Author Topic: What do other women do with "personal messages"? (Read 6866 times)

xxxLinda · « **on:** June 26, 2007, 09:07:08 AM »

When you get loads of stupid shit from sad men do you respond?

Is there an unwritten code here?
Am I rude if I just ignore them all as I have done forever?

Sometimes when it says 6 new messages and one is particularly irksome, I get this sudden urge to reply immediately. But I don't...

What do you do?

~flower~ gets Toxi's phone number and the rest just flirt?
Only kidding, this is a serious question

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Al-Gebra · « **Reply #1 on:** June 26, 2007, 09:19:30 AM »

you can post them here for the rest of us to enjoy.

xxxLinda · « **Reply #2 on:** June 26, 2007, 09:24:59 AM »

Yep, I obviously thought of that. But since someone (allegedly perhaps AS) did that to me on the first night I was here in a panic whilst in the middle of a meltdown I decided it wasn't a very nice thing to do.

xL

I'm serious now. Am I supposed to respond to pm's?

~flower~ · « **Reply #3 on:** June 26, 2007, 09:25:23 AM »

If someone is bothering you, you can always block them from being able to pm you.

Or ignore them. It's like having caller ID.

Or if they are really funny, you can post them, with or without the name removed!

xxxLinda · « **Reply #4 on:** June 26, 2007, 09:29:21 AM »

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hey linda I have a couple questions.
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Hey Linda, my name's Greg and I wanted to ask you a couple questions if you don't mind. If i'm trying to maintain a tan, should a use a moisturizer (vaseline cocoa butter unless you recommend a better one) once or twice a day. Also should I be using a specific brand of soap for my face and body so it won't wash away my tan fast? Oh one more thing, does using a loofa make your tan fade faster ?

thanks for your time Wink

xxxLinda · « **Reply #5 on:** June 26, 2007, 09:32:17 AM »

that's the lamest, silliest and least offensive one
xL

am I meant to tell him something?

the rest are profane or mad and I will not post them.

Pray explain this to me?

~flower~ · « **Reply #6 on:** June 26, 2007, 09:32:46 AM »

lol!! I wonder why he asked you that? Did you reply?

Al-Gebra · « **Reply #7 on:** June 26, 2007, 09:33:22 AM »

yeah, that last one is n't really doing anything for me. post the other ones, and don't leave their names off. it's a getbig tradition.

how about you post some of mine?

xxxLinda · « **Reply #8 on:** June 26, 2007, 09:43:25 AM »

no, I didn't reply (read above).

AlG: I made a big mistake twice. The first time I pmd Always Sore or YMBL or Migs or that one. That was the night we did 17 pages last August when I first arrived and you lot melted me down in 2 hours. He quoted me pleading for help. That scared me, I was just learning.

The second time I did a pm to a bloke was to you. It was the night they instigated the girly board and I thought it might be a good thing, a fine thing, a thing to be proud of. Trouble was, your name came up first (in alpha order) and I was pming you instead of congratulating all of you sad blokes on being accepted onto the girly board.

never again do I send an unsolicited pm out of the blue to a man. 3x unlucky.
I'm just asking whether I'm expected to respond to the ones I receive.

Though I should re-read some of the incoming ones instead of blanking and forgetting them, I've got some funny ones

xxxLinda · « **Reply #9 on:** June 26, 2007, 10:12:09 AM »

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yo linda i apologise for my stupid comments..i should'nt have posted that shit..sorry that i offended you..it won't happen again babe
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powerpack · « **Reply #10 on:** June 26, 2007, 10:14:35 AM »

I can only comment as a guy.
I speak on a few other sites (ranging from Political, Science, computer to other body building sites)I have sent and received PMs from other people some interesting, some weird, some nice, some down right offensive.

