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Title: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Svengoolie on June 20, 2015, 08:49:58 AM
Say, 3 and a shot. No big deal, or sound the alarm?
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: ritch on June 20, 2015, 08:51:43 AM
if guy friends,yes.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 08:54:00 AM
No such things as guy friends when you have a broad.  I don't play that shit. 
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Svengoolie on June 20, 2015, 08:54:12 AM
Married couple. Doesn't help my paranoia any less
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: _aj_ on June 20, 2015, 08:57:41 AM
Married couple. Doesn't help my paranoia any less

Dunno, sounds pretty legit to me. Married couple? WTF are you worried about, that they'll suggest a threesome?
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 08:57:43 AM
Married couple. Doesn't help my paranoia any less

Do you have a reason to not trust her?
From where does your paranoia stem?
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Hulk-smash! on June 20, 2015, 09:00:19 AM
1st rule : Never get married.  Its an outdated concept.
2nd rule : If you have to worry about things like this then you've already lost the upper hand. 
3rd rule : Never ever let her know it concerns you.
4th rule : Never get married.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Svengoolie on June 20, 2015, 09:03:07 AM
Aj,
Yeah that's what goes thru my head. I know it can sound really dramatic (can I blame it on being on a test cycle?) But I guess I just don't put anything past anyone. Especially women when they drink  :-\

Wiggs,
Maybe it's s case of what goes around comes around in my head, but a couple of years ago I messed with a girl that had a bf and saw first-hand how treacherous they could be. Ever.since that experience I've been really paranoid. Also would never do something like that again.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 09:03:10 AM
Don't listen to ol' Jade jaws above me.  Marriage is not an outdated concept.  No, never let anyone see you sweat, figure out the root of your paranoia/insecurity before it consumes you.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: ritch on June 20, 2015, 09:05:20 AM
If it's a couple and you know them as being very "normal" why not? women need to be more social than men (in general) so either you're stuck doing stuff like that with them or you let them loose once and a while.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: SF1900 on June 20, 2015, 09:06:51 AM
This is one thing that I don't get. Why do girls love going out to dinner with their friends? I hear it all the time, "Getting dinner with the girls." Why do women enjoy going out to dinner together so much? I walked into a pizza store the other day and saw 4 teenage girls (13-15) all sitting down for a dinner. They were drinking water and soda out of wineglasses lol. Maybe they were pretending to be Paris Hilton. Starting early. Do they want to feel high-class when they say, "Getting dinner with the girls?"

Getbig, please make sense of this for me.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 09:08:26 AM
Aj,
Yeah that's what goes thru my head. I know it can sound really dramatic (can I blame it on being on a test cycle?) But I guess I just don't put anything past anyone. Especially women when they drink  :-\

Wiggs,
Maybe it's s case of what goes around comes around in my head, but a couple of years ago I messed with a girl that had a bf and saw first-hand how treacherous they could be. Ever.since that experience I've been really paranoid. Also would never do something like that again.

You have nothing to worry about from what you've written. Karma is a mofo, I'm sure you know that. You go after a certain kind of woman, this is what you get.  Hope that your woman is not that certain kind of woman.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Tapeworm on June 20, 2015, 09:09:42 AM
If they're her friends from before you met her then she's over there bitching about you, sir.

Don't fight it.  Next time you see them just drool some and try to hump the nearest anything while screaming "Nah nah nah I'm not listening to you I am not listening to you!"
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 09:10:53 AM
This is one thing that I don't get. Why do girls love going out to dinner with their friends? I hear it all the time, "Getting dinner with the girls." Why do women enjoy going out to dinner together so much? I walked into a pizza store the other day and saw 4 teenage girls (13-15) all sitting down for a dinner. They were drinking water and soda out of wineglasses lol. Maybe they were pretending to be Paris Hilton. Starting early. Do they want to feel high-class when they say, "Getting dinner with the girls?"

Getbig, please make sense of this for me.

It's what they do.  Gossip like old hens.  Most women are very social.  Not that that's a bad thing only when they try to involve me.  I'm not into all this shit.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: DroppingPlates on June 20, 2015, 09:11:09 AM
This is one thing that I don't get. Why do girls love going out to dinner with their friends? I hear it all the time, "Getting dinner with the girls." Why do women enjoy going out to dinner together so much? I walked into a pizza store the other day and saw 4 teenage girls (13-15) all sitting down for a dinner. They were drinking water and soda out of wineglasses lol. Maybe they were pretending to be Paris Hilton. Starting early. Do they want to feel high-class when they say, "Getting dinner with the girls?"

