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so....
this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see
any way to avoid having to pay all together?
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so....
this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see
any way to avoid having to pay all together?
Invent a time machine and use a condom.
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You're 'this' & 'that'? Please elaborate
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Relocate to South America. Argentina seems nice.
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How far along is she?
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punsch her 2 times hard in her stumick.that should do the trick
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punsch her 2 times hard in her stumick.that should do the trick
Push her down the stairs?
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How far along is she?
a little over 6 months i suppose
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a little over 6 months i suppose
You're basically fucked man.
Leave the country.
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You're 'this' & 'that'? Please elaborate
breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
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so....
this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see
any way to avoid having to pay all together?
And didn't I tell you this before? Hard head, make for a soft tail.
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Grow the fuck up, learn how to be responsible
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Grow the fuck up, learn how to be responsible
i can try to get custody of the kid and raise it myself, that would be responsible
not likely to happen tho
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Push her down the stairs?
what about crash car into tree
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dont over egg the pudding, people will find you out.
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
leave the country
you can come live in the us
a great a free life
you can stay with me, (no homo)
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leave the country
you can come live in the us
a great a free life
you can stay with me, (no homo)
maybe we can start cooking legit kigs and get rich
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You should pay her in useless threads bro, we wont miss a couple an hour here.
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maybe we can start cooking legit kigs and get rich
haha yes, you can give me a damage deposit straight from your pituitary
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what about crash car into tree
Just make sure she doesn't wear her seatbelt.
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Just make sure she doesn't wear her seatbelt.
even with a seatbelt may do the trick?
all that force on the abdomen,
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even with a seatbelt may do the trick?
all that force on the abdomen,
It would have to be sitting directly over the stomach, but yes... It could also work.
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It would have to be sitting directly over the stomach, but yes... It could also work.
how so? baby is not in the stomach but in the lap
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how so? baby is not in the stomach but in the lap
Baby falls into lap before delivery... Babies ride high until then.
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she has a lot of excessive amniotic fluid probably caused by diabetus
so maybe the baby is extra shielded
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she has a lot of excessive amniotic fluid probably caused by diabetus
so maybe the baby is extra shielded
Possible... If it's extra fluid, it's possible the baby could have a birth defect and may not be healthy at delivery anyway.
I'm no doctor of course.
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i can try to get custody of the kid and raise it myself, that would be responsible
not likely to happen tho
No, solve the issues with your girlfriend. It's time for some self reflection. Why is she so angry on you?
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No, solve the issues with your girlfriend. It's time for some self reflection. Why is she so angry on you?
i dunno we're not compatible at all
go figure ::)
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and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
That, my friend, is crossing the line. What the f... does it concern her whether you brush your teeth in the morning?
The other stuff- you need to just learn to live with that. Most women I have known and seen in relationships, behave that way. Boring, tiresome and not respectful, but thats just the way women are.
NN
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i dunno we're not compatible at all
go figure ::)
So it's not worth to work on this relationship? That's kinda sad when a child is involved :-\
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i'm thinking if she manages to force me to pay for the child
maybe it will still end up being cheaper than having her live with me
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
What part of being a husband/domestic partner do you not understand?
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Fuck her, she would make your life a misery if you lived with her.
Come to your own arrangement with the kid rather than through the csa. Id take nappies, milk, baby food ect so atleast you can be safe in the knowlege she isnt spending your money on anything other than the kid.
Also see the kid regularly. Or else you willgrow old with fucked up regrets
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Fuck her, she would make your life a misery if you lived with her.
Come to your own arrangement with the kid rather than through the csa. Id take nappies, milk, baby food ect so atleast you can be safe in the knowlege she isnt spending your money on anything other than the kid.
Also see the kid regularly. Or else you willgrow old with fucked up regrets
something like that she seems to suggest
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maybe she has a little accident, hmmm :-\
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so....
this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see
any way to avoid having to pay all together?
Should never have stopped fucking dudes.
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Should never have stopped fucking prostitutes
fixed
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
(Sorry, I didn't noticed this post before)
If all of this is accurate, then she's one hell of a volatile, dominating & control freaking bitch :o
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maybe we can start cooking legit kigs and get rich
;D ;D ;D
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
A woman no longer hiding her true self. What you've seen before this is a series of "chicks." "Chick" is a role woman play before they feel they've sufficient trapped a man.
