Author Topic: First date help... (Read 10160 times)

drkaje · « **Reply #50 on:** July 21, 2009, 02:24:57 PM »

Quote from: STella on July 21, 2009, 01:49:14 PM

tony, did you go on the date?

Let's all hope he was wise enough to ignore Toxy.

tonymctones · « **Reply #51 on:** July 21, 2009, 05:16:56 PM »

LOL kaje

I did and it went well we had a good time

Can I assume kaje that your girl is a fat out of shape homely looking person? after all cooter is cooter, right?

Fact is cooter is cooter and if thats what one person wants then you can always get some, its not the cooter that makes me want to be in a relationship with a girl, its the girl.

Parker · « **Reply #52 on:** July 21, 2009, 09:33:36 PM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 21, 2009, 12:02:53 PM

Migs,

Cooternomics 101, Rule 1, Section 1: There is no such thing on God's green earth as free cooter, it always has a cost.

Ha, Ha

Quote from: tonymctones on July 21, 2009, 05:16:56 PM

LOL kaje

I did and it went well we had a good time

Glad to hear that.

drkaje · « **Reply #53 on:** July 21, 2009, 10:44:23 PM »

Quote from: tonymctones on July 21, 2009, 05:16:56 PM

LOL kaje

I did and it went well we had a good time

Can I assume kaje that your girl is a fat out of shape homely looking person? after all cooter is cooter, right?

Fact is cooter is cooter and if thats what one person wants then you can always get some, its not the cooter that makes me want to be in a relationship with a girl, its the girl.

Stella has guidelines here to insure the forum is a safe place for women so I have to be nice.

People who don't love women enough tend to read (or hear my tirades in person) and misunderstand why "cooter is cooter" makes us all free. If all a girl has to offer is that, dump her or waste no time beyond what it takes to hit it because she's useless. A woman's value is far greater than a little hole with hair around it is my point. First, third or fiftieth date makes no difference because the cooter has no bearing on her as a person.

Fat and homely? No, I wouldn't date a big chick. Someone morbidly obese isn't taking care of herself and I've already got too much to do. That being said.... the penis ain't a man's smartest body part and really can't tell any difference between fat and skinny.

Quickerblade · « **Reply #54 on:** July 21, 2009, 10:52:54 PM »

tonymctones · « **Reply #55 on:** July 22, 2009, 06:32:29 PM »

Quote from: Parker on July 21, 2009, 09:33:36 PM

Glad to hear that.

thanks parker...

tonymctones · « **Reply #56 on:** July 22, 2009, 06:36:37 PM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 21, 2009, 10:44:23 PM

Stella has guidelines here to insure the forum is a safe place for women so I have to be nice.

People who don't love women enough tend to read (or hear my tirades in person) and misunderstand why "cooter is cooter" makes us all free. If all a girl has to offer is that, dump her or waste no time beyond what it takes to hit it because she's useless. A woman's value is far greater than a little hole with hair around it is my point. First, third or fiftieth date makes no difference because the cooter has no bearing on her as a person.

Fat and homely? No, I wouldn't date a big chick. Someone morbidly obese isn't taking care of herself and I've already got too much to do. That being said.... the penis ain't a man's smartest body part and really can't tell any difference between fat and skinny.

I totally agree, you may want to work on your delivery though you come across as just another dude with excess baggage/frat boy...I understand what youre saying now and totally agree and the same could be said for guys from the girls perspective but saying "cooter is cooter" (lol) conveys a negative connatation instead of the positive one you want.

LOL nope not the smartest at all...but the mind knows the difference and even if inebriated it will remember the next morning.

drkaje · « **Reply #57 on:** July 22, 2009, 06:47:00 PM »

Quote from: tonymctones on July 22, 2009, 06:36:37 PM

I totally agree, you may want to work on your delivery though you come across as just another dude with excess baggage/frat boy...I understand what youre saying now and totally agree and the same could be said for guys from the girls perspective but saying "cooter is cooter" (lol) conveys a negative connatation instead of the positive one you want.

LOL nope not the smartest at all...but the mind knows the difference and even if inebriated it will remember the next morning.

What could be more positive than accepting things as they are?

I'd worry more about guys/girls who think a magic number of dates (before sex) says anything about a person.

Having that glaring of a mental weakness makes them easily exploited and prone to disappointment.

The important things about a person have very little to do with sex. Obviously..... sexual compatibility is important in a couple but we're not talking about that.

tonymctones · « **Reply #58 on:** July 22, 2009, 07:00:02 PM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 22, 2009, 06:47:00 PM

What could be more positive than accepting things as they are?

I'd worry more about guys/girls who think a magic number of dates (before sex) says anything about a person. Having that glaring of a mental weakness makes them easily exploited and prone to disappointment.

The important things about a person have very little to do with sex. Obviously..... sexual compatibility is important in a couple but we're not talking about that.

doc youre smart enought to know that the way things are said carries with them a connatation good or bad. "cooter is cooter" to me and I would happen to guess the majority of ppl carries a negative connatation. I agree with what your saying but all im saying is touch up on your delivery as youve already said alot of ppl get you wrong...

drkaje · « **Reply #59 on:** July 22, 2009, 07:11:44 PM »

Quote from: tonymctones on July 22, 2009, 07:00:02 PM

doc youre smart enought to know that the way things are said carries with them a connatation good or bad. "cooter is cooter" to me and I would happen to guess the majority of ppl carries a negative connatation. I agree with what your saying but all im saying is touch up on your delivery as youve already said alot of ppl get you wrong...