Getbig, please make sense of this for me.

Well, doesn't the same apply to us men, like going to the gym, eat a burger, watching a game, etc? Men and women tend to vary in their interests, nothing new here..
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Svengoolie on June 20, 2015, 09:13:24 AM
Thanks man, yeah I always felt I was going to pay for it somehow (it got pretty dirty at one point), but always wondered how.

I'm up for marriage, and it's what she wants. Little things like that just dig into my gut and I her a hard time telling whether it's instinct, or in my head. Just seemed like a little too much to me for a normal dinner out, I dunno.

Ritch,
Yeah they seem pretty normal I suppose. But I left one thing out. She's out of town.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: ritch on June 20, 2015, 09:15:45 AM
Thanks man, yeah I always felt I was going to pay for it somehow (it got pretty dirty at one point), but always wondered how.

I'm up for marriage, and it's what she wants. Little things like that just dig into my gut and I her a hard time telling whether it's instinct, or in my head. Just seemed like a little too much to me for a normal dinner out, I dunno.

Ritch,
Yeah they seem pretty normal I suppose. But I left one thing out. She's out of town.

If she's outta town, she could do whatever she wanted and not even tell you. She's being open and honest, that, I'd appreciate. Much rather have her with friends you know than going out alone. Going out alone is has guys saying "she's alone" and will just get approached more.

If you trust, you trust.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Svengoolie on June 20, 2015, 09:18:12 AM
That's a good point, ritch. I appreciate it.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 09:18:59 AM
Thanks man, yeah I always felt I was going to pay for it somehow (it got pretty dirty at one point), but always wondered how.

I'm up for marriage, and it's what she wants. Little things like that just dig into my gut and I her a hard time telling whether it's instinct, or in my head. Just seemed like a little too much to me for a normal dinner out, I dunno.

Ritch,
Yeah they seem pretty normal I suppose. But I left one thing out. She's out of town.

Unless you have a reason to not trust her, you're going to have to trust her man.  Insecurity doesn't look good on a man. Perhaps this is your "karma" I don't know.  But the last you want to do is make something from nothing.  If there really is something there.  You'll know and you'll know what questions to ask.  Just don't flip and go nuts.  Not a good look.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Mr Anabolic on June 20, 2015, 09:20:18 AM
1st rule : Never get married.  Its an outdated concept.
2nd rule : If you have to worry about things like this then you've already lost the upper hand. 
3rd rule : Never ever let her know it concerns you.
4th rule : Never get married.

Alpha. Keep it up.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: ritch on June 20, 2015, 09:23:39 AM
That's a good point, ritch. I appreciate it.

If you get a little "hello" text during the evening or even a "goodnight" after, that's very good. Your girl going out and not saying goodnight after=me pissed off as fuck.

I don't care about the reasons, we worry as is and no news is having the other live too much stress. Not just about cheating, it's about knowing that person is ok. Also, with my gf's we text "goodnight" every night, so a night where they do out, well hate to say the word "entitled" but I think we are entitled to a "goodnight" text.

If not? Totally open to being an asshole until you feel like being nice.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Svengoolie on June 20, 2015, 09:29:16 AM
Unless you have a reason to not trust her, you're going to have to trust her man.  Insecurity doesn't look good on a man. Perhaps this is your "karma" I don't know.  But the last you want to do is make something from nothing.  If there really is something there.  You'll know and you'll know what questions to ask.  Just don't flip and go nuts.  Not a good look.

I consider myself pretty reasonable and level headed, as in I never go psycho over things and I wouldn't expect her not to have a drink or go out. What started it really was when she told me today it was almost like she slipped, with a slight guilty tone about it when she said how many (i didn't ask). I'm sure I'll get over it over the weekend, but I wanted to bring it up with my gb bros.

Ritch,
I'm with you there bro. For the exact same reasons. I didn't get any texts during the outing (which I'm fine with, don't want her to feel like she needs to check in with me) But I did get that text at midnight, so yeah that was good.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: ritch on June 20, 2015, 09:30:37 AM
DING, DING, DING!
Got a keeper here, lucky guy...
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 09:32:34 AM
I consider myself pretty reasonable and level headed, as in I never go psycho over things and I wouldn't expect her not to have a drink or go out. What started it really was when she told me today it was almost like she slipped, with a slight guilty tone about it when she said how many (i didn't ask). I'm sure I'll get over it over the weekend, but I wanted to bring it up with my gb bros.

