,
Dont talk, just ask questions, let her talk, be mysterious, the more you talk the more she knows of you = no mystery = no pussy = posting on getbig.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Butterbean on July 15, 2009, 06:26:18 AM
Ok new plan dinner, museum/drinks/music, either a show at the museum or dive bar...sound better?



Since you've already hung w/her a few times the above sounds good....  if you didn't know her well or at all I'd say do lunch so you both could escape afterward if need be.

When is the date?
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 15, 2009, 08:25:46 AM
Toxic, you make great points man, except for the Talking part.
He will shoot himself in the foot if he talk, he will talk himself out of pussy.
Its obvious he lacks confidence and this girl is on her way to owning him mentally...its true.

Clear you're mind, have no expectations, the more u try to impress the more u seem desperate,
Dont talk, just ask questions, let her talk, be mysterious, the more you talk the more she knows of you = no mystery = no pussy = posting on getbig.
I understand why you feel that way QB actually though im a pretty confident guy not a cocky a-hole but Im confident in myself. I do pretty well for myself but seriously I have very little "game" im just a sociable person. Difference is this is actually a date, I cant tell you the last time i went on an actual one on one date. Im usually with groups of ppl at events or stuff like that.

I agree with you about getting her to talk though...and the no mystery=no pussy=posting on getbig=teh funny... ;D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 15, 2009, 08:33:12 AM
Since you've already hung w/her a few times the above sounds good....  if you didn't know her well or at all I'd say do lunch so you both could escape afterward if need be.

When is the date?
ahh i knew i could count on you stella

I agree weve been talking a little bit by phone we live a little ways from each other so seeing each other spontaneously isnt really an option.

The date is Friday so I still have time to change somethings up and make set plans.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Princess L on July 15, 2009, 03:15:43 PM
Ok so I know this is probably been done to death on here but i need help...

PLease give me some ideas ladies and gents

Ive gone through all the normal stuff but would like it to be a tad different. This is the best ive come up with so far.

http://mixershouston.hmns.org/ 

Its a museum that opens up and serves drinks and has live music...

im open to any ideas let me hear them

Is that a singles social networking scene?  If so.... :-\ then maybe not the best place for a date.  If not, then it sounds pretty cool.

I like the idea of an afternoon together, like bike riding, hiking or roller-blading ~ then grab a casual late lunch outdoors, maybe a glass of Pinot Grigio.  THEN if all is going well, split up so you can each SS&S and do the evening thing.  Sounds good to me, but then again I'm not in the dating scene  :P
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 15, 2009, 03:50:42 PM
Is that a singles social networking scene?  If so.... :-\ then maybe not the best place for a date.  If not, then it sounds pretty cool.

I like the idea of an afternoon together, like bike riding, hiking or roller-blading ~ then grab a casual late lunch outdoors, maybe a glass of Pinot Grigio.  THEN if all is going well, split up so you can each SS&S and do the evening thing.  Sounds good to me, but then again I'm not in the dating scene  :P
thanks for the response L, lol no its just a series of events the museum is putting on sounds like fun Ill be honest I kinda wanted to go to one before this  ;D

I like the afternoon idea as well less formal and such maybe Ill do that and then the evening thing

thanks for the advice everybody...
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: lauderdale on July 16, 2009, 04:15:03 AM
I love going to museums. But that's just me I guess!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 16, 2009, 06:34:30 AM
If you won't listen to common sense an amusement park might be nice.

I would have to read a chick pretty well or have had to be paying attention when she was talking to know she'd enjoy a museum. If she was poorly dressed and tried using a lot of big words I might do a museum.

You could also check out a play or something lame like that if she seems very animated.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Butterbean on July 16, 2009, 06:42:16 AM
If she was poorly dressed and tried using a lot of big words I might do a museum.


lol...huh?
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 16, 2009, 06:58:32 AM
lol...huh?

Trying to make a fashion statement, impress people with big words, self-neglect under the guise of intellectualism, etc....

