im sorry my vastly superior intellect stumped you guys 
let me try again. say you love a certain girl..ideally in heaven you would be together right? well what if you are not her #1!!! in her heaven, she would be with some other dude. so either 1. she will not be in your heaven thus negating the point of heaven, or 2.she will be in your heaven but therefore will be not the real her but a clone
it kind of makes for a paradox
Thanks for the clarification JOHN MATRIX

According to the bible, it looks like we won't be married in heaven:
Matthew 22:30At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
Mark 12:18-25Then the Sadducees, who say there is no resurrection, came to him with a question. "Teacher," they said, "Moses wrote for us that if a man's brother dies and leaves a wife but no children, the man must marry the widow and have children for his brother. Now there were seven brothers. The first one married and died without leaving any children. The second one married the widow, but he also died, leaving no child. It was the same with the third. In fact, none of the seven left any children. Last of all, the woman died too. At the resurrection whose wife will she be, since the seven were married to her?"
Jesus replied, "Are you not in error because you do not know the Scriptures or the power of God? When the dead rise, they will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.