Happens after marriage and pregnancy.
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(Sorry, I didn't noticed this post before)
If all of this is accurate, then she's one hell of a volatile, dominating & control freaking bitch :o
yeah she always wants to get everything her way
and when she does
she doesnt even appreciate it, but thinks "its normal" and even complains that you resisted at first before giving in
fucking fuck
she's not a bad person at all, but fuck i dont want to be with her no more :-X
but now this kid matter
omg my dad will be disappoint son :-X
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She has absolutely NO respect for you. That has been evident since day one. She walks all over you AND YOU LET HER (hence the no respect). The two of you together = big mistake.
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
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yeah she always wants to get everything her way
and when she does
she doesnt even appreciate it, but thinks "its normal" and even complains that you resisted at first before giving in
fucking fuck
she's not a bad person at all, but fuck i dont want to be with her no more :-X
but now this kid matter
omg my dad will be disappoint son :-X
Based on what you just wrote, her dominating attitude seems the only shitty part of her personalty, right? Can't you discus this with her?
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She has absolutely NO respect for you. That has been evident since day one. She walks all over you AND YOU LET HER (hence the no respect). The two of you together = big mistake.
she always plays the "you have to respect me i'm older than you card"
and i think she should should respect me because i'm the man of the house and if she doesnt like it she can live in the street godddamnnjiiiit
i wish she can have a miscarriage but at this advanced stage of pregnancy the baby will not die anymore :-\
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Based on what you just wrote, her dominating attitude seems the only shitty part of her personalty, right? Can't you discus this with her?
she also doesnt understand the concept and value of frugality another major point of quarrels
but i dont think you can change a person anyway
at least not when they think they are right etc
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Did your own father abandon your mother when she was 6 months pregnant with you?
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Did your own father abandon your mother when she was 6 months pregnant with you?
nope
they were married at that point and had a bunch of kids already
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she also doesnt understand the concept and value of frugality another major point of quarrels
but i dont think you can change a person anyway
at least not when they think they are right etc
100% true
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Post her pic and info on gb. The fellas here will talk some sense into her.
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Post her pic and info on gb. The fellas here will talk some sense into her.
::)
maybe i can hook her up with a sterile getbigger that wants a kid
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I think you may be racist for making your imaginary girlfriend both black and a monstrous bitch.
if only she was
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After she has the kid, take the kid to India and sell him into the sweatshop scene.
You can get like 10000 rupees. That's enough to party for a month there.
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if you woke up tomorrow and realized this whole pregnancy saga had been a dream, how would you feel?
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so....
this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see
any way to avoid having to pay all together?
you got a girl pregnant? your stupidity never fails to amaze me
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beta
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Try to ride it out, the kid is not even here yet. Things may change a little.
Then if it didn't worked, you tried and that is all you can do. And you can have a clean conscience and move on if need be.
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After she has the kid, take the kid to India and sell him into the sweatshop scene.
You can get like 10000 rupees. That's enough to party for a month there.
Sell the kid here, then go to India. You can get $50,000 here. That's infinity rupees.
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"Well, I'm older than you so you need listen to me!"
"Yeah, well I'm the 'man' in this relationship so I should be respected!"
"Well, you didn't brush your teeth the other morning!"
"Yeah, well I ain't changin the floors either!"
This stuff is for kids and middle-aged adolescents....it's petty nonsense.
I encourage y'all to find a stable, caring, loving couple that is committed to each other that sincerely wants to adopt and raise a child. Give this child a chance for a quality life because it's clear you and the mother don't care for each other. And you've made it abudantly clear you don't care for this child.
My wife knows exactly what it's like to have a father that cares nothing for her...thank the Lord above my father embraced my wife as one of his own daughters 2 decades ago and helped fill that void in her life....that's how a strong, courageous, loving man acts.
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Get a towel and a mask. You too can make wads of cash stripping for gay men.
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a little over 6 months i suppose
Lies lies lies..........
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WITF?!