The world is full of pseudo-intellectuals, Stella. Occasionally you have to let someone ramble on a while before getting any action. :'(
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 16, 2009, 06:30:56 PM


I felt the same way about the live music and such, i.e. we wouldnt have the chance to talk and get to know one another but being a museum hopefully we would be able to get away a little bit and have it be somewhat quite. I was planning a dinner either before or after. Ok new plan dinner, museum/drinks/music, either a show at the museum or dive bar...sound better?



sounda like u really like her man 8)   TELL her...go to dinner first....museums and dive bars r bad ideas....go to dinner at a nice place and then wind down at the resturant bar for a bit!....one time i went on a first date where after dinner...the resturant cleared out the floor and a live swing dancing band came on...find something like that...gotta pull it off though...be able to swing dance and sweep her off her feet....u gotta hit a 10 there!

DONT be a douche though and go overboard and ...for example..i know guys that instead of roses give girls peacock feathers...thats.eww..

u sound like a genuine cool n honest guy...be yourself...TELL HER..TELL HER....TELL her how much u like her... :)
\\



TELL HER!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 16, 2009, 06:33:36 PM
Toxic, you make great points man, except for the Talking part.
He will shoot himself in the foot if he talk, he will talk himself out of pussy.
Its obvious he lacks confidence and this girl is on her way to owning him mentally...its true.

Clear you're mind, have no expectations, the more u try to impress the more u seem desperate,
Dont talk, just ask questions, let her talk, be mysterious, the more you talk the more she knows of you = no mystery = no pussy = posting on getbig.

EVERY  girl on this planet is about a 10 min convo from falling for Toxic! ;D


so toxic speaketh in terms of toxic...i warned him...he HAS to pull off the conv.....
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 16, 2009, 06:34:19 PM
sounda like u really like her man 8)   TELL her...go to dinner first....museums and dive bars r bad ideas....go to dinner at a nice place and then wind down at the resturant bar for a bit!....one time i went on a first date where after dinner...the resturant cleared out the floor and a live swing dancing band came on...find something like that...gotta pull it off though...be able to swing dance and sweep her off her feet....u gotta hit a 10 there!

DONT be a douche though and go overboard and ...for example..i know guys that instead of roses give girls peacock feathers...thats.eww..

u sound like a genuine cool n honest guy...be yourself...TELL HER..TELL HER....TELL her how much u like her... :)
\\



TELL HER!


You need an aromatase inhibitor.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 16, 2009, 06:34:58 PM
Since you've already hung w/her a few times the above sounds good....  if you didn't know her well or at all I'd say do lunch so you both could escape afterward if need be.

When is the date?

he already like3s her...lunch is a cop out and soooo mid 90s stells..

ya feel me sista? :D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 16, 2009, 06:37:17 PM
I love going to museums. But that's just me I guess!


Lauderdale drags me t the damn B-more aquarium around 2ice / yr (she loves sharks)

and to DC museums also...

i put up with it...
but i'm NEVER EVER going to the Holocaust museum and watch u cry again sweetie >:(
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 16, 2009, 06:39:08 PM
You need an aromatase inhibitor.

u need to get over your past doc...
seriously....

i wonder if you'd let your girl read this thread....or most of the stuff about women ya say on getbig...let her read your "cooter is coter"comment  mang! ;)

my girl reads getbig :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 16, 2009, 06:49:44 PM
u need to get over your past doc...
seriously....

i wonder if you'd let your girl read this thread....or most of the stuff about women ya say on getbig...let her read your "cooter is coter"comment  mang! ;)

my girl reads getbig :)

Only a fool doesn't understand cooter is cooter, Toxy.

You two have met/spoken and she's no fool. She occasionally lurks here but has no desire to post. There's really not a lot here socially that makes sense and her fitness goals are pretty simple.

I've never written a thing here that couldn't be repeated to her face.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: lauderdale on July 17, 2009, 04:10:39 AM
Toxy, I think you're about due for another trip soon. I'm thinking Zoo in the fall!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 17, 2009, 08:37:28 AM
Only a fool doesn't understand cooter is cooter, Toxy.