Ritch,
I'm with you there bro. For the exact same reasons. I didn't get any texts during the outing (which I'm fine with, don't want her to feel like she needs to check in with me) But I did get that text at midnight, so yeah that was good.

Everything sounds good brosef.  Just have fun yourself.  Ritch is right. You got the text.  I believe in the goodnight text as well.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: DroppingPlates on June 20, 2015, 09:35:48 AM
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Natural Man on June 20, 2015, 10:02:01 AM
This is one thing that I don't get. Why do girls love going out to dinner with their friends? I hear it all the time, "Getting dinner with the girls." Why do women enjoy going out to dinner together so much? I walked into a pizza store the other day and saw 4 teenage girls (13-15) all sitting down for a dinner. They were drinking water and soda out of wineglasses lol. Maybe they were pretending to be Paris Hilton. Starting early. Do they want to feel high-class when they say, "Getting dinner with the girls?"

Getbig, please make sense of this for me.
women love to compare each others to other females/males and to reveal their husbands weaknesses and insecurities. Never forget, women lead the world, not men. Everything men do, every war they fight, they do it for women; mothers, girlfriends, wives. Females keep the whole thing known as life going, they love competition, manipulate/create/destroy other lives; kids lives, male lives. They are the ones who have the power. It works exactly the same in our cousins known as chimps and other monkey species; women lead males. We re just clothed , shaved monkeys fighting, working, for females.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Waller on June 20, 2015, 10:09:35 AM
women love to compare each others to other females/males and to reveal their husbands weaknesses and insecurities. Never forget, women lead the world, not men. Everything men do, every war they fight, they do it for women; mothers, girlfriends, wives. Females keep the whole thing known as life going, they love competition, manipulate/create/destroy other lives; kids lives, male lives. They are the ones who have the power. It works exactly the same in our cousins known as chimps and other monkey species; women lead males. We re just clothed , shaved monkeys fighting, working, for females.

Apart from gay guys of course.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 10:10:37 AM
women love to compare each others to other females/males and to reveal their husbands weaknesses and insecurities. Never forget, women lead the world, not men. Everything men do, every war they fight, they do it for women; mothers, girlfriends, wives. Females keep the whole thing known as life going, they love competition, manipulate/create/destroy other lives; kids lives, male lives. They are the ones who have the power. It works exactly the same in our cousins known as chimps and other monkey species; women lead males. We re just clothed , shaved monkeys fighting, working, for females.

You sound like a real wimp right now Raymond.  Women don't control anything.  We give them the appearance they do. A man strong in morals, faith and standards is not ran by a woman.  She looks to him.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: ritch on June 20, 2015, 10:15:21 AM
This is one thing that I don't get. Why do girls love going out to dinner with their friends? I hear it all the time, "Getting dinner with the girls." Why do women enjoy going out to dinner together so much? I walked into a pizza store the other day and saw 4 teenage girls (13-15) all sitting down for a dinner. They were drinking water and soda out of wineglasses lol. Maybe they were pretending to be Paris Hilton. Starting early. Do they want to feel high-class when they say, "Getting dinner with the girls?"

Getbig, please make sense of this for me.

The staff must have had a good laugh at that one. But women always gotta "be somewhere" or "doing something". Amazing they did not have a male at the table to pay for their food...
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Natural Man on June 20, 2015, 10:16:22 AM
You sound like a real wimp right now Raymond.  Women don't control anything.  We give them the appearance they do. A man strong in morals, faith and standards is not ran by a woman.  She looks to him.
like when your ex wife looked up to your sorry ass and came to the conclusion you were a loser then left for a real, better man ? lol

Also it s funny to listen to your advices considering you ve been dumped a long time ago, whined quite a lot about it on here, and have been single since then...



Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: thegamechanger on June 20, 2015, 10:19:45 AM
i love how you talk about all women being a certain way, acting a certain way.
makes it so much easier.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Wiggs on June 20, 2015, 10:26:23 AM
like when your ex wife looked up to your sorry ass and came to the conclusion you were a loser then left? lol

Also it s funny to listen to your advices considering you ve been dumped a long time ago, whined quite a lot about it on here, and have been single since then...





Don't get mad at me for your insecurities Raymond.  You know that's not what happened.  I left and there was no other man or woman. But everything  that happened was because of me.  I was not a nice man toward the end.  I had no faith and I relaxed my morals. But that's a nice try to divert the attention to something that happened years ago.   Everything worked out the way it was supposed to.  I learned my lessons and have applied them to life.  You don't know what my current situation is.  