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listen 8)
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
sounds like you picked a winner bro
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she always plays the "you have to respect me i'm older than you card"
and i think she should should respect me because i'm the man of the house and if she doesnt like it she can live in the street godddamnnjiiiit
i wish she can have a miscarriage but at this advanced stage of pregnancy the baby will not die anymore :-\
hey couple tips for you.
pregnant chicks are horny so you can poke around in there and maybe cause some disruption.
also don't forget what you said !
"women don't really mind being raped as much as you think" 8)
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just hope the baby will come out with chokolat color skin
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Call Tito24. He will get rid of the bitch. No questions asked.
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
Sounds like a crazy bitch
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Find some leaves to rake. You will forget about all of this.
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To get out of this you will need:
- Squid ink
- A turkey baster
- Sedatives
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so....
this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see
any way to avoid having to pay all together?
Guess the race.
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
Your girl wants to decorate. Just let her do what she wants. She is building a nest for her family.
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and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
sounds like the typical borderline bitch. why did you impregnate ???
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You really should brush your teeth in the morning though.
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My wife knows exactly what it's like to have a father that cares nothing for her...thank the Lord above my father embraced my wife as one of his own daughters 2 decades ago and helped fill that void in her life....that's how a strong, courageous, loving man acts.
beautiful
wish that i had had a father like that, you sir are a lucky man to have such a father like him
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Your girl wants to decorate. Just let her do what she wants. She is building a nest for her family.
Don't you get it? She wants to decorate his entire fucking life
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Hen pecked :(
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sounds like the typical borderline bitch. why did you impregnate ???
Do you think he did it purposely ???
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Your girl wants to decorate. Just let her do what she wants. She is building a nest for her family.
From what I have read, she has rather poor taste and is pretty stupid about decorating-wants to throw out valuable antiques. Letting her nonsense continue will only exacerbate her indifference towards actual admirable pieces and allow her tawdry taste permeate not only his house, but his entire existence.
He mustn`t let this happen.
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Don't you get it? She wants to decorate his entire fucking life
Shes 6 months pregnant and probably really scared of all the changes this baby is going to bring. What harm is it if he cuts her some slack and just helps her redecorate their home? Relationships are about compromise and if he loves her then he will want to see her happy.
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Suburban aesthetic :(
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From what I have read, she has rather poor taste and is pretty stupid about decorating-wants to throw out valuable antiques. Letting her nonsense continue will only exacerbate her indifference towards actual admirable pieces and allow her tawdry taste permeate not only his house, but his entire existence.
He mustn`t let this happen.
He doesn't have to throw out anything. Just store it somewhere and being it back once she realises that she was wrong.
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Self storage facility :(
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Shes 6 months pregnant and probably really scared of all the changes this baby is going to bring. What harm is it if he cuts her some slack and just helps her redecorate their home? Relationships are about compromise and if he loves her then he will want to see her happy.
Based on what he wrote about her, I don't see any signs of compromising from her side. He pointed out what he has done to satisfy her decoration wishes, but keep in mind that there is a certain limit. She sounds far from reasonable. That teeth brushing thing is a good example of this.
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He doesn't have to throw out anything. Just store it somewhere and being it back once she realises that she was wrong.
There HAS to be compromise. Storing it elsewhere will just reinforce the charade that she is right and he was wrong.
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She's pregnant with his child, are you suggesting that he leave her? If he does leave her at 6 months pregnant she might not take him back when he realises how much he loves her and wants to be together as a family. I am guessing that there are other much deeper issues at hand here.
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She's pregnant with his child, are you suggesting that he leave her? If he does leave her at 6 months pregnant she might not take him back when he realises how much he loves her and wants to be together as a family. I am guessing that there are other much deeper issues at hand here.
I don't believe he loves her that much. Many parents are parent by 'accident'. Being a caring parent is hard work, but also a genetic gift.
BTW, who's leaving who? I think both.
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I don't believe he loves her that much. Many parents are parent by 'accident'. Being a caring parent is hard work, but also a genetic gift.
BTW, who's leaving who? I think both.
I assumed they loved each other and when you really love someone you don't leave over something trivial. Relationships are hard work and only work if both people are committed to staying together.... Through thick or thin.
