Comes with the territory when you live in his part of Connecticut. If there isn't a little metrosexual in you, you're ostracized in those parts. Usually comes with a healthy drug addiction and penchant for getting your ass beat outside of bars in New Haven.
LOL I just read your post----dude I hate fucking clubs, never was a "clubber", I was the type of dude who picked up chicks in the supermarket or out doing errands, never really went to the clubs to hook up, I cant stand that scene
the closese I got was I used to bounce at Alchemy for awhile like 4 yrs ago-----holy shit I wanted too and occasionally did punch some of these douchebags in the face just for living
----when you work at a place like that and are sober you see how pathetic some of these people are, there are some people who live at these places, every night day in day out (its like dude, go buy some video games or get a hobby)