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Getbig Main Boards => Gossip & Opinions => Topic started by: Slapper on April 07, 2024, 07:47:06 AM
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Hayo!
Found out last night that a friend, whom I thought was in a happy marriage, is contemplating divorce. Funny thing is his wife of 20+ years, who we all thought was a narcissist, was getting better and even made it a point to contact the other wives to set up parties and all. Little did I know my friend hasn’t had any decent sex in now almost two decades, and that he’s been living in a sexless marriage for almost two decades while remaining completely faithful to his wife.
My advice to him was to at the very least get a consultation with a divorce lawyer to see what divorce would look like. And then, based on what he says, to give his wife a last chance (without letting her know he’s been consulting with a divorce lawyer,) possibly going to marriage counseling.
Did I do the right thing? I feel so freaking bad for him… 20 years without decent sex. It’s fucking crazy!
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By the way, they’re both early 50s, have a 14 year old and both make over 100k, although she makes 25% more.
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We don’t need to know. Go talk to a counselor.
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They are not sexually compatible. Probably never were.
She married him for security or just because no one else asked her and he did.
Lots of women do it.
How many guys get great sex before the marriage then nothing after? A lot.
Right after the wedding the bride suddenly stops giving bj's, etc.
She only did it before to get the ring. Mercenary.
Sucks for him.
She may be getting sex somewhere else and he doesn't know about it.
They should get divorced as amicably as possible as soon as possible.
Since they both make good money it can be ended fairly. Maybe she gets the house or they work out a financial arrangement.
He should go his own way.
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He should do it. Once he does it will feel like a weight lifted off his shoulders and his only regret will be that he'll wish he had done it sooner.
Guaranteed she's a lesbian or she's been cheating on him.
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First thing he needs is a DNA test on that kid!
It's terrible to see a friend suffer in a marriage. Keep in mind he likely will NOT take your advice and backtrack. If he put up with it for this long the road to divorce will be a lot longer than you think looking at it from the outside.
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By the way, they’re both early 50s, have a 14 year old and both make over 100k, although she makes 25% more.
Good news for him unless she spends it all.
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They should continue their little happy dance facade until their kid is 18. He’s a weak fucker and she’s a selfish bitch. No reason to make their kids last 3 years of childhood shitty.
Once Jr. is off to adult land they can be free to do whatever they want. They haven’t played w each others buttholes in decades, what’s a couple more years.
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if he hadnt had sex with her for 20 years how did she explain the 14 year old?
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They haven’t played w each others buttholes in decades, what’s a couple more years.
;D
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if he hadnt had sex with her for 20 years how did she explain the 14 year old?
Exactly
The story sounds like bullshit to me
(Hasn’t had sex in 20 years... but he was in a happy marriage) 🙄
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No point divorcing at that age. Especially if they're both earning good money.
They're more like financial partners at this point.
They're better off coming to an agreement that they can fuck on the side (if the no sex for 20 years isn't an exaggeration).
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By the way, they’re both early 50s, have a 14 year old and both make over 100k, although she makes 25% more.
Then she is the man, we all know women are only worth 70% of what a man makes.
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No point divorcing at that age. Especially if they're both earning good money.
They're more like financial partners at this point.
They're better off coming to an agreement that they can fuck on the side (if the no sex for 20 years isn't an exaggeration).
He already said that he knows “for a fact”.
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Hayo!
Found out last night that a friend, whom I thought was in a happy marriage, is contemplating divorce. Funny thing is his wife of 20+ years, who we all thought was a narcissist, was getting better and even made it a point to contact the other wives to set up parties and all. Little did I know my friend hasn’t had any decent sex in now almost two decades, and that he’s been living in a sexless marriage for almost two decades while remaining completely faithful to his wife.
My advice to him was to at the very least get a consultation with a divorce lawyer to see what divorce would look like. And then, based on what he says, to give his wife a last chance (without letting her know he’s been consulting with a divorce lawyer,) possibly going to marriage counseling.
Did I do the right thing? I feel so freaking bad for him… 20 years without decent sex. It’s fucking crazy!
