Looking for a little insight

[Butterbean]

I wondered whether Cap was Always Sore / YMBL?  If not, they are twins.

No he's his own man.

I think he's (whoever he is) in the mood to mess up the girly board.  What on earth is the point if you go off on a tangent with pm's?

Linda, cap86 isn't one to try to "mess up the girly board."  He's actually here for some insight.

Certain things people feel more comfortable PMing and you're right, there are a lot of people viewing that don't post.

Usual bloke bullshit if you ask me.  Mr Cap has understood how we think and he's using it to his advantage.   I really think he ought to have enlivened this thread and expounded it rather than go all pm'y.

See it's comments like this that make some people defensive and then sometimes some battles begin.  Cap doesn't have ulterior motives to harm someone.  He seems like a good guy to me.

Judi?  Deedee?  ~flower~?
ripitup?  w8?  Laura Lee?

Why don't we post his pms? 

We'll re-write this ridiculous going noplace thread !


& where is sane STella when you need her?  bet her inbox is full...

Cap PMs me at times also.   I would never post his PMs.  Most other people wouldn't either. 

He's a good guy Linda!  Let's give him the benefit of the doubt OK?     He just wants some insight.  Most of us are here to help (and entertain) each other

[Cap]

I've always figured the best source of information about a group is that group, in this case I engage women because that is the group about which I need/want information.  If I am ill-informed about something concerning women, why not ask?  I'm not writing a book, keeping a notebook to help me get laid easier, etc.  Ultimately I get good advice here and learn something I may not have known or deluded myself into ignoring. 

[xxxLinda]

Fine, so share >>if you wanna go girly, we're all ears
that's why we have an open talk for girl discussion forum


if not, and you prefer to pm when you get your answer, then we missed out.  whatever you want.


I forgot what we were talking about anyways.  Insight?  yeah write.

[xxxLinda]

I really think he ought to have enlivened this thread and expounded it rather than go all pm'y.

xL

Having gained some insight, I also suggest that he ought to have shared it


so please remind me to avoid threads started by Cap86, Medford and/or BoredSheriff?




oh and LordHumm. 

[Board_SHERIF]

Having gained some insight, I also suggest that he ought to have shared it


so please remind me to avoid threads started by Cap86, Medford and/or BoredSheriff?




oh and LordHumm.  There's a total wankster if i ever saw one.

Drink another bottle of wine 

[xxxLinda]

& while you're at it, sort out the girly board.  It's rubbish.

xxx


ps: I wish I could, but the shops are closed.  It's like nearly 1am here.

[Board_SHERIF]

& while you're at it, sort out the girly board.  It's rubbish.

xxx


ps: I wish I could, but the shops are closed.  It's like 1am here.

Tesco express 24 hours

[ripitupbaby]

hahaha great thread 

[Board_SHERIF]

hahaha great thread 

The original concept ? or the drunken fool posting with no life 

[ripitupbaby]

The original concept ? or the drunken fool posting with no life 

 

[w8m8]

Here's another qs.  If you and your partner (in this case mine is a woman) are on the outs and are at the very least sharing a lease for the next few months, what is likely going through her mind if she says "I love you" still and is still nice?   We agreed to see what happens with time apart but really, how likely is that to get back together?  She says there is the likelihood but I think she could just be acting nice to ease the blow.  Personally, I would not want someone to say those three words if they don't mean them.  I really wonder what would go through a woman's head in this situation.  Since she doesn't want to talk about things right now, I'll ask ya'll.   

to answer the ?

At the very least sharing space with someone after the relationship has skidded off the road is confusing .If she is saying I Love You maybe she is saying it from a different place ? I still have a very tight bond with one of my ex's and could live with him easily , in fact I'm considering it seriously  I do love him ..but I'm not IN love with him . We couldn't and still can't be a couple due to differing values concerning finances and "entertainment" , but we remain close and caring "friends" ( with NO benefits ).

I do think she can still love you but not want to be with you in the same way anymore , although this is the thing that "bugs" me - - - You are in a place that is allowing you to feel a bit confused about her intentions , that means to me she isn't being clear enough or you still hope she may reignite this relationship at some point .

Your hopes are lovely if thats the case , I think a man who has hope is compassionate and rare .Most would just walk away and not care , maybe even sow a few oats if you get my drift ?

Her not being "clear" is an issue "I" find hurtful and disrespectful.I can see where it would be pretty hard to openly discuss the problems and future plans but being an adult includes honest and all inclusive communication skills.


now if I may ask , and I do hope this isn't considered "hijacking" your thread - - my thought process for this came from your post

I've been wondering what others think about " lying by omission "

If we omit details on purpose do you agree or disagree that it's dishonest and in effect a lie ? or is it at times a more kind and caring act to omit some things to keep the other person from being hurt or angered ?