Hurt2Luv......
You think I'm making a mistake by remaining friends with her?
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If you had no true feelings for her I would say yes be friends, but since it seems you did then I would say it is hard and probally will not work beyond a aquainance type relationship. Ask yourself do wanna be there listening to her tell you about her new boyfreind, or overhearing her giggly conversation on the cell as they plan out the night? Or every time you see her being faced with the constant reminder that you were not "the one" for her?
If you decide to be friends just make sure are not just trying to hang on to something that will never be, or you will be stuck.
Sorry but this song fits all to well
Supremes - You Keep Me Hangin’ On Lyrics
Set me free, why don’t cha babe
Get out my life, why don’t cha babe
’cause you don’t really love me
You just keep me hangin’ on
You don’t really need me
But you keep me hangin’ on
Why do you keep a coming around
Playing with my heart?
Why don’t you get out of my life
And let me make a new start?
Let me get over you
The way you’ve gotten over me
Set me free, why don’t cha babe
Let me be, why don’t cha babe
’cause you don’t really love me
You just keep me hangin’ on
Now you don’t really want me
You just keep me hangin’ on
You say although we broke up
You still wanna be just friends
But how can we still be friends
When seeing you only breaks my heart again
And there ain’t nothing I can do about it
Woo, set me free, why don’t cha babe
Woo, get out my life, why don’t cha babe
Set me free, why don’t cha babe
Get out my life, why don’t cha babe
You claim you still care for me
But your heart and soul needs to be free
Now that you’ve got your freedom
You wanna still hold on to me
You don’t want me for yourself
So let me find somebody else hey!
Why don’t you be a man about it
And set me free
Now you don’t care a thing about me
You’re just using me
Go on, get out, get out of my life
And let me sleep at night
’cause you don’t really love me
You just keep me hangin’ on...
You Keep Me Hangin’ On
Holland-Dozier-Holland