You reek of insecurity Raymond.  We all remember those posts about how you treat your wife.  That is the sign of an insecure man. I made many mistakes of which I admitted.  Yes, I whined and complained about it here but I'm a better man because of it, you could learn a lesson or two Raymond.

Please don't spew lies about me.  You're better than that.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: lilhawk1 on June 20, 2015, 11:42:16 AM
Say, 3 and a shot. No big deal, or sound the alarm?

You taking tren?  Love the stuff, but my God does it make me think paranoid shit. 
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Walter Sobchak on June 20, 2015, 11:46:45 AM
You taking tren?  Love the stuff, but my God does it make me think paranoid shit. 

Hi Groink!
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Walter Sobchak on June 20, 2015, 11:53:07 AM
Married couple. Doesn't help my paranoia any less

Don't believe this. She was out for drinks with a guy and that is her cover story.

It's either fake, or she had one drink with them and then left to meet a guy.

100% certain.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Never1AShow on June 20, 2015, 02:54:22 PM
This is one thing that I don't get. Why do girls love going out to dinner with their friends? I hear it all the time, "Getting dinner with the girls." Why do women enjoy going out to dinner together so much? I walked into a pizza store the other day and saw 4 teenage girls (13-15) all sitting down for a dinner. They were drinking water and soda out of wineglasses lol. Maybe they were pretending to be Paris Hilton. Starting early. Do they want to feel high-class when they say, "Getting dinner with the girls?"

Getbig, please make sense of this for me.

They just love to yack it up and cackle.  Count your blessings you don't have to attend.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: SF1900 on June 20, 2015, 03:07:45 PM
It's what they do.  Gossip like old hens.  Most women are very social.  Not that that's a bad thing only when they try to involve me.  I'm not into all this shit.

Me either. I am more low key. I had an ex who used to LOVE that crap. Every weekend was some sort of get together (BBQ, party, dinner, drinks, wedding). I mean, I don't mind that stuff once in a while, but I do not want it to be on a daily basis. It just became stale doing it every weekend.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: SF1900 on June 20, 2015, 03:09:06 PM
Well, doesn't the same apply to us men, like going to the gym, eat a burger, watching a game, etc? Men and women tend to vary in their interests, nothing new here..

Not really.

Its a different dynamic when it happens. Plus, as Ive gotten older, I cant even remember the last time I went out with the guys.  ::) ::) Yeah, maybe when I was 21, not any more. But I noticed women continue to do it in their 30s, 40's, 50s, etc.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: SF1900 on June 20, 2015, 03:11:09 PM
The staff must have had a good laugh at that one. But women always gotta "be somewhere" or "doing something". Amazing they did not have a male at the table to pay for their food...

Yes, I think a lot of it has to do with "being somewhere" or "doing something." People just cant be still these days. Its uncomfortable for them. They are always on the "go." Going here, going there. The best is when people are driving like lunatics to get somewhere. 10 to 1, they really have nowhere important to go, and even if they are 5 minutes late, they are not important enough to where it matters. Yet, they have to put everyone elses life in danger to get where they are going.  ::) ::)
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: DroppingPlates on June 20, 2015, 03:11:25 PM
Me either. I am more low key. I had an ex who used to LOVE that crap. Every weekend was some sort of get together (BBQ, party, dinner, drinks, wedding). I mean, I don't mind that stuff once in a while, but I do not want it to be on a daily basis. It just became stale doing it every weekend.

Good for you, only beta metrosexuals are into that socializing stuff. No wonder why they're so popular among women :-\
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: SF1900 on June 20, 2015, 03:12:34 PM
They just love to yack it up and cackle.  Count your blessings you don't have to attend.

When I was with my ex I attended a lot of "events." Eventually, it got old and I stopped going. We eventually broke up. It was even more frustrating because her friends always came before any of my friends events. Needless to say, it did not work out.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: SF1900 on June 20, 2015, 03:14:19 PM
Good for you, only beta metrosexuals are into that socializing stuff. No wonder why they're so popular among women :-\

I don't mind socializing with my best friends. But we do low key stuff.

With her, every weekend was like a huge social gathering....bars, clubs, bbq's, parties. Blah.

As stated previously, I dont mind socializing with others, but every weekend was like a major social events. Eh, Ill pass.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: DroppingPlates on June 20, 2015, 03:18:21 PM
I don't mind socializing with my best friends. But we do low key stuff.