By the way, they’re both early 50s, have a 14 year old and both make over 100k, although she makes 25% more.
This is bullshit
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The only people that win in most divorces are the attorneys. It might well be warranted but shouldn’t be the first intervention.
At least do a round or two of couples therapy. Might work and is a whole hell of a lot less expensive.
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if he hadnt had sex with her for 20 years how did she explain the 14 year old?
This guy maths!
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Ok. Let me clarify things a bit. They had sex, but it was the bland ten minute sex sessions she couldn’t wait to get over with. By his account, it was a sexless marriage because they had sex less than 12 times per year, which is the literal legal definition of sexless marriage.
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Ok. Let me clarify things a bit. They had sex, but it was the bland ten minute sex sessions she couldn’t wait to get over with. By his account, it was a sexless marriage because they had sex less than 12 times per year, which is the literal legal definition of sexless marriage.
Get the fuck out of here with that legal definition.
you really know a lot about your friend’s sex life.... bland sex, for 10 minutes, less that 12 times per year...over the span of 20 years... and yet you assumed that they had a happy marriage?
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The guy seems to be opening up and telling everyone his problems now , maybe he needs to start TRT.
Either that or change his fucking Tampon
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Get the fuck out of here with that legal definition.
you really know a lot about your friend’s sex life.... bland sex, for 10 minutes, less that 12 times per year...over the span of 20 years... and yet you assumed that they had a happy marriage?
Sounds like op is a VVV like homewrecka
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Ok. Let me clarify things a bit. They had sex, but it was the bland ten minute sex sessions she couldn’t wait to get over with. By his account, it was a sexless marriage because they had sex less than 12 times per year, which is the literal legal definition of sexless marriage.
Sex fades in most marriages. We are programmed to spread our seed and not stay with the same woman. If she makes 25% more it's a cleaner break. I'm around his age and would keep the marriage going if sex is the issue. See a few hookers on the side here or there. If she is in her 50s, he probably doesn't even want sex much anyways. We are programmed to procreate and she is past that age. Might as well ride it out. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
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Sex fades in most marriages. We are programmed to spread our seed and not stay with the same woman. If she makes 25% more it's a cleaner break. I'm around his age and would keep the marriage going if sex is the issue. See a few hookers on the side here or there. If she is in her 50s, he probably doesn't even want sex much anyways. We are programmed to procreate and she is past that age. Might as well ride it out. The grass is not always greener on the other side.
I think the lack of riding is the problem
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Every friend I know who has gotten divorced eventually goes crazy in one way or the other. Better to stay married and just sleep in separate houses, haha.
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At this stage wait til the kid graduates. If there isn't a physical condition preventing a healthy sex life then your friend is justified in seeking supplemental pussy until the divorce.
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burn the house down and kill himself
That will show her...
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We don’t need to know. Go talk to a counselor.
x2 it's Charlotte Cup Day, fuck off with this.
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Ok. Let me clarify things a bit. They had sex, but it was the bland ten minute sex sessions she couldn’t wait to get over with. By his account, it was a sexless marriage because they had sex less than 12 times per year, which is the literal legal definition of sexless marriage.
We can't all be Sting, and have hours long sex sessions, straight out of the Kama Sutra.
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Most states side with the woman in a divorce. Realize the more money you have the more money the two divorce attorneys are going to charge. They will also drag it out as long as possible to get those billable hours sky high and milk it to the maximum. People without means makes the divorce easy because it's chump change for the two attorneys. I had a friend that said jokingly that the money was split four ways. It was a share for him, his wife and the two attorneys.
It will work out in his favor since she makes more. If he makes around 100k all he has to do is give her the house then he just has to pay a limited 50% child support and she is responsible for the other 50%.
Many marriages become sexless especially after a woman goes through menopause. Heard it from a lot of guys that their wife has zero sex drive. If they do they are doing mercy fucks and can't wait for it to be over. It's a common story. The other possibility is that she is fucking some guy on the side.