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I assumed they loved each other and when you really love someone you don't leave over something trivial. Relationships are hard work and only work if both people are committed to staying together.... Through thick or thin.
I'm not so sure about the bold part, maybe Anabolichalo can elaborate on this?
I think* that the birth of a child is the ultimate test for a relationship.
* I don't have/wish them
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I'm not so sure about the bold part, maybe Anabolichalo can elaborate on this?
I think* that the birth of a child is the ultimate test for a relationship.
* I don't have/wish them
I agree 100 per cent. Basically if a relationship isn't solid before a baby comes into the picture then I can't see it lasting.
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I assumed they loved each other and when you really love someone you don't leave over something trivial. Relationships are hard work and only work if both people are committed to staying together.... Through thick or thin.
So many clichés in this post :-X
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Don't you get it? She wants to decorate his entire fucking life
Can't go into someone's life and change everything
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If you had started your cycle a year earlier perhaps you wouldn't be in this mess. :(
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Why waste your time and energy trying to figure women out? Be a man and go build something for the world. ::)
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I do find my boyfriend Will hotter, that is a fact. I find him very physically attractive on the outside and then of course on the inside, which is extremely important to me. Throw in feelings to the equation and in my eyes, Will is the hottest thing to me.
;D
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breaking my balls over every little thing
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
Damn fuck her.. she will make your life a living hell.. noting will be good enough...
but that last shit was funny as fuck ...but still go far far away from her.. i live in puerto rico and i have a pretty big house.. you can stay here.. (no homo)
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"Well, I'm older than you so you need listen to me!"
"Yeah, well I'm the 'man' in this relationship so I should be respected!"
"Well, you didn't brush your teeth the other morning!"
"Yeah, well I ain't changin the floors either!"
This stuff is for kids and middle-aged adolescents....it's petty nonsense.
I encourage y'all to find a stable, caring, loving couple that is committed to each other that sincerely wants to adopt and raise a child. Give this child a chance for a quality life because it's clear you and the mother don't care for each other. And you've made it abudantly clear you don't care for this child.
My wife knows exactly what it's like to have a father that cares nothing for her...thank the Lord above my father embraced my wife as one of his own daughters 2 decades ago and helped fill that void in her life....that's how a strong, courageous, loving man acts.
A good solid man. FWIW, my own father abandoned the home when I was a year old, and even though I kept in contact and regularly saw my paternal grandparents up to this day, he refuses that I exist, and doesn't want to see me. Thank God that I kept my dignity and never begged/pestered to see the guy, i'm sure it would have added to the rejection no doubt.
Thank you Jesus for my children, and for transforming my heart so that I don't pass the same terrible parenting onto them.
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Keep Jesus out of this, he never had children...
... or did he?
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Keep Jesus out of this, he never had children...
... or did he?
Hahaha come on bro ;D
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Damn fuck her.. she will make your life a living hell.. noting will be good enough...
but that last shit was funny as fuck ...but still go far far away from her.. i live in puerto rico and i have a pretty big house.. you can stay here.. (no homo)
x2
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Well, maybe he took the "fuck her" advice a little too serious
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"Well, I'm older than you so you need listen to me!"
"Yeah, well I'm the 'man' in this relationship so I should be respected!"
"Well, you didn't brush your teeth the other morning!"
"Yeah, well I ain't changin the floors either!"
This stuff is for kids and middle-aged adolescents....it's petty nonsense.
I encourage y'all to find a stable, caring, loving couple that is committed to each other that sincerely wants to adopt and raise a child. Give this child a chance for a quality life because it's clear you and the mother don't care for each other. And you've made it abudantly clear you don't care for this child.
My wife knows exactly what it's like to have a father that cares nothing for her...thank the Lord above my father embraced my wife as one of his own daughters 2 decades ago and helped fill that void in her life....that's how a strong, courageous, loving man acts.
A good solid man. FWIW, my own father abandoned the home when I was a year old, and even though I kept in contact and regularly saw my paternal grandparents up to this day, he refuses that I exist, and doesn't want to see me. Thank God that I kept my dignity and never begged/pestered to see the guy, i'm sure it would have added to the rejection no doubt.
