Women of this board, I need your help...

[Cap]

What do you suggest for a man with serious trust issues, especially with women?  Az I know you will come through big.  Please let me know all.  Thank you in advance.

[Deadpool]

you must trust the wrong people.  to trust, first you have to trust your own judgement

[Bast175]

I trust some family and mostly my girl but I feel like everyone is gonna f**k me over somehow.

you are probably right.  i've been fucked over by family members and friends. 

[Migs]

What do you suggest for a man with serious trust issues, especially with women?  Az I know you will come through big.  Please let me know all.  Thank you in advance.

get escorts, cost less in the end.  Ok seriously, look back at your life and what has caused this feeling?  many times people fear trusting others becuae they themselves feel like they are exposing themselves and feel vulnerable.

[az]

I will pm you cap.

[Laura Lee]

Well Cap.  You just gotta be yourself.  Be on guard, but be yourself.  If they're gonna screw ya, they're gonna screw ya.  You just learn from it. 

[Bast175]

Well Cap.  You just gotta be yourself.  Be on guard, but be yourself.  If they're gonna screw ya, they're gonna screw ya.  You just learn from it. 

learn what?

[Laura Lee]

learn what?

You learn to separate that person from your life.  You don't associate yourself with them.

You can't blame everyone else or make everyone else pay for something someone else does to you Bast.

[Laura Lee]

Believe me, that is not easy.

You don't have to tell me Cap. 

[BuffGoddess]

What do you suggest for a man with serious trust issues, especially with women?  Az I know you will come through big.  Please let me know all.  Thank you in advance.

Sorry about that hon, I know it must be rough. I had serious trust issues with men a while back. I went into group counseling and also some solo counseling. The trust issues will not resolve themselves. Also be careful about the people you let in your bubble. It takes time but good things can come of it. I know it's easier said than done, but try to forgive the ones that hurt you and move on. It's a problem within themselves to be crappy to others. I now have a great life, an awesome boyfriend that loves me just the way I am, and I trust him totally. You just have to get a sense about people and know which ones will be true to you and those that are going to bite you. Good luck and my prayers are with you my brother...

[ToxicAvenger]

What do you suggest for a man with serious trust issues, especially with women?  Az I know you will come through big.  Please let me know all.  Thank you in advance.

ahhhh crap...

sorry bro..and i mean it...ya got cheated on and its sucks...

you wont get a meaningfull answer for a chick...maybe a halfway meaning full one if she got cheated on but you wont like it


..and you wont like part 1 of mine either..

1)Time....it'll take time...longer than you thought it'd take mate...and you'll NEVER forgive mate..soo stop trying to bullshit yourself by being politically correct..i saw the dood ( a former friend) my ex ex chick cheated on me with in a parking lot (dave n busters rockville MD) 1 yr after and i beat the bloody crap outta him (the tren helped  )..i mean i prolly broke a lot of his teeth and prolly broke his jaw....he didn't see it coming cause he got blind sided with a baseball bat..point being....as soon as you just go ahead and have the balls to admit that you r mighty pissed..the sooner that can stop fucking with your head..and if possible....get revenge..does wonders for ones soul mate..i tell ya


2)  most women here will resent this..but i've found russian women to be completely trustworthy and honest for the most part....try that arena..if ya ask a russian gal how many guys she's slept with ..prep yourself for a (sometimes shocking) honest answer..

..honesty aside..they can be a pain in the ass..

[ToxicAvenger]

Women suck for the most part but you can'thelp but want them around

you have a girlfriend now mang..i read your other thread now....so you have moved on 


women can be the driving force behind every happy successfull thing a man does..


unfortunately..most industralized women aren't 

[ToxicAvenger]

She's great and there are only a few times I get wierd with trust concerning her.  I just don't trust much in general because of my past with certain people.

i'm very trusting...

i'm the guy thats ok with my girl bumping and grinding with some dood while i sit at the bar cause my legs r sore...as long as she does not kiss anyone..

sad that trust gets me in trouble..

[ToxicAvenger]

Total opposite of me.  Lol.  I guess because I grew up always seeing my parents do shit together and never went out without the other.  Hell, if my girl grinded up on some guy I would dump her on the spot.

eh she can grind..i dont care..dosen't mean she likes him..a chick needs to go out and feel she's found fuckable by other doods..i mean she already knows you find her fuakable  so its an adventure..dosen't mean she'll do anything (in theory..i had one really bad experience there)...


the one that DID hurt me..i fucked her best friend Amy...eye for an eye..

[ToxicAvenger]

I think doing that can lead to temptation and since my girl doesn't like to dance I guess I'm okay there.

when the temptee gets tempted...its not meant to be...

soo goes my thinking...


true love would never be tempted 

[ToxicAvenger]

You can be tempted and not act.  If you choose to be tempted then I agree with you.  I think the temptee putting themselves in a tempting situation says alot.  Tempted? Lol

once again "true love does not get tempted"


what you say is years of you being jaded talking...

[Cap]

once again "true love does not get tempted"


what you say is years of you being jaded talking...

Probably.  It's probably why I couldn't commit to anyone very well and played the field more than anything else.

[ToxicAvenger]

What do you suggest Toxic?

its actually horrible that it does..but time heals it all...


i NEVER wanted to feel better about losing my first love...i do now..


time mate..and i SWEAr this works...go celebate...i did for 1 1/2 yrs once...give ya a new prespective on life..

[Cap]

its actually horrible that it does..but time heals it all...


i NEVER wanted to feel better about losing my first love...i do now..


time mate..and i SWEAr this works...go celebate...i did for 1 1/2 yrs once...give ya a new prespective on life..

I don't think my gf would like that...

There has to be another route

[ToxicAvenger]

I don't think my gf would like that...

There has to be another route

you already have a girl mate..stick with her..and if ya feel insecure sometimes..tell her..talk 2 her..women love that shit ....man o man they love talking.my ex would wake up talking and would not shut the fuck up once..not in the friggin car..not while in bed...not over a quite candle lit dinner..

[ToxicAvenger]

My gf is a fuckin pain in the ass alot of the time

all girlfriends are mate..its their job...

and its your job to play mean nasty tricks on em to even it out 

[Cap]

Oh, shes gonna get a good one after what I just found out

[BuffGoddess]

Oh, shes gonna get a good one after what I just found out

Uh oh...that doesn't sound good....

[ToxicAvenger]

Oh, shes gonna get a good one after what I just found out

what did she do?

[ToxicAvenger]

Eh, just a misunderstanding.  Let's put it this way...it involved a myspace/facebook thing which I fucking hate but it's all good now.  See what I mean?  My past is really fucking with my head. 

alright friend...now u r blaming your insecurity problems on her..

not fair 2 her mate!