Since she makes more money so that is a home run. Paying alimony and child support turns most men into paupers living in a shit hole apartment. Then no women are interested in the broke guy. On the other hand the woman's life continues with a nice house and nothing changes. Soon she has a guy sitting in your favorite chair watching your big screen tv. Her sex drive is now sky high again. He is also sitting there with your Johnny Walker Blue. After watching the game drinking your booze he will fuck your wife's ass. Something she would never let you do. She also swallows for him too.
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We can't all be Sting, and have hours long sex sessions, straight out of the Kama Sutra.
When’s the last time you had sex? Honest question.
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Most states side with the woman in a divorce. Realize the more money you have the more money the two divorce attorneys are going to charge. They will also drag it out as long as possible to get those billable hours sky high and milk it to the maximum. People without means makes the divorce easy because it's chump change for the two attorneys. I had a friend that said jokingly that the money was split four ways. It was a share for him, his wife and the two attorneys.
It will work out in his favor since she makes more. If he makes around 100k all he has to do is give her the house then he just has to pay a limited 50% child support and she is responsible for the other 50%.
Many marriages become sexless especially after a woman goes through menopause. Heard it from a lot of guys that their wife has zero sex drive. If they do they are doing mercy fucks and can't wait for it to be over. It's a common story. The other possibility is that she is fucking some guy on the side.
Since she makes more money so that is a home run. Paying alimony and child support turns most men into paupers living in a shit hole apartment. Then no women are interested in the broke guy. On the other hand the woman's life continues with a nice house and nothing changes. Soon she has a guy sitting in your favorite chair watching your big screen tv. Her sex drive is now sky high again. He is also sitting there with your Johnny Walker Blue. After watching the game drinking your booze he will fuck your wife's ass. Something she would never let you do. She also swallows for him too.
Yep.
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When’s the last time you had sex? Honest question.
I bet it went down like this.
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When’s the last time you had sex? Honest question.
It's been awhile, but it's also overrated. I don't go searching for companionship.
Besides, if I was that desperate, I would just pay for it.
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It's been awhile, but it's also overrated. I don't go searching for companionship.
Besides, if I was that desperate, I would just pay for it.
Ok so it’s been literal years.
Your cope is that it’s “overrated”.
It’s nice knowing that your defective ancestral dna will stop with you.
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Slapper’s friends
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I think that a lot of women still think that sex is this mechanical thing that has nothing to do with spiritual closeness, whereas for a lot of men it has to do with physical release, yes, but also an attempt to get closer mentally. They simply don't understand how important it is for a man.
"You only want sex," well yes but it's much more at the same time.
Maybe others here have opposing ideas about what sex means to a man?
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We can't all be Sting, and have hours long sex sessions, straight out of the Kama Sutra.
Speak for yourself.
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I think that a lot of women still think that sex is this mechanical thing that has nothing to do with spiritual closeness, whereas for a lot of men it has to do with physical release, yes, but also an attempt to get closer mentally. They simply don't understand how important it is for a man.
"You only want sex," well yes but it's much more at the same time.
Maybe others here have opposing ideas about what sex means to a man?
Good point. But if a woman is honest with herself she needs it too both as a physical release and to feel a deeper intimacy.
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A lot of women don't orgasm with vaginal sex so if that's all they get they lose interest.
Some guys are lousy at getting their wives off.
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Speak for yourself.
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If your friend put up with it for 6 years before he even had the kid then he's a simp. He won't listen to your advice he'll just stay with her until she initiates the divorce which will happen once the kid moves out. He should try to protect whatever assets he has and make sure she's paying her fair share of expenses (I bet he's paying the bills from his salary and she's spending her salary on herself) for the rest of the time they're together.
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Can we get some life advice from some of the more successful Getbiggers like Shizzo and DJ181.
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Do they seem to have fun together to you? Or just put up with each other?
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Do they seem to have fun together to you? Or just put up with each other?
Did he not already say that they seemed happily married?
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Slapper has quietly backed out of his own thread.
What does that tell you?
***BULLSHIT***
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We can't all be Sting, and have hours long sex sessions, straight out of the Kama Sutra.
This is a helluva throwback comment. Well done!