Thank you Jesus for my children, and for transforming my heart so that I don't pass the same terrible parenting onto them.
2 excellant posts right here!
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A good solid man. FWIW, my own father abandoned the home when I was a year old, and even though I kept in contact and regularly saw my paternal grandparents up to this day, he refuses that I exist, and doesn't want to see me. Thank God that I kept my dignity and never begged/pestered to see the guy, i'm sure it would have added to the rejection no doubt.
Thank you Jesus for my children, and for transforming my heart so that I don't pass the same terrible parenting onto them.
I won't be as arrogant as to claim that I understand what that feels like having an absentee parent. I have had a glimpse of it through my wife and some friends, but personally I don't fully grasp it. Although, I can imagine how much that sucks. Although, exactly as you said, you've realized what a blessing children are and when you truly desire to have a family of your own it's the greatest blessing in life. We have some folks on Getbig that don't want to ever have kids of their own.....they find the idea of children repulsive. I fully support those folks never having children or associating with children.
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Thank you Jesus for not having them
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I won't be as arrogant as to claim that I understand what that feels like having an absentee parent. I have had a glimpse of it through my wife and some friends, but personally I don't fully grasp it. Although, I can imagine how much that sucks. Although, exactly as you said, you've realized what a blessing children are and when you truly desire to have a family of your own it's the greatest blessing in life. We have some folks on Getbig that don't want to ever have kids of their own.....they find the idea of children repulsive. I fully support those folks never having children or associating with children.
Lol good point!
May the integrity of their condoms be strong and true forevermore, amen.
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once again, booty goes full retard and does not have a fucking clue what this thread is actually about.
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once again, booty goes full retard and does not have a fucking clue what this thread is actually about.
true story
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A good solid man. FWIW, my own father abandoned the home when I was a year old, and even though I kept in contact and regularly saw my paternal grandparents up to this day, he refuses that I exist, and doesn't want to see me. Thank God that I kept my dignity and never begged/pestered to see the guy, i'm sure it would have added to the rejection no doubt.
Thank you Jesus for my children, and for transforming my heart so that I don't pass the same terrible parenting onto them.
same thing happened to me
i have seen him once in the last twenty years at a wedding
he is scum
i didnt realise the depth of his betrayal till i became a father
there is nothing on this earth that could take me away from my children
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To get out of this you will need:
- Squid ink
- A turkey baster
- Sedatives
don't forget the vacuum cleaner
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breaking my balls over every little thing
like she is going to move into my place
but she wants to change everything
ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted
then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit
i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work
then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring
and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."
and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"
the fuck is this
Can you blame her? You don't brush your filthy teeth. Yuck
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Your girl wants to decorate. Just let her do what she wants. She is building a nest for her family.
She is a whore
She abuses the state given power she has over the father of her child
She knows she can abuse him and his honor as a man by dominating his free will
She knows that if he does not agree to be dominated, she can just gtfo and get paid by him
She is the kind of woman that is a true prostitute, I have a lot more respect for women who sell their bodies on the streets than for such a person
She is a whore
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"Well, I'm older than you so you need listen to me!"
"Yeah, well I'm the 'man' in this relationship so I should be respected!"
"Well, you didn't brush your teeth the other morning!"
"Yeah, well I ain't changin the floors either!"
This stuff is for kids and middle-aged adolescents....it's petty nonsense.
I encourage y'all to find a stable, caring, loving couple that is committed to each other that sincerely wants to adopt and raise a child. Give this child a chance for a quality life because it's clear you and the mother don't care for each other. And you've made it abudantly clear you don't care for this child.
My wife knows exactly what it's like to have a father that cares nothing for her...thank the Lord above my father embraced my wife as one of his own daughters 2 decades ago and helped fill that void in her life....that's how a strong, courageous, loving man acts.
good post man. My girlfrien is the same way her dad is a horrible little sour old man who moved away years ago and regularly gets drunk and calls her family to verbaly abuse them and her.
She thinks the world of my parents wants my dad to give her away when we eventually get around to it.
I cant even begin to understand how it must feel.
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Your girl wants to decorate. Just let her do what she wants. She is building a nest for her family.