With her, every weekend was like a huge social gathering....bars, clubs, bbq's, parties. Blah.

As stated previously, I dont mind socializing with others, but every weekend was like a major social events. Eh, Ill pass.

Gotya, and I feel the same. I prefer to combine it with an activity like a concert. movie, sports or whatever, but just talking for hours with a glass in your hands makes me wanna escape.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: lilhawk1 on June 20, 2015, 04:25:35 PM
Not really.

Its a different dynamic when it happens. Plus, as Ive gotten older, I cant even remember the last time I went out with the guys.  ::) ::) Yeah, maybe when I was 21, not any more. But I noticed women continue to do it in their 30s, 40's, 50s, etc.

It's so they can post it all over Facebook.  All about attention.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Stan Diego on June 20, 2015, 05:59:45 PM
No such things as guy friends when you have a broad.  I don't play that shit. 

Aren't you a mall cop? This thread is about girlfriends, no way you go on dates.

Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Vince B on June 20, 2015, 06:08:41 PM
Don't believe this. She was out for drinks with a guy and that is her cover story.

It's either fake, or she had one drink with them and then left to meet a guy.

100% certain.

The voice of bitter experience. Be careful when it comes to vaginas because they will dump you but only after the next guy is in love with them. If you need a private investigator it is already too late! There will be no peace of mind. Install listening devices so there are no surprises! Get passwords, etc., because the trust is gone.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Natural Man on June 20, 2015, 06:11:19 PM
women are like monkeys, they swing from tree to tree without letting the first go before they have a firm hold of the next branch / cock...
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: el numero uno on June 20, 2015, 06:13:55 PM
women are like monkeys, they swing from tree to tree without letting the first go before they have a firm hold of the next branch / cock...

Did your wife leave you or something?
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Walter Sobchak on June 20, 2015, 07:50:28 PM
The voice of bitter experience. Be careful when it comes to vaginas because they will dump you but only after the next guy is in love with them. If you need a private investigator it is already too late! There will be no peace of mind. Install listening devices so there are no surprises! Get passwords, etc., because the trust is gone.

Ever stop to think I might be a single guy who regularly fucks married women?

Senile old blowhard.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: SF1900 on June 20, 2015, 08:53:15 PM
Did your wife leave you or something?

Survival..........the strong survive.......weak will die off........resources.... ...fighting for resources.........power. ............struggle.... ......
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Dave D on June 20, 2015, 08:59:43 PM
women love to compare each others to other females/males and to reveal their husbands weaknesses and insecurities. Never forget, women lead the world, not men. Everything men do, every war they fight, they do it for women; mothers, girlfriends, wives. Females keep the whole thing known as life going, they love competition, manipulate/create/destroy other lives; kids lives, male lives. They are the ones who have the power. It works exactly the same in our cousins known as chimps and other monkey species; women lead males. We re just clothed , shaved monkeys fighting, working, for females.

Interesting hypothesis, I'm sure there's much truth in there but as someone said what about gay men or those who are single? Do you really think mothers pull that many strings in successful,  well adjusted grown men's lives?
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: James28 on June 20, 2015, 11:20:34 PM
Yes, I think a lot of it has to do with "being somewhere" or "doing something." People just cant be still these days. Its uncomfortable for them. They are always on the "go." Going here, going there. The best is when people are driving like lunatics to get somewhere. 10 to 1, they really have nowhere important to go, and even if they are 5 minutes late, they are not important enough to where it matters. Yet, they have to put everyone elses life in danger to get where they are going.  ::) ::)

This.

They're under the impression that they have 'active' lifestyles with iPhones, iPads and iMacs diaries filled up with pointless stupid irrelevant dumb shit. It's all a pretense for others. I swear people spend half their fucking lives trying to impress others. Especially girls and fags in their 20s.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: DroppingPlates on June 21, 2015, 03:40:44 AM
Survival..........the strong survive.......weak will die off........resources.... ...fighting for resources.........power. ............struggle.... ......