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He should consult a lawyer and see how bad it will be for him. He should also sink some money into having a private eye follow her around for a month or so and make sure she’s not fucking around on him. If she is, just use that as blackmail that you’ll show the kid if she tries to fuck with you in the divorce.
If that’s not the case and they just grew apart, try counseling and get back on the right track. Shit thing is, women aren’t made to work as hard as men, they’re not set up to deal with the stress of it after they have children. If he can swing it, he should let her ease back and make less money. I essentially let my wife retire after our second child. She works for me/us now a few hours a day but it’s a gift for our family that she’s able to get them to and from school, play a little tennis, work a few hours and have all the household things done. Housework is a full time job if done right. Does he work out and keep himself in shape? It sounds like they’ve been in a rut for a long time and have just diverged to a point where they aren’t even “together”. He needs to date and continue to court his wife. She’s probably depressed from too much work at a late period in her life. Again, all of this sympathy goes out the window if she’s cheating. Then you go scorched earth.
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He should consult a lawyer and see how bad it will be for him. He should also sink some money into having a private eye follow her around for a month or so and make sure she’s not fucking around on him. If she is, just use that as blackmail that you’ll show the kid if she tries to fuck with you in the divorce.
If that’s not the case and they just grew apart, try counseling and get back on the right track. Shit thing is, women aren’t made to work as hard as men, they’re not set up to deal with the stress of it after they have children. If he can swing it, he should let her ease back and make less money. I essentially let my wife retire after our second child. She works for me/us now a few hours a day but it’s a gift for our family that she’s able to get them to and from school, play a little tennis, work a few hours and have all the household things done. Housework is a full time job if done right. Does he work out and keep himself in shape? It sounds like they’ve been in a rut for a long time and have just diverged to a point where they aren’t even “together”. He needs to date and continue to court his wife. She’s probably depressed from too much work at a late period in her life. Again, all of this sympathy goes out the window if she’s cheating. Then you go scorched earth.
This is good advices.
I have older buds at work that complain about their wives not fucking them. Then I ask them if they would fuck them. Giant guts, tired all the time, highlight of the day is the daily breakfast burrito and whatever “sports” event is current. When’s the last time they pinched their wives ass when the kids weren’t looking etc.
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Slapper has quietly backed out of his own thread.
What does that tell you?
***BULLSHIT***
hes trying to reconcile with his wife?
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At this stage wait til the kid graduates. If there isn't a physical condition preventing a healthy sex life then your friend is justified in seeking supplemental pussy until the divorce.
This.
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Slapper’s friends
This guy watches his wife have sex with the dog and touches himself while following little kids around. He's obviously dj181's bulkier twin brother.
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Tell that beta to beat her ass with a telephone book and go out and do a load of blow and hookers
That’s my only advice
Now fuck off this ain’t the Agony Aunt column it’s the thunderdome, my negro
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This.
Somebody had to respond to that son of a bitch. I’m “shocked” that it was LurkerNoMore 😂.
Is Dorian Cutler suddenly going to come out of retirement?
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Somebody had to respond to that son of a bitch. I’m “shocked” that it was LurkerNoMore 😂.
Is Dorian Cutler suddenly going to come out of retirement?
I think Foozle needs to comment ;D
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This is bullshit
This information wouldn’t have been divulged in reality
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Is Rascal Full available for comment?
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Slapper has quietly backed out of his own thread.
What does that tell you?
***BULLSHIT***
The “slapper” is actually Matt Canning.
It is so obvious to see through.
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Tell that beta to beat her ass with a telephone book and go out and do a load of blow and hookers
That’s my only advice
Now fuck off this ain’t the Agony Aunt column it’s the thunderdome, my negro
Your advice would probably make his wife want to screw him more and save the marriage.
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I don't understand that. Sex is why you have a wife. Once it stops you should be out.
Anyways marriage is pointless, just an IQ- test in 2024
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The “slapper” is actually Matt Canning.
It is so obvious to see through.
Actually it’s Army of One
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Actually it’s Army of One
Fuck off with this constant conspiracy BS.