My vote for most ignorant post to ever happen on getbig 2013
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Western women..... untrustworthy and terrible. Full of drama and games. Female bodies with the mindset of men.
I'm gonna marry a foreign woman if I ever get married. That's for damn sure.
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Western women..... untrustworthy and terrible. Full of drama and games. Female bodies with the mindset of men.
I'm gonna marry a foreign woman if I ever get married. That's for damn sure.
AFAIK, she's from Africa ;)
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I think you may be racist for making your imaginary girlfriend both black and a monstrous bitch.
She black? ???
Her being black is half your problem right there anabolichalo. The other half comes out after being hitched, that is them being a monstrous bitch.
How many black women stay in a monogamous relationship?
"Only 45% of African American households contain a married couple, compared to 80% for Whites, and 70% among Hispanics. (U.S. Census)"
What were you expecting her to lay at your feet as you came home each day?
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good post man. My girlfrien is the same way her dad is a horrible little sour old man who moved away years ago and regularly gets drunk and calls her family to verbaly abuse them and her.
She thinks the world of my parents wants my dad to give her away when we eventually get around to it.
I cant even begin to understand how it must feel.
Yep, it's pretty tragic what abusive and/or absent fathers can do to their children. My mother-in-law was physically and emotionally abused by wife's "father" and he emotionally abused my sister-in-law as well. Fortunately, by the grace of God, my wife didn't experience a great deal of direct abuse (but did a ton of indirect). We met each other as kids and my family basically adopted her. Loving families are held together by loving parents and I'm so absolutely blessed to have a family like that (I never take it for granted). My wife has been with me for 20 years and she's a strong woman, but I know even today that the effects of her father's abuse hurts her. He's an older man now and seems to have a bit of regret (just a touch). If he sought forgiveness he'd find it with us, but she has already forgiven him. I do hope before he dies he can come to terms with his actions and seek forgiveness from those he's wronged and most importantly with the Lord above. It would be a potentially long road of healing that would take place, but I rest firmly in my faith in God and know he's in full control and will take us through the fire even then.
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Yep, it's pretty tragic what abusive and/or absent fathers can do to their children. My mother-in-law was physically and emotionally abused by wife's "father" and he emotionally abused my sister-in-law as well. Fortunately, by the grace of God, my wife didn't experience a great deal of direct abuse (but did a ton of indirect). We met each other as kids and my family basically adopted her. Loving families are held together by loving parents and I'm so absolutely blessed to have a family like that (I never take it for granted). My wife has been with me for 20 years and she's a strong woman, but I know even today that the effects of her father's abuse hurts her. He's an older man now and seems to have a bit of regret (just a touch). If he sought forgiveness he'd find it with us, but she has already forgiven him. I do hope before he dies he can come to terms with his actions and seek forgiveness from those he's wronged and most importantly with the Lord above. It would be a potentially long road of healing that would take place, but I rest firmly in my faith in God and know he's in full control and will take us through the fire even then.
You sound like a great solid man. As a father myself i find it impossible to understand how someone can treat his kids and family in such a way. I find it admirable that your wife can forgive. In our case i feel forgiveness would be impossibe as this excuse for a man will continue with his drunken verbal abuse till the day he dies.
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so....
this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see
any way to avoid having to pay all together?
What your saying is you dont want to do the responsible thing huh
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Shes 6 months pregnant and probably really scared of all the changes this baby is going to bring. What harm is it if he cuts her some slack and just helps her redecorate their home? Relationships are about compromise and if he loves her then he will want to see her happy.
compromise means letting a woman have her way 100% ::)
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compromise means letting a woman have her way 100% ::)
Woman don't know much about compromise.
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I'm not so sure about the bold part, maybe Anabolichalo can elaborate on this?
I think* that the birth of a child is the ultimate test for a relationship.