You two have met/spoken and she's no fool. She occasionally lurks here but has no desire to post. There's really not a lot here socially that makes sense and her fitness goals are pretty simple.

I've never written a thing here that couldn't be repeated to her face.

tell her i said Hi! :)   she's a sweet gal...and i hope she punches ya in the kisser for saying some of the stuff ya do on here >:(
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 17, 2009, 08:38:54 AM
Toxy, I think you're about due for another trip soon. I'm thinking Zoo in the fall!

hell no  >:( ..its hot a full of asian tourists that wander around in zigzag patterns....
i'll pay for you and the friend(s) of your choice to go .....basically i'll pay ya to leave me out of it  >:(
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 17, 2009, 09:10:54 AM
tell her i said Hi! :)   she's a sweet gal...and i hope she punches ya in the kisser for saying some of the stuff ya do on here >:(

She's heard far worse than Ron's rules will allow on any GetBig forum, LOL!

Anti-estrogen therapy was suggested out of the kindness of my heart. Not my fault you got it twisted. :P
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 17, 2009, 09:50:13 AM


Anti-estrogen

for a lazy ..recently fat fuck...i got some pretty good contacts doc...

i shall when i needeth  >:(



Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 17, 2009, 10:05:34 AM
for a lazy ..recently fat fuck...i got some pretty good contacts doc...

i shall when i needeth  >:(





You needeth, bro.

You needeth something to combat the girlyness, LOL!!!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: lauderdale on July 17, 2009, 10:51:52 AM
You wish you could get out of it that easily!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Parker on July 17, 2009, 12:12:07 PM
I think both are right, cooter is cooter, but easy cooter doesn't feel like cooter earned ;D As far as the date, get her talking, that's why i like picnics, they are cheeap, and the women typically feel uninhibited due to not being in a environment that forces them to put on a front. And if lucky, you get to not only glimpse the cooter--but have that and a fellatio topping as well for dessert.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 17, 2009, 02:01:02 PM
I think both are right, cooter is cooter, but easy cooter doesn't feel like cooter earned ;D As far as the date, get her talking, that's why i like picnics, they are cheeap, and the women typically feel uninhibited due to not being in a environment that forces them to put on a front. And if lucky, you get to not only glimpse the cooter--but have that and a fellatio topping as well for dessert.

Parker,

The penis isn't very smart and really can't tell how many hoops you've jumped through for the cooter. Needing to feel cooter's been earned is a function of the ego. We all know how easily a man's ego can be manipulated. :)

Keep things simple and be happy.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 17, 2009, 03:34:25 PM
you guys over think this....

BE YOURSELF...let the cards fall where they may...

i know for a fact that jake is a fun to hang with easy going dood....

dunno what the F happens to him when he logs onto getbig  ??? 
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 17, 2009, 03:36:45 PM
You wish you could get out of it that easily!

NO NO NO...i'm not going to the zoo to  see 2 lions sleeping...an elephant taking a dump...a chimp just sitting there..and the cheetah sitting there bored out of its mind  >:(

and i'm ESP not going there in this DC heat....

talk to me in september woman and if u r nice enough ..ie...lemme watch the science channel all i want....we'll go ;D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Parker on July 17, 2009, 04:19:34 PM
Parker,

The penis isn't very smart and really can't tell how many hoops you've jumped through for the cooter. Needing to feel cooter's been earned is a function of the ego. We all know how easily a man's ego can be manipulated. :)Keep things simple and be happy.

But I earned it Damn It >:( ;D It's funny how we play games with our own mind. Like OJ and his, "The Killer is still Out there", type of thinking...No shit, the killer is you.

So we rationalize the earning or working for the cooter, when in fact someone else is tapping it without "earning it"..So as said, that works our ego...for us to perform feats that make us beleive we are actually earning something.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 17, 2009, 10:00:25 PM
But I earned it Damn It >:( ;D It's funny how we play games with our own mind. Like OJ and his, "The Killer is still Out there", type of thinking...No shit, the killer is you.