It’s tiresome. You sound bitter.
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Actually it’s me
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It's none of your business. Stay the fuck out of it unless you want this guy living on your couch, crying in your cereal, and eventually sitting in your garage sharpening your axe while muttering about all your helpful advice.
Any guy who stays with a woman who won't fuck him needs a stroll through some hellfire all alone so he can man the fuck up.
Butt out.
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Speak for yourself.
(https://www.getbig.com/boards/index.php?action=dlattach;topic=645675.0;attach=761318;image)
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Is Rascal Full available for comment?
Just lurking at the moment.
Am I really lurkerNoMore or was that my attempt to confuse you further? I will leave that in your capable hands.
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If he needs to stash some assets away from divorce lawyer, or just pack up and move to another country - Bitcoin solves that... :P
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We can't all be Wes, and have hours long sex sessions, straight out of the Kama Sutra.
;)
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His wife must be a good cook.
"Cookin' lasts...kissin' don't."
That's a quote from my grandmother.
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;)
Haha nicely down, Wes
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It's none of your business. Stay the fuck out of it unless you want this guy living on your couch, crying in your cereal, and eventually sitting in your garage sharpening your axe while muttering about all your helpful advice.
Any guy who stays with a woman who won't fuck him needs a stroll through some hellfire all alone so he can man the fuck up.
Butt out.
This.
If you want to be nice just say some bullshit like “Sorry, to hear you’re going through this,” but trying to solve other people’s problems usually makes things worse especially for yourself.
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Slapper could write about his friend’s marriage in his little diary
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If they dont have sex it means that they are past their breeding age and or are not attracted to eachother. Sex is a biological function, you should have learned this in primary school fucking imbecile.
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I wish Slapper well in his, I mean his friend’s future divorce
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If they dont have sex it means that they are past their breeding age and or are not attracted to eachother. Sex is a biological function, you should have learned this in primary school fucking imbecile.
When did you and your husband stop “biologically functioning”?
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This has been a shitty thread from jump street. Actually wish a mod would delete it. Slapper really outed himself as a cunt.
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My friend is getting divorced as well and all I’ve told him was how stupid he and his wife are. She already spent 30k he 57k and it is not even close to be over. They are not wealthy but have some decent savings and average incomes.
I told him that money those lawyers took could be used million different and better ways.
For instance their son’s College fund
Lawyers do not care one bit about outcomes.
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I don't understand that. Sex is why you have a wife. Once it stops you should be out.
Anyways marriage is pointless, just an IQ- test in 2024
Yep. Lots of low IQ people still running around.
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My friend is getting divorced as well and all I’ve told him was how stupid he and his wife are. She already spent 30k he 57k and it is not even close to be over. They are not wealthy but have some decent savings and average incomes.
I told him that money those lawyers took could be used million different and better ways.
For instance their son’s College fund
Lawyers do not care one bit about outcomes.
Hi Slapper/Eric2
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My friend is getting divorced as well and all I’ve told him was how stupid he and his wife are. She already spent 30k he 57k and it is not even close to be over. They are not wealthy but have some decent savings and average incomes.
I told him that money those lawyers took could be used million different and better ways.
For instance their son’s College fund
Lawyers do not care one bit about outcomes.
Hollyweirders get divorced all the time and remain friends and cherish each other.
They consciously uncouple.
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Life is small and useless
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I don't understand that. Sex is why you have a wife. Once it stops you should be out.
Anyways marriage is pointless, just an IQ- test in 2024
Mouth breather of the year award.
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Mouth breather of the year award.
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sexless marriage :D
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I don't understand that. Sex is why you have a wife. Once it stops you should be out.
Anyways marriage is pointless, just an IQ- test in 2024
marriage is a contract to bind people after the biochemical attraction is over
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sexless marriage :D
If you are in a sexless marriage don't masturbate the rest will take care of itself.
Regardless you don't get married to have sex.
You get married because the sex thing isn't a reason for living.
Some things are bigger and more important.
But if you can't see that don't get married.
Getting married is like forming your own dynasty. You and her are working towards generations of global domination.