On this site I have only ever sent out one PM and that was to Medford about 4 or 5 months ago.
Some guys where being more sadistic to her than usual so I sorta told her to hang in there

xxxLinda · « **Reply #11 on:** June 26, 2007, 10:19:54 AM »

thanks for explaining. here's me thinking Medford was a bloke or a masochist or both.

or a mod, one time I thought s/he was ~flower~'s gimmick. She/he broke into my threads and quoted me as her and then deleted me silly. Is she still here? Banned from the Girly Board again? 4 or 5 months ago I realised that it wasn't a good idea to have anything to do with "her". She's probably Mig's gimmick...

I've learned that on any other website in the world, you will perhaps be treated maybe nicely, that people are themselves and that you will get a decent answer to your query.

On Getbig, it's completely different. It's a bunch of short men (who are perhaps in drag) who are mostly very clever and extremely funny and who enjoy beating up everyone within distance.

But did she pm you back...

Al-Gebra · « **Reply #12 on:** June 26, 2007, 10:22:19 AM »

Quote from: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 09:43:25 AM

The second time I did a pm to a bloke was to you. It was the night they instigated the girly board and I thought it might be a good thing, a fine thing, a thing to be proud of. Trouble was, your name came up first (in alpha order) and I was pming you instead of congratulating all of you sad blokes on being accepted onto the girly board.

never again do I send an unsolicited pm out of the blue to a man. 3x unlucky.

my name came up first, b/c I was first. Why was it so unlucky for you?

powerpack · « **Reply #13 on:** June 26, 2007, 10:46:37 AM »

Quote from: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 10:19:54 AM

But did she pm you back...

No she never did and actually I never expected her too.

Getbig is a completely different place with a completely different set of rules to all the other boards I talk on.
You need a thick skin and a never mind attitude

~flower~ · « **Reply #14 on:** June 26, 2007, 10:54:18 AM »

Quote from: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 10:19:54 AM

thanks for explaining. here's me thinking Medford was a bloke or a masochist or both.

or a mod, one time I thought s/he was ~flower~'s gimmick. She/he broke into my threads and quoted me as her and then deleted me silly. Is she still here? Banned from the Girly Board again? 4 or 5 months ago I realised that it wasn't a good idea to have anything to do with "her". She's probably Mig's gimmick...

Medford is not a gimmick. I have spoken to her on the phone.

xxxLinda · « **Reply #15 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:17:50 AM »

love you and her, mean it.

Hey, you wanna know how to get a nice pm every minute?
You post a stupid thread like this
xL

~flower~ · « **Reply #16 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:18:45 AM »

I have no shortages of pm's

Always Sore · « **Reply #17 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:28:04 AM »

Quote from: ~flower~ on June 26, 2007, 11:18:45 AM

I have no shortages of pm's

Thats because your so popular...

xxxLinda · « **Reply #18 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:31:26 AM »

you're too

Always Sore · « **Reply #19 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:35:02 AM »

Quote from: xxxLinda on June 26, 2007, 11:31:26 AM

you're too

No not really, I am liked by a select few not known universally.

Deedee · « **Reply #20 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:36:29 AM »

Quote from: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:35:02 AM

No not really, I am liked by a select few not known universally.

Like a good bottle of wine.

Deedee · « **Reply #21 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:39:37 AM »

I print mine out and stick them into a homemade scrapbook, with little flowers I've drawn in the margins with pink and blue felt pens... and little notations and poetry snippets to add a whimsical touch and remind me of the conversation context. Lol.

Always Sore · « **Reply #22 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:40:22 AM »

Quote from: Deedee on June 26, 2007, 11:36:29 AM

Like a good bottle of wine.

Or a big box bought at the grocery store...

Always Sore · « **Reply #23 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:41:01 AM »

Quote from: Deedee on June 26, 2007, 11:39:37 AM

I print mine out and stick them into a homemade scrapbook, with little flowers I've drawn in the margins with pink and blue felt pens... and little notations and poetry snippets to add a whimsical touch and remind me of the conversation context. Lol.

You too small world...LOL

xxxLinda · « **Reply #24 on:** June 26, 2007, 11:43:27 AM »

Quote from: Always Sore on June 26, 2007, 11:41:01 AM

You too small world...LOL

and what, yours is massive?
Give us a look at yours, go on...