You forgot the #hashtags brah!
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Natural Man on June 21, 2015, 04:02:45 PM
Interesting hypothesis, I'm sure there's much truth in there but as someone said what about gay men or those who are single? Do you really think mothers pull that many strings in successful,  well adjusted grown men's lives?
it s not an hypothesis, it s a fact, thats just the way it is, humans are just a branch of the monkey 's evolution tree, and as a result we share most of our social behaviors with them even if they re a bit more sophisticated. Humans have matriarcals societies where everything males do, they do it to please...females. In the end we re leading the same lives they live, except we wear clothes and drive cars. It s still all about dominating with material goods to try and find the fittest women to reproduce with and insure the best genes for your offspring. We all mostly subconsciously look for mates to reproduce with and there are constant power games between individuals to define each others place in the ladder, or should i say food chain. In the human species the smartest , strongest survives at the expense of the dumbest, weakest, just like in every other animal species.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Dave D on June 21, 2015, 04:43:57 PM
it s not an hypothesis, it s a fact, thats just the way it is, humans are just a branch of the monkey 's evolution tree, and as a result we share most of our social behaviors with them even if they re a bit more sophisticated. Humans have matriarcals societies where everything males do, they do it to please...females. In the end we re leading the same lives they live, except we wear clothes and drive cars. It s still all about dominating with material goods to try and find the fittest women to reproduce with and insure the best genes for your offspring. We all mostly subconsciously look for mates to reproduce with and there are constant power games between individuals to define each others place in the ladder, or should i say food chain. In the human species the smartest , strongest survives at the expense of the dumbest, weakest, just like in every other animal species.

Steve Jobs = dead

Martin Facoln = alive (I am grateful though).
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Slapper on June 21, 2015, 06:02:06 PM
Say, 3 and a shot. No big deal, or sound the alarm?

Come on dude! You've seen the porn videos... Women getting drunk and doing things to strangers they would never do to you in a million years. When they go out, if dick is on the menu, it probably won't be yours.

Life is short, don't worry about anyone that much. Except for your kid(s) of course, if you have any.

What's the worst that can happen? That she comes home with a bag full of wet cocks?
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Slapper on June 21, 2015, 06:04:37 PM
And learn from your mistakes.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: kh300 on June 21, 2015, 06:17:06 PM
I dated a girl who used to go out after work like every night, and most of the people with her were guys. It used to bother me, but then I started going out myself when she did. Even if I wasnt doing anything I'd ignore her and act like I was busy. Not after long she stopped going out after work.

So next time she go's out with the girls, say ''cool, I'm gonna meet up with the guys at xxxbar'. Don't be surprised if she shows up.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Slapper on June 21, 2015, 06:30:50 PM
I dated a girl who used to go out after work like every night, and most of the people with her were guys. It used to bother me, but then I started going out myself when she did. Even if I wasn't doing anything I'd ignore her and act like I was busy. Not after long she stopped going out after work.

So next time she go's out with the girls, say ''cool, I'm gonna meet up with the guys at xxxbar'. Don't be surprised if she shows up.

But why should he be dependent on what she does though? That creates dependence issues.

My wife goes out once in a while. Do I worry? No. Why? Because if someone else is dumb enough to fall for a "used doll" they deserve to get that.

What I will never do is ask myself why. Did I fuck her right? Did I treat her well? Who the fuck cares! Life is literally TOO SHORT to have to worry about another human being that much. What you really want to do NOW is stop worrying about shit like that. If you find out that she cheated on you, break it off and move on immediately. If she didn't, but she still wants to go out once in a while WITHOUT YOU? Bullshit, there's the door. Have a nice life.

Kids aside, no one should be that important in your life.

My grandfather once told my grandmother, who was suffering from a bout of depression, to "walk it off". Eventually she did get out of the mental funk, but it wasn't because of what he said.  
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Post by: kh300 on June 21, 2015, 07:02:28 PM
But why should he be dependent on what she does though? That creates dependence issues.

My wife goes out once in a while. Do I worry? No. Why? Because if someone else is dumb enough to fall for a "used doll" they deserve to get that.

What I will never do is ask myself why. Did I fuck her right? Did I treat her well? Who the fuck cares! Life is literally TOO SHORT to have to worry about another human being that much. What you really want to do NOW is stop worrying about shit like that. If you find out that she cheated on you, break it off and move on immediately. If she didn't, but she still wants to go out once in a while WITHOUT YOU? Bullshit, there's the door. Have a nice life.

Kids aside, no one should be that important in your life.

My grandfather once told my grandmother, who was suffering from a bout of depression, to "walk it off". Eventually she did get out of the mental funk, but it wasn't because of what he said.  