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If you are in a sexless marriage don't masturbate the rest will take care of itself.
Regardless you don't get married to have sex.
You get married because the sex thing isn't a reason for living.
Some things are bigger and more important.
But if you can't see that don't get married.
Getting married is like forming your own dynasty. You and her are working towards generations of global domination.
sounds like you're forming a dynasty of sexless miserable existance like many married men
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sounds like you're forming a dynasty of sexless miserable existance like many married men
Let me guess you're living the dream ploughing down bag 50 year olds, the wonders of sticking your dick in greasy pancake piles.
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If you are in a sexless marriage don't masturbate the rest will take care of itself.
Regardless you don't get married to have sex.
You get married because the sex thing isn't a reason for living.
Some things are bigger and more important.
But if you can't see that don't get married.
Getting married is like forming your own dynasty. You and her are working towards generations of global domination.
That requires sex. And enforced monogamy is what allowed most ordinary men (disparagingly called betas) to get sex.
Sex is very important in marriage. Try living with one woman who is supposed only source of sex but denies you or sex.
But of course, it’s not all marriage is about.
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Any update on Slapper’s bitch ass wife?
Any titty pictures?
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They should continue their little happy dance facade until their kid is 18. He’s a weak fucker and she’s a selfish bitch. No reason to make their kids last 3 years of childhood shitty.
Once Jr. is off to adult land they can be free to do whatever they want. They haven’t played w each others buttholes in decades, what’s a couple more years.
Thats funny
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That requires sex. And enforced monogamy is what allowed most ordinary men (disparagingly called betas) to get sex.
Sex is very important in marriage. Try living with one woman who is supposed only source of sex but denies you or sex.
But of course, it’s not all marriage is about.
Yes sex is important in marriage.
Yes it's pathetic if their wife won't fuck them, they should try having a bigger dick?
But the point is it's way less fun fucking your wife than it is random chicks.
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Unless a dude has a BURNING desire to have children and be Mr. Family, marrying a broad is one of the most plainly idiotic things he can do.
I am now 54, never married (doubtful any chick would want to join in matrimony with me, anyway), and have witnessed and heard nothing but nightmarish tales of “wedded bliss”.
I have a simple and uncomplicated life, make decent bread, and do what I want, when I want, and I answer to NO ONE.
Every time I see a women I find attractive, I develop the strategy, but then I quickly come to my senses, and I scuttle the attempt.
Even just dating and all that requires has me dry-heaving.
Dating a girl is little more than renting a pussy these days. And the cost is not remotely worth it.
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We don’t need to know. Go talk to a counselor.
This, srs
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marriage is a contract to bind people after the biochemical attraction is over
Yep.
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Unless a dude has a BURNING desire to have children and be Mr. Family, marrying a broad is one of the most plainly idiotic things he can do.
I am now 54, never married (doubtful any chick would want to join in matrimony with me, anyway), and have witnessed and heard nothing but nightmarish tales of “wedded bliss”.
I have a simple and uncomplicated life, make decent bread, and do what I want, when I want, and I answer to NO ONE.
Every time I see a women I find attractive, I develop the strategy, but then I quickly come to my senses, and I scuttle the attempt.
Even just dating and all that requires has me dry-heaving.
Dating a girl is little more than renting a pussy these days. And the cost is not remotely worth it.
I agree. I got married because I did have strong desire to be Mr. Family and I love being so.
If not for child raising, I do not see a point in this current day.
I think “dating” without the intention of marriage and being a soyfriend/bore friend as a man older than 25 years is lower than seeing prostitutes. I cannot think of a more resource/draining and emotionally-exhausting position with little return on investment to be in.
Most soyfriends are employees of their “girlfriends”.
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Unless a dude has a BURNING desire to have children and be Mr. Family, marrying a broad is one of the most plainly idiotic things he can do.
"burning desire" you mean a will to survive aka being a man?
I am now 54, never married (doubtful any chick would want to join in matrimony with me, anyway), and have witnessed and heard nothing but nightmarish tales of “wedded bliss”.