So we rationalize the earning or working for the cooter, when in fact someone else is tapping it without "earning it"..So as said, that works our ego...for us to perform feats that make us beleive we are actually earning something.

Earned it, LOL!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 17, 2009, 10:14:11 PM
Juni,

Stephanie said you're a gay homosexual.

In addition she said talking about feelings is a good idea. knowing someone is a sap in advance gives women ample opportunity to run away and saves time. :)

I had to clean up the other stuff to comply with forum rules.

Now you know why we get along so well, LOL!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 17, 2009, 10:50:33 PM
Juni,

Stephanie said you're a gay homosexual.

In addition she said talking about feelings is a good idea. knowing someone is a sap in advance gives women ample opportunity to run away and saves time. :)

I had to clean up the other stuff to comply with forum rules.

Now you know why we get along so well, LOL!
I am who i am.....i can pull it off though....i'm good looking....wait..WAS good looking  :-\
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 18, 2009, 05:14:38 AM
I am who i am.....i can pull it off though....i'm good looking....wait..WAS good looking  :-\

She also said hi, LOL!
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Migs on July 21, 2009, 09:33:05 AM
cooter economics 101 - easy cooter has a better ROI the so-called earned cooter. 
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 21, 2009, 12:02:53 PM
cooter economics 101 - easy cooter has a better ROI the so-called earned cooter. 

Migs,

Cooternomics 101, Rule 1, Section 1: There is no such thing on God's green earth as free cooter, it always has a cost.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Butterbean on July 21, 2009, 01:49:14 PM
tony, did you go on the date?
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 21, 2009, 02:24:57 PM
tony, did you go on the date?

Let's all hope he was wise enough to ignore Toxy. :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 21, 2009, 05:16:56 PM
LOL kaje

I did and it went well we had a good time

Can I assume kaje that your girl is a fat out of shape homely looking person? after all cooter is cooter, right?

Fact is cooter is cooter and if thats what one person wants then you can always get some, its not the cooter that makes me want to be in a relationship with a girl, its the girl.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Parker on July 21, 2009, 09:33:36 PM
Migs,

Cooternomics 101, Rule 1, Section 1: There is no such thing on God's green earth as free cooter, it always has a cost.
Ha, Ha

LOL kaje

I did and it went well we had a good time


Glad to hear that. :D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 21, 2009, 10:44:23 PM
LOL kaje

I did and it went well we had a good time

Can I assume kaje that your girl is a fat out of shape homely looking person? after all cooter is cooter, right?

Fact is cooter is cooter and if thats what one person wants then you can always get some, its not the cooter that makes me want to be in a relationship with a girl, its the girl.

Stella has guidelines here to insure the forum is a safe place for women so I have to be nice. :)

People who don't love women enough tend to read (or hear my tirades in person) and misunderstand why "cooter is cooter" makes us all free. If all a girl has to offer is that, dump her or waste no time beyond what it takes to hit it because she's useless. A woman's value is far greater than a little hole with hair around it is my point. First, third or fiftieth date makes no difference because the cooter has no bearing on her as a person.

Fat and homely? No, I wouldn't date a big chick. Someone morbidly obese isn't taking care of herself and I've already got too much to do. That being said.... the penis ain't a man's smartest body part and really can't tell any difference between fat and skinny. :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Quickerblade on July 21, 2009, 10:52:54 PM
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Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 22, 2009, 06:32:29 PM
Glad to hear that. :D
thanks parker... :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 22, 2009, 06:36:37 PM
Stella has guidelines here to insure the forum is a safe place for women so I have to be nice. :)

People who don't love women enough tend to read (or hear my tirades in person) and misunderstand why "cooter is cooter" makes us all free. If all a girl has to offer is that, dump her or waste no time beyond what it takes to hit it because she's useless. A woman's value is far greater than a little hole with hair around it is my point. First, third or fiftieth date makes no difference because the cooter has no bearing on her as a person.

