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Earl1972

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not calling a woman by her name
« on: May 18, 2007, 10:36:32 AM »
i'm the type of guy that always calls women names like:

babe
baby
honey
sweetie

do you think alot of women hate this?

I know some like it but some only want to be called by their own name

how do you feel when guys call you these names?

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #1 on: May 18, 2007, 10:40:07 AM »
i'm the type of guy that always calls women names like:

babe
baby
honey
sweetie

do you think alot of women hate this?

I know some like it but some only want to be called by their own name

how do you feel when guys call you these names?

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Have you ever hear that the word women most love coming from their lovers lips is "their name"?  It's true, BUT not all the time.  Most love being called a pet name as well. 
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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #2 on: May 18, 2007, 10:42:45 AM »
some dude once told me that his female coworkers were really offended by him saying "goodmorning ladies" ???

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #3 on: May 18, 2007, 12:23:06 PM »
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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #4 on: May 18, 2007, 08:08:53 PM »
i'm the type of guy that always calls women names like:

babe
baby
honey
sweetie

do you think alot of women hate this?

I know some like it but some only want to be called by their own name

how do you feel when guys call you these names?

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Those are names you use for women like me at work.  You wonèt win any friends doing that.

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #5 on: May 19, 2007, 12:08:06 AM »

Those are names you use for women like me at work.  You wonèt win any friends doing that.

Listen to Laura, shès always right.

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You'll almost never hear me admit this . . . but I'm mystified by this thread.

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #6 on: May 19, 2007, 09:59:46 AM »
What about any of these for guys:  ???

Sugarlips, bunny-poo, pooksie, pookie-bear, luv-luv, muffin, muffin-cake, teddy-bear, schatzi-poo, or a combo of any of these?

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #7 on: May 19, 2007, 10:32:10 AM »
A term of endearment.
My wife calls me "My man"
I call her "woman" or "wiffels" ;)

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #8 on: May 19, 2007, 10:47:24 AM »
What about any of these for guys:  ???

Sugarlips, bunny-poo, pooksie, pookie-bear, luv-luv, muffin, muffin-cake, teddy-bear, schatzi-poo, or a combo of any of these?

yesterday, the HR woman called me "sweetie." 

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #9 on: May 19, 2007, 10:49:03 AM »
What about any of these for guys:  ???

Sugarlips, bunny-poo, pooksie, pookie-bear, luv-luv, muffin, muffin-cake, teddy-bear, schatzi-poo, or a combo of any of these?


......no.... just no....

my wife calls me love, baby sometimes, and Greg.  

but i dont know what i'd throw at her if she ever called me anything like that.
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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #10 on: May 19, 2007, 11:09:35 AM »
What about any of these for guys:  ???

Sugarlips, bunny-poo, pooksie, pookie-bear, luv-luv, muffin, muffin-cake, teddy-bear, schatzi-poo, or a combo of any of these?

I love it ;D

just not in front of my friends :)

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #11 on: May 19, 2007, 11:21:03 AM »
I love it ;D

just not in front of my friends :)

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 ;D. Those are barely the tip of the iceberg. Pet names are usually very personal and have meaning for two people.

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #12 on: May 19, 2007, 04:44:29 PM »
If it's cool w/ THAT person is what matters. What 1 thinks is funny another is offended by.

I love the part of a new relationship where the other is still kind of walking on eggshells to not do ANYTHING to offend... But I act all stupid and do something that I KNOW REALLY PUSHES HER BUTTONS.
I'll act all stupid like I don't know it irks the hell out of her... Then crack up laughing when she sees - I can read her like a book. Usually get swatted at, then laughed at, and appreciated I pay that much attn to her.

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #13 on: May 19, 2007, 05:57:34 PM »
"bad" names work for me during those "special" moments ;D

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #14 on: May 19, 2007, 06:07:34 PM »

i am still not getting this thread.  >:(

what the hell are we talking about?

a. inappropriate language in the workplace.
b. nicknames women like/want in general.
c. nicknames women like/want in private.
d. kevin levrone is hot.

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #15 on: May 19, 2007, 07:39:41 PM »
d. kevin lerone is hot.

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #16 on: May 19, 2007, 07:59:02 PM »
I guess as long as you don't call her ANOTHER womans name... You'll be ok.

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #17 on: May 19, 2007, 09:07:52 PM »
i am still not getting this thread.  >:(

what the hell are we talking about?

a. inappropriate language in the workplace.
b. nicknames women like/want in general.
c. nicknames women like/want in private.
d. kevin levrone is hot.

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i'm talking about calling a woman names like "babe" instead of her actual name

instead of saying "hey jane" I say "hey babe"

get it?

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #18 on: May 20, 2007, 02:02:05 AM »
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i'm talking about calling a woman names like "babe" instead of her actual name

instead of saying "hey jane" I say "hey babe"

get it?

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Your best advice will come from the specific woman, ...specifically. We're all different,
There is no turn-key, cookie-cutter manual, that will give you an accurate forecast for ALL women.

One safe assumption is, ...whatever you do, ...don't call her by another woman's name.  :)
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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #19 on: May 20, 2007, 06:18:16 AM »
Your best advice will come from the specific woman, ...specifically. We're all different,
There is no turn-key, cookie-cutter manual, that will give you an accurate forecast for ALL women.

One safe assumption is, ...whatever you do, ...don't call her by another woman's name:)
Especially during sex!  roflmao
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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #20 on: May 20, 2007, 08:21:31 AM »
i'm the type of guy that always calls women names like:

babe
baby
honey
sweetie

do you think alot of women hate this?

I know some like it but some only want to be called by their own name

how do you feel when guys call you these names?

E

Hmmm, "terms of endearment", names one uses if one is "playing the field"

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #21 on: May 20, 2007, 09:49:03 AM »
Hmmm, "terms of endearment", names one uses if one is "playing the field"


I sometimes use them for chicks I don't like

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #22 on: May 20, 2007, 10:22:04 AM »
Especially during sex!  roflmao

Ah hell, try it just for fun. My wife calls me this disgustingly obese customers of ours name for kicks now and then. God, the 1st time she did it absolutely all serious looking... and then laughed so hard she almost couldn't breathe. I'll call her other girls names for a laugh too ;D.

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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #23 on: May 20, 2007, 10:26:10 AM »
her name if i remember it...and if i remember it it usually means i like her  :)

baby-doll if i dont..and if she gets pissed..well..like i care..apparently she didn't make much of an impression in the first place..


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Re: not calling a woman by her name
« Reply #24 on: May 20, 2007, 09:48:28 PM »
I once had a guy call me "shweetie", ...and I just shot him a look and rolled my eyes. We both laughed,
because we BOTH knew he had caught himself just in time. He almost called me "Sheila". His ex girlfriend who he had been with for 10 yrs was named Sheila, so I let it go. I knew how difficult it can sometimes be to get names straight in the beginning. When I broke up with my first boyfriend, who I had dated for 7 years, I kept calling the next boyfriend by his name. It was devastatingly uncomfortable for me each time I did it. He would just laugh it off, ...but I hated doing it. Funny thing is, when you do that with a guy you're just friends with, ...it's no big deal, ...but do it with a new guy you're dating and you feel mortified.
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