That's because people feel bad for you, you think people are just gonna casually say they pity you and your limited options in life? I wouldn't be so harsh, but when you shit on the good life, and give bad advice.
Dating a girl is little more than renting a pussy these days. And the cost is not remotely worth it.
You're the one wanting a rental, you're just pissed off they want to be paid for their services. If you actively have no interest in suriving why on earth should a woman grant you a blowjob?
I have a simple and uncomplicated life, make decent bread, and do what I want, when I want, and I answer to NO ONE.
You're 54, so you mean do whatever you want, sans all the fun things you got to do in your 20s.
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I agree. I got married because I did have strong desire to be Mr. Family and I love being so.
If not for child raising, I do not see a point in this current day.
I think “dating” without the intention of marriage and being a soyfriend/bore friend as a man older than 25 years is lower than seeing prostitutes. I cannot think of a more resource/draining and emotionally-exhausting position with little return on investment to be in.
Most soyfriends are employees of their “girlfriends”.
That I agree with, but I'd push the age up to 32ish.
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That I agree with, but I'd push the age up to 32ish.
What is the point of having a “girlfriend” who is likely going to be gone in short order? The term relationshit is fitting.
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What is the point of having a “girlfriend” who is likely going to be gone in short order? The term relationshit is fitting.
I don't disagree with the principle, I just 30ish is more realistic.
As in, you date a girl at 29, if you don't marry her by 32ish goto whoredome.
25 is too young.
You want to be 30ish with a 22year old etc.
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I don't disagree with the principle, I just 30ish is more realistic.
As in, you date a girl at 29, if you don't marry her by 32ish goto whoredome.
25 is too young.
You want to be 30ish with a 22year old etc.
I see, though three years is a long freaking time wasted. Someone should be able to assess whether a woman or man is marriage material much sooner, like in a year. And a proposal can be made at the two year mark or sooner.
Anyway, that’s other men’s business, not mine. I just looked down on soyfriendom.
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I see, though three years is a long freaking time wasted. Someone should be able to assess whether a woman or man is marriage material much sooner, like in a year. And a proposal can be made at the two year mark or sooner.
Anyway, that’s other men’s business, not mine. I just looked down on soyfriendom.
Depends on what you want in life.
One of the challenges me and my wife went through is her hating cities and me loving them at the time.
It was one of us is bound to be miserable type situations. In our case it wasn't the end of the world, but I could imagine it being a lot harder for other folks.
We got lucky, Trudeau saved my marriage by filling our cities with too many immigrants now I hate cities more than my wife does.
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"burning desire" you mean a will to survive aka being a man?
That's because people feel bad for you, you think people are just gonna casually say they pity you and your limited options in life? I wouldn't be so harsh, but when you shit on the good life, and give bad advice.
You're the one wanting a rental, you're just pissed off they want to be paid for their services. If you actively have no interest in suriving why on earth should a woman grant you a blowjob?
You're 54, so you mean do whatever you want, sans all the fun things you got to do in your 20s.
You have me and my life all figured out. Damn.
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You have me and my life all figured out. Damn.
No not you, there's nothing unique about your circumstances. It's quite a generic thing.
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Unless a dude has a BURNING desire to have children and be Mr. Family, marrying a broad is one of the most plainly idiotic things he can do.
I am now 54, never married (doubtful any chick would want to join in matrimony with me, anyway), and have witnessed and heard nothing but nightmarish tales of “wedded bliss”.
I have a simple and uncomplicated life, make decent bread, and do what I want, when I want, and I answer to NO ONE.
Every time I see a women I find attractive, I develop the strategy, but then I quickly come to my senses, and I scuttle the attempt.
Even just dating and all that requires has me dry-heaving.
Dating a girl is little more than renting a pussy these days. And the cost is not remotely worth it.
Some people feel this way about work.
So much could go wrong that it makes it not worth it.
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Some people feel this way about work.
So much could go wrong that it makes it not worth it.
I do not know Fortess from a whole in the wall, but he’s one of my favorite posters and seems like he would have been a cool dad.
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I agree. I got married because I did have strong desire to be Mr. Family and I love being so.