Fat and homely? No, I wouldn't date a big chick. Someone morbidly obese isn't taking care of herself and I've already got too much to do. That being said.... the penis ain't a man's smartest body part and really can't tell any difference between fat and skinny. :)
I totally agree, you may want to work on your delivery though you come across as just another dude with excess baggage/frat boy...I understand what youre saying now and totally agree and the same could be said for guys from the girls perspective but saying "cooter is cooter" (lol) conveys a negative connatation instead of the positive one you want.

LOL nope not the smartest at all...but the mind knows the difference and even if inebriated it will remember the next morning.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 22, 2009, 06:47:00 PM
I totally agree, you may want to work on your delivery though you come across as just another dude with excess baggage/frat boy...I understand what youre saying now and totally agree and the same could be said for guys from the girls perspective but saying "cooter is cooter" (lol) conveys a negative connatation instead of the positive one you want.

LOL nope not the smartest at all...but the mind knows the difference and even if inebriated it will remember the next morning.

What could be more positive than accepting things as they are?

I'd worry more about guys/girls who think a magic number of dates (before sex) says anything about a person. :) Having that glaring of a mental weakness makes them easily exploited and prone to disappointment.

The important things about a person have very little to do with sex. Obviously..... sexual compatibility is important in a couple but we're not talking about that.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 22, 2009, 07:00:02 PM
What could be more positive than accepting things as they are?

I'd worry more about guys/girls who think a magic number of dates (before sex) says anything about a person. :) Having that glaring of a mental weakness makes them easily exploited and prone to disappointment.

The important things about a person have very little to do with sex. Obviously..... sexual compatibility is important in a couple but we're not talking about that.
doc youre smart enought to know that the way things are said carries with them a connatation good or bad. "cooter is cooter" to me and I would happen to guess the majority of ppl carries a negative connatation. I agree with what your saying but all im saying is touch up on your delivery as youve already said alot of ppl get you wrong...
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 22, 2009, 07:11:44 PM
doc youre smart enought to know that the way things are said carries with them a connatation good or bad. "cooter is cooter" to me and I would happen to guess the majority of ppl carries a negative connatation. I agree with what your saying but all im saying is touch up on your delivery as youve already said alot of ppl get you wrong...

That would mean dumbing down an already simple concept. :P

The problem isn't delivery. People find "cooter is cooter" disturbing, IMHEO, because they do get it. We've been lead to believe the opposite because it makes people feel special. Also, dating theoretically leads to long term relationships which are better for children. Feeling special is fine (when warranted) but most typical humans have sex organs. :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 24, 2009, 05:34:44 PM


The problem isn't delivery. People find "cooter is cooter" disturbing,

not disturbing doc BUT as my fav author once said

In matters of grave importance, style, not sincerity, is the vital thing ;D -Oscar Wilde
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 24, 2009, 10:58:35 PM
not disturbing doc BUT as my fav author once said

In matters of grave importance, style, not sincerity, is the vital thing ;D -Oscar Wilde

"You can't free a fish from water". :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 25, 2009, 05:20:23 PM
"You can't free a fish from water". :)

the fish dosen't wanna be freed from water  :D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 26, 2009, 06:04:40 AM
the fish dosen't wanna be freed from water  :D

You may not understand what the saying means. :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 26, 2009, 06:44:17 AM
You may not understand what the saying means. :)

Probably!  i'm making a run for rhe CCIE doc...and been putting in an honest 8 to 10 hours of studying / day...except weekends...where i NEED to recharge..and actually eat (i dont eat when i study..only tea..keeps me sharp)

the drawback is..slowly..you pretty much become incapable of having a meaningful conversation about ANYTHING but  >:(

...thats the breaks i guess....
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Princess L on July 26, 2009, 08:48:07 AM
Ok so I know this is probably been done to death on here but i need help...