That would mean dumbing down an already simple concept.

The problem isn't delivery. People find "cooter is cooter" disturbing, IMHEO, because they do get it. We've been lead to believe the opposite because it makes people feel special. Also, dating theoretically leads to long term relationships which are better for children. Feeling special is fine (when warranted) but most typical humans have sex organs.

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #60 on:** July 24, 2009, 05:34:44 PM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 22, 2009, 07:11:44 PM

The problem isn't delivery. People find "cooter is cooter" disturbing,

not disturbing doc BUT as my fav author once said

In matters of grave importance, style, not sincerity, is the vital thing

-Oscar Wilde

drkaje · « **Reply #61 on:** July 24, 2009, 10:58:35 PM »

Quote from: ToxicAvenger on July 24, 2009, 05:34:44 PM

not disturbing doc BUT as my fav author once said

In matters of grave importance, style, not sincerity, is the vital thing -Oscar Wilde

"You can't free a fish from water".

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #62 on:** July 25, 2009, 05:20:23 PM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 24, 2009, 10:58:35 PM

"You can't free a fish from water".

the fish dosen't wanna be freed from water

drkaje · « **Reply #63 on:** July 26, 2009, 06:04:40 AM »

Quote from: ToxicAvenger on July 25, 2009, 05:20:23 PM

the fish dosen't wanna be freed from water

You may not understand what the saying means.

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #64 on:** July 26, 2009, 06:44:17 AM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 26, 2009, 06:04:40 AM

You may not understand what the saying means.

Probably! i'm making a run for rhe CCIE doc...and been putting in an honest 8 to 10 hours of studying / day...except weekends...where i NEED to recharge..and actually eat (i dont eat when i study..only tea..keeps me sharp)

the drawback is..slowly..you pretty much become incapable of having a meaningful conversation about ANYTHING but

...thats the breaks i guess....

Princess L · « **Reply #65 on:** July 26, 2009, 08:48:07 AM »

Quote from: tonymctones on July 14, 2009, 12:39:44 PM

Ok so I know this is probably been done to death on here but i need help...

PLease give me some ideas ladies and gents

Ive gone through all the normal stuff but would like it to be a tad different. This is the best ive come up with so far.

http://mixershouston.hmns.org/

Its a museum that opens up and serves drinks and has live music...

im open to any ideas let me hear them

Update please.

tonymctones · « **Reply #66 on:** July 26, 2009, 10:16:11 AM »

Quote from: Princess L on July 26, 2009, 08:48:07 AM

Update please.

the date went really well we both had a good time, i think we will stay friends instead of date but it was still a fun night.

thanks for asking L

Parker · « **Reply #67 on:** July 26, 2009, 10:34:31 AM »

Quote from: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 10:16:11 AM

the date went really well we both had a good time, i think we will stay friends instead of date but it was still a fun night.

thanks for asking L

Are you in FriendZone on your own volition?

ToxicAvenger · « **Reply #68 on:** July 26, 2009, 11:09:46 AM »

Quote from: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 10:16:11 AM

the date went really well we both had a good time, i think we will stay friends instead of date but it was still a fun night.

thanks for asking L

on the bright side..now you r allowed to hold the bitch down and sit on her face and fart!

i do that to my sister...ya learn all kindsa curse words

Quickerblade · « **Reply #69 on:** July 26, 2009, 11:11:08 AM »

Quote from: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 10:16:11 AM

the date went really well we both had a good time, i think we will stay friends instead of date but it was still a fun night.

thanks for asking L

why just friends?

drkaje · « **Reply #70 on:** July 26, 2009, 11:21:10 AM »

Quote from: Quickerblade on July 26, 2009, 11:11:08 AM

why just friends?

She probably didn't want to be a beard.

Quickerblade · « **Reply #71 on:** July 26, 2009, 11:34:27 AM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 26, 2009, 11:21:10 AM

She probably didn't want to be a beard.

hahah.
IF you really like her you got to show her, Friends zone does not mean the end zone, there is always are way out...but if you are happy just being friends then good for you....I personally think its to daunting.

tonymctones · « **Reply #72 on:** July 26, 2009, 11:37:29 AM »

Quote from: Parker on July 26, 2009, 10:34:31 AM

Are you in FriendZone on your own volition?

yes and no, I dont want to get into to much detail about it b/c some of it has to do with her and I dont want to air her shit out. Just simply put i think the timing right now was bad more so for her then me but Im not willing to put up with the bs that i know being in a situation like that will produce so I put it out there that maybe this isnt the best time and she agreed. I still think she is a sweet girl and all that but like its been said before timing is everything...

tonymctones · « **Reply #73 on:** July 26, 2009, 11:38:47 AM »

Quote from: drkaje on July 26, 2009, 11:21:10 AM

She probably didn't want to be a beard.

I dont get it

Quickerblade · « **Reply #74 on:** July 26, 2009, 11:41:16 AM »

Quote from: tonymctones on July 26, 2009, 11:37:29 AM

I dont want to get into to much detail about it b/c some of it has to do with her and I dont want to air her shit out.

arggh shit sounds like a bitch with issues or a liar.