I agree with you, but he wont be creating dependency issues. Just the opposite. His girl is going out and I bet he sits at home depressed about it. Use it as an opportunity to get out yourself.
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Post by: SF1900 on June 21, 2015, 07:21:54 PM
it s not an hypothesis, it s a fact, thats just the way it is, humans are just a branch of the monkey 's evolution tree, and as a result we share most of our social behaviors with them even if they re a bit more sophisticated. Humans have matriarcals societies where everything males do, they do it to please...females. In the end we re leading the same lives they live, except we wear clothes and drive cars. It s still all about dominating with material goods to try and find the fittest women to reproduce with and insure the best genes for your offspring. We all mostly subconsciously look for mates to reproduce with and there are constant power games between individuals to define each others place in the ladder, or should i say food chain. In the human species the smartest , strongest survives at the expense of the dumbest, weakest, just like in every other animal species.

Survival..........the strong survive.......weak will die off........resources.... ...fighting for resources.........power. ............struggle.... ......
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Danimal77 on June 21, 2015, 08:19:53 PM
Say, 3 and a shot. No big deal, or sound the alarm?

Man, be more confident. With this attitude, you're going to lose her QUICK. Major turn-off to a girl when her guy's insecure.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Core on June 21, 2015, 08:23:00 PM
Say, 3 and a shot. No big deal, or sound the alarm?

If your asking this question then you must be a total beta bottom bitch. In which case then yes you ought to be worried.

You ought to have gone with her though. Maybe the other guy would let you suck his dick.
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Post by: Svengoolie on June 21, 2015, 10:07:54 PM
Please don't be mean to me.  Thank you.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Walter Sobchak on June 21, 2015, 10:20:12 PM
Please don't be mean to me.  Thank you.

Well, we can either warn you now with a little tough advice, or you can find a video of her blowing her coworker on her iPhone six months from now.

Your choice.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: forillagorilla on June 21, 2015, 10:28:59 PM
1st rule : Never get married.  Its an outdated concept.
2nd rule : If you have to worry about things like this then you've already lost the upper hand. 
3rd rule : Never ever let her know it concerns you.
4th rule : Never get married.

If you have "rules" that dictate your behavior with women you are a douche-bag... Interacting with women should be as natural as breathing.. "Lost the upper hand" - lol. Like its some kind of fucking game...   You should be in great condition 365 and have read a fucking book or two - that's
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Core on June 21, 2015, 10:31:57 PM
If you have "rules" that dictate your behavior with women you are a douche-bag... Interacting with women should be as natural as breathing.. "Lost the upper hand" - lol. Like its some kind of fucking game...   You should be in great condition 365 and have read a fucking book or two - that's

Yes, 6% or below year round with at least 18 inch arms and 30 inch waist. Also, you must be an award winning author with over 1million sales and have a PHD in something. Classy getbigger.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Svengoolie on June 21, 2015, 10:35:28 PM
Well, we can either warn you now with a little tough advice, or you can find a video of her blowing her coworker on her iPhone six months from now.

Your choice.

Oh I was being facetious.  It's get big so i expect to be told I stuck cock, take it up the ass from barn animals,  etc.

As for this whole thing,  I'm fine about it now.  This thread let me vent about it.  I forgot who asked earlier but not running then just test.  But i don't remember ever getting like this before.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: SF1900 on June 21, 2015, 10:50:39 PM
Yes, 6% or below year round with at least 18 inch arms and 30 inch waist. Also, you must be an award winning author with over 1million sales and have a PHD in something. Classy getbigger.

 ;D ;D
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Post by: Tapeworm on June 22, 2015, 03:42:24 AM
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: _aj_ on June 22, 2015, 05:32:02 AM
Yes, 6% or below year round with at least 18 inch arms and 30 inch waist. Also, you must be an award winning author with over 1million sales and have a PHD in something. Classy getbigger.

The proper attribution is "250 @ 6% @ about 6 feet"

Pictures to be revealed on...

August 6...
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Core on June 22, 2015, 11:43:43 AM
The proper attribution is "250 @ 6% @ about 6 feet"

Pictures to be revealed on...

August 6...

true, or for those living a more relaxed lifestyle involving coke whores and late night partying, like many getbiggers stray toward... 280 at 8% at 6ft.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Waller on June 22, 2015, 11:53:52 AM
true, or for those living a more relaxed lifestyle involving coke whores and late night partying, like many getbiggers stray toward... 280 at 8% at 6ft.

Fat fucks.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Slapper on June 22, 2015, 05:44:50 PM
I agree with you, but he wont be creating dependency issues. Just the opposite. His girl is going out and I bet he sits at home depressed about it. Use it as an opportunity to get out yourself.