PLease give me some ideas ladies and gents

Ive gone through all the normal stuff but would like it to be a tad different. This is the best ive come up with so far.

http://mixershouston.hmns.org/ 

Its a museum that opens up and serves drinks and has live music...

im open to any ideas let me hear them


Update please.

 :D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 10:16:11 AM

Update please.

 :D
;D the date went really well we both had a good time, i think we will stay friends instead of date but it was still a fun night.

thanks for asking L
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Parker on July 26, 2009, 10:34:31 AM
;D the date went really well we both had a good time, i think we will stay friends instead of date but it was still a fun night.

thanks for asking L

Are you in FriendZone on your own volition?
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: ToxicAvenger on July 26, 2009, 11:09:46 AM
;D the date went really well we both had a good time, i think we will stay friends instead of date but it was still a fun night.

thanks for asking L

on the bright side..now you r allowed to hold the bitch down and sit on her face and fart!  ;D

i do that to my sister...ya learn all kindsa curse words  ;D
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Quickerblade on July 26, 2009, 11:11:08 AM
;D the date went really well we both had a good time, i think we will stay friends instead of date but it was still a fun night.

thanks for asking L
why just friends?
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 26, 2009, 11:21:10 AM
why just friends?

She probably didn't want to be a beard. :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Quickerblade on July 26, 2009, 11:34:27 AM
She probably didn't want to be a beard. :)
hahah.
IF you really like her you got to show her, Friends zone does not mean the end zone, there is always are way out...but if you are happy just being friends then good for you....I personally think its to daunting.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 11:37:29 AM
Are you in FriendZone on your own volition?
yes and no, I dont want to get into to much detail about it b/c some of it has to do with her and I dont want to air her shit out. Just simply put i think the timing right now was bad more so for her then me but Im not willing to put up with the bs that i know being in a situation like that will produce so I put it out there that maybe this isnt the best time and she agreed. I still think she is a sweet girl and all that but like its been said before timing is everything... ;D

Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 11:38:47 AM
She probably didn't want to be a beard. :)
I dont get it :-[ ???

Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Quickerblade on July 26, 2009, 11:41:16 AM
I dont want to get into to much detail about it b/c some of it has to do with her and I dont want to air her shit out.


arggh shit sounds like a bitch with issues or a liar.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 11:42:40 AM
hahah.
IF you really like her you got to show her, Friends zone does not mean the end zone, there is always are way out...but if you are happy just being friends then good for you....I personally think its to daunting.
she definitly knows how I feel Ive made it clear i actually do like her but this just isnt the ideal situation for either of us right now. I actually should have seen this coming b/c i knew her situation going in but what can I say...

well when i say friends i mean i may see her once a month if that, if we dont get together on our own...she lives a good ways from me and only really hangs out when her sister brings her around. I totally agree with you about that though which is why I dont hit on my friends...
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 11:46:27 AM
arggh shit sounds like a bitch with issues or a liar.
ehhh live and learn, I definitly dont harbor any hard feelings towards her but i definitly can see how if i stayed in that situation i might have. 
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: drkaje on July 26, 2009, 11:48:41 AM
I dont get it :-[ ???



Give it time. :)
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: Quickerblade on July 26, 2009, 11:49:58 AM
ehhh live and learn, I definitly dont harbor any hard feelings towards her but i definitly can see how if i stayed in that situation i might have. 
Good man, if you feel attached to a girl and she says "just friends" you need to go cold turkey or it will be a horrendous emotional ride..the last thing u wanna hear is her boyfriend issues and etc..

Mr Tonymctones, go out and find yourself are new girl buddy.
Title: Re: First date help...
Post by: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 12:04:44 PM
Good man, if you feel attached to a girl and she says "just friends" you need to go cold turkey or it will be a horrendous emotional ride..the last thing u wanna hear is her boyfriend issues and etc..

Mr Tonymctones, go out and find yourself are new girl buddy.
yesh yesh sound advice that I plan on undertaking... ;)