If not for child raising, I do not see a point in this current day.
I think “dating” without the intention of marriage and being a soyfriend/bore friend as a man older than 25 years is lower than seeing prostitutes. I cannot think of a more resource/draining and emotionally-exhausting position with little return on investment to be in.
Most soyfriends are employees of their “girlfriends”.
I agree that there isn't much point in being married if you aren't going to have a family, at least from the man's perspective as the main breadwinner and with divorce so much geared towards females. Obviously, women are very much incentivized to push for marriage regardless of whether or not there will be children.
I don't agree that dating without intending to marry over the age of 25 is worse than seeing a prostitute. Some guys like the chase. Men want to "hunt." A prostitute is not a challenge.
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I agree that there isn't much point in being married if you aren't going to have a family, at least from the man's perspective as the main breadwinner and with divorce so much geared towards females. Obviously, women are very much incentivized to push for marriage regardless of whether or not there will be children.
I don't agree that dating without intending to marry over the age of 25 is worse than seeing a prostitute. Some guys like the chase. Men want to "hunt." A prostitute is not a challenge.
they are for dj181
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I agree that there isn't much point in being married if you aren't going to have a family, at least from the man's perspective as the main breadwinner and with divorce so much geared towards females. Obviously, women are very much incentivized to push for marriage regardless of whether or not there will be children.
I don't agree that dating without intending to marry over the age of 25 is worse than seeing a prostitute. Some guys like the chase. Men want to "hunt." A prostitute is not a challenge.
even then what is the point of marriage? It is not sacred anymore, there is no public shaming for women to divorce. It's the other way, women are incentivize by law to have more to gain from divorce and being able to cash out taking half the mans assets.
So again what is the point. It is not sacred. You can have kids and a family without marriage.
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This has been a shitty thread from jump street. Actually wish a mod would delete it. Slapper really outed himself as a cunt.
One of the weaker "Should I post this thread?" decisions of 2024 so far for sure
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I agree that there isn't much point in being married if you aren't going to have a family, at least from the man's perspective as the main breadwinner and with divorce so much geared towards females. Obviously, women are very much incentivized to push for marriage regardless of whether or not there will be children.
I don't agree that dating without intending to marry over the age of 25 is worse than seeing a prostitute. Some guys like the chase. Men want to "hunt." A prostitute is not a challenge.
What consequential comes out of this dating besides validation by women?
I admit there is no in-between with me.
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What consequential comes out of this dating besides validation by women?
I admit there is no in-between with me.
Nothing good comes of it. A woman who has "dated" for years will get bored quickly as a wife and miss the days of all that male attention.
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Nothing good comes of it. A woman who has "dated" for years will get bored quickly as a wife and miss the days of all that male attention.
Right. Boyfriend and girlfriend usually means screwing while playing house. Usually one person is in the position of employee for the other.
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:o
They made it to 3 months.
She's no "looker".
>
'The Golden Bachelor's Gerry Turner Files for Divorce From Theresa Nist After Announcing Split'
https://www.etonline.com/the-golden-bachelors-gerry-turner-files-for-divorce-from-theresa-nist-after-announcing-split-223390
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:o
They made it to 3 months.
She's no "looker".
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'The Golden Bachelor's Gerry Turner Files for Divorce From Theresa Nist After Announcing Split'
https://www.etonline.com/the-golden-bachelors-gerry-turner-files-for-divorce-from-theresa-nist-after-announcing-split-223390
Very trollish looking
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I do not know Fortess from a whole in the wall, but he’s one of my favorite posters and seems like he would have been a cool dad.
That’s an extremely nice thing to say.
Genuinely, thank you.
P.S. Whole and hole
Look into it.
;)
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That’s an extremely nice thing to say.
Genuinely, thank you.
P.S. Whole and hole
Look into it.
;)
You’re welcome.
These damn iPhone autocorrects.
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That’s an extremely nice thing to say.
Genuinely, thank you.
P.S. Whole and hole
Look into it.
;)
In the absence of a fleshly heir, Fortress nurtures his grammar.