I talked to Derek about this....Derek is actually a cool person.
When someone talks crap about a person on the internet its personal, but when the person is in front of you, that person cant do anything. Ive seen Vince in person and Derek in person and no disrespect to Vince but Derek could put Vince in a world of hurt if he really wanted to.
It is Derek that is holding himself back from actually doing the real damage..
Derek is in fact being the bigger man...because if someone harrassed me the way Vince did and talk about a loved one, that person would have hell to pay...
People are different in person than they are on the net. Derek is actually friendly. Vince is actually friendly as well but between these two, Derek seems to be the one who seems to be the most people friendly and personable.
Derek will look you straight in your eyes when he shakes your hand while Vince will kinda look at the ground when you are talking to him. Its like Vince has some type of confidence issue. But thats the impression I get when I spoke to them both. Both of them seemed to be friendly but Derek is more personable. It was like talking to a friend you havent seen in a long time. Derek didnt make you feel threatened by his size at all...he is a very nice guy.