your owned if you constantly compare yourselves to others on a everyday basis...its a losing battle, there is always someone who is bigger, better, younger, richer ..and so on and so on....
Yes, comparing to others is crazy really.
Everything in life is judged by comparison. For example:
A B cup is very big, compared to an A cup.
However, a B cup is oh so small when compared to this:
I'm sure women think, next to her, my rack is small as hell. It's the only way to judge anything for the most part. If I only looked at myself, I'd be the biggest man on the planet...hahah Yeah, comparing= self owning...not exactly.
That's like writing a book cause you put on 4lbs of muscle naturally. Well, it is 4lbs, but others put on 80lbs. Everything is about bigger, faster, stronger, etc. It's called evolution.
On the flip side, I don't go down the street and price out everyones car compared to mine.