* I don't have/wish them
do i love her?
obviously
but not enough to let her do whatever she wants on my dollar
that's madnes
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Can you blame her? You don't brush your filthy teeth. Yuck
fuckyou bitch easy for you to lay around the house all day with your pregnant gut of peace
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What your saying is you dont want to do the responsible thing huh
i'm saying if she wants to be "independant woman" she can fuck off and not get a penny from this getbigger
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i'm saying if she wants to be "independant woman" she can fuck off and not get a penny from this getbigger
wait till the child comes
it changes everything
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wait till the child comes
it changes everything
:-X
the best i can hope for is the child makes it thru the delivery
the mother doesnt however
but with modern doctors i dont see this happening :-\
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the best i can hope for is the child makes it thru the delivery
the mother doesnt however
but with modern doctors i dont see this happening :-\
dont wish that
come on
there is trolling and there is being a cu nt
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dont wish that
come on
there is trolling and there is being a cu nt
i'm desperate
like a lamb to the slaughter house
cant you tell
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LOL at the fools who respond to the troll who started this thread.
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i'm saying if she wants to be "independant woman" she can fuck off and not get a penny from this getbigger
Look, you stuck your dick in it and now your going to be a daddy. Freaking man up and do whatever it takes to support the kid at the very least. If you cant do that your just another useless sperm donor. OR your just trolling the forum with BS
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so....
this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see
any way to avoid having to pay all together?
You dodged a bullet. Paying child support is a much smaller headache than living with a girl who will nag and then Better Deal you at the first opportunity.
Before you cut one single check though-- deoxyribonucleic acid. Get it tested when the baby is born and pay for it out of your own pocket, money well spent. Paternity fraud is between 20 and 30%.
Men tell small lies like - "I was hangin with the fellas."
Women tell lies like - "ITS YOUR BABY!" - Chris Rock
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Seriously dude just leave the country and never come back.
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Compromise :(
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now it's like she has memory loss
she is just acting like nothing is going on
asking about who is coming to help for the moving ???
the fuck
guess she is coming after all? but goddamnit that floor does not change goddamnit
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now it's like she has memory loss
she is just acting like nothing is going on
asking about who is coming to help for the moving ???
the fuck
guess she is coming after all? but goddamnit that floor does not change goddamnit
You'll be alright. Just make it work. Don't take any shit, but don't be a dick either.
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Interpersonal dischord :(
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now it's like she has memory loss
she is just acting like nothing is going on
asking about who is coming to help for the moving ???
the fuck
guess she is coming after all? but goddamnit that floor does not change goddamnit
Then it's up to you to remind her like it is. Man up and tell her "no, this is my house". Just stay calm while saying this.
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Then it's up to you to remind her like it is. Man up and tell her "no, this is my house". Just stay calm while saying this.
i told her last time "why dont you buy a house and i come live with you? then you can do whatever you want"
::)
women .......
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i told her last time "why dont you buy a house and i come live with you? then you can do whatever you want"
::)
women .......
No, you shouldn't live with a woman that doesn't respect you, that situation isn't good for your future child, she and you.
Stay LAT, stay calm, thank me later
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The fact that you argue about any of her issues means you've already lost. Rational arguments with women are futile. Women will always win 'word' battles because they change the rules mid game.
Give simple strong yes/no answers to her questions and then refuse to discuss it...leave the premises for a couple of hours if needed. You'll engender more respect AND keep them off their footing with your silence.
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The fact that you argue about any of her issues means you've already lost. Rational arguments with women are futile. Women will always win 'word' battles because they change the rules mid game.
Give simple strong yes/no answers to her questions and then refuse to discuss it...leave the premises for a couple of hours if needed. You'll engender more respect AND keep them off their footing with your silence.
^^
X2, and thank this man as well
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The fact that you argue about any of her issues means you've already lost. Rational arguments with women are futile. Women will always win 'word' battles because they change the rules mid game.
Give simple strong yes/no answers to her questions and then refuse to discuss it...leave the premises for a couple of hours if needed. You'll engender more respect AND keep them off their footing with your silence.
going to apply this
seems true
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going to apply this
seems true
have you showed her your front double bi ceps
its a convincing argument
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have you showed her your front double bi ceps
its a convincing argument
she doesnt think i look even remotely big
black people have much higher standards for muscularity and size
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Nice trolling, over egging it again though mate ;D ;D
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If she's overly interested in your decorating - read between the lines. She's more interested in where she's living than who she's living with.
IE, it's a waste of your time and trouble.