I don't talk to anybody when I am at the gym. I keep my headphones on and focus on the task at hand I hate to be interupted. But last night I was doing abs and this new chick at my gym came over and started working out right next to me she kept looking over I kept getting the feeling she wanted me to say Hi or something like that but I just kept working out like I always do. But now I feel like I probally just came off like a total dick. Which is not how I wanted to come off but when Im at the gym I am there to work out if I want to pick up chicks Ill go to a bar.
You shouldn't try to make it happen, stay focused on your workout, zero in on it while still realizing that there
will be opportunities. In your case, that definitely sounded like an opportunity.
If she's obviously looking, definitely talk to her or at least say hi and see how she responds.
You'll get a sense for what she wants.
I wouldn't blame you for not acting, you were probably at extreme focus with your workout.
You went to the gym for a reason.