Nah, nah, nah. See, you're putting the ball on her side of the court. She jumps, he has to jump. She goes out, he has to go out. This is the BS I'm talking about. The guy ought to go out IF he feels like going out, not because she's out with her friends.

I really do not know the specifics. I don't think any of us know. I'm giving a 30,000-foot view of what I think ought to be done. The guy is probably worried because he is the one that cheated on the girl. Sounds like cheater's remorse to me.

At the end of the day, life is short. If she likes to get drunk and a cock happens to fall out of the sky... he'll know. Question is: What will HE do? I say, walk away and find yourself another woman. Live life. Do not hold grudges. Laugh it off. And don't sweat it. Not your fault. You didn't do anything wrong.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: HTexan on June 22, 2015, 09:49:52 PM
Married couple. Doesn't help my paranoia any less
Stop being beta.
you think she is fucking around? Has she ever gave you a reason to think so?
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Vince B on June 22, 2015, 09:54:12 PM
Stop being beta.
you think she is fucking around? Has she ever gave you a reason to think so?

LOL. Most guys have no clue when a woman plays up on them. You find out too late. Hope this helps.

Symptoms are: frequency of sex goes down. She loses interest in sex. She goes out with the girls.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: HTexan on June 22, 2015, 10:03:17 PM
LOL. Most guys have no clue when a woman plays up on them. You find out too late. Hope this helps.

Symptoms are: frequency of sex goes down. She loses interest in sex. She goes out with the girls.
Too late? He isn't married and doesn't have kids. If he thinks she is cheating easy to cut her off.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Slapper on June 23, 2015, 08:26:51 AM
Too late? He isn't married and doesn't have kids. If he thinks she is cheating easy to cut her off.

Exactly!

It'd be so easy even I want to call the bitch to complain.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Walter Sobchak on June 23, 2015, 08:29:28 AM
Too late? He isn't married and doesn't have kids. If he thinks she is cheating easy to cut her off.

Maybe he is like you and stays for the chance at tasting second-hand semen...
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: HTexan on June 23, 2015, 08:41:54 AM
 
Maybe he is like you and stays for the chance at tasting second-hand semen...
gimmick.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: herefortheglitter on June 23, 2015, 08:50:00 AM
women love to compare each others to other females/males and to reveal their husbands weaknesses and insecurities. Never forget, women lead the world, not men. Everything men do, every war they fight, they do it for women; mothers, girlfriends, wives. Females keep the whole thing known as life going, they love competition, manipulate/create/destroy other lives; kids lives, male lives. They are the ones who have the power. It works exactly the same in our cousins known as chimps and other monkey species; women lead males. We re just clothed , shaved monkeys fighting, working, for females.

That is not a real woman. How stupid. Why would you bash a man and then go home to him?? Joke is on her.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Yamcha on June 23, 2015, 08:50:43 AM
That is not a real woman. How stupid. Why would you bash a man and then go home to him?? Joke is on her.

For anal
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: herefortheglitter on June 23, 2015, 08:51:24 AM
For anal

HAHA!!!
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: mazrim on June 23, 2015, 09:15:05 AM
i love how you talk about all women being a certain way, acting a certain way.
makes it so much easier.

Best line in here. I guess its understandable how some of you guys are so against marriage if that's the type of women you can get....
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Teutonic Knight on June 23, 2015, 03:45:57 PM
LOL. Most guys have no clue when a woman plays up on them. You find out too late. Hope this helps.

Symptoms are: frequency of sex goes down. She loses interest in sex. She goes out with the girls.

Says who  , World class MEGA LOSER Basile  ::), dumped 30 years ago & is still hanging around his ex ::)
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: The Abdominal Snoman on June 23, 2015, 06:17:16 PM
This.

They're under the impression that they have 'active' lifestyles with iPhones, iPads and iMacs diaries filled up with pointless stupid irrelevant dumb shit. It's all a pretense for others. I swear people spend half their fucking lives trying to impress others. Especially girls and fags in their 20s.

Yup. Nothing worse than these so called social butterflies who supposedly have to be at every event/birthday party for people they just met. Buying people they barely know birthday gifts and shit. A lot of these people are wannabe's and have to stay busy so they don't listen to the voices that are in their head.
Title: Re: girlfriend having a few drinks with friends...
Post by: Dave D on June 23, 2015, 06:53:46 PM
After reading through all the replies all I keep thinking is how nice it must be to actually have a girl that you can say you're in a relationship with (and have friends outside of that  :o).

Some of you don't know how good you've got it....