Not buying it T.
Big Mal can't wake up tomorrow AM and say "Hey, I think I will be black today"
You can, however, wake up and say "Hey, I think I will refrain from sucking a dick today..."
i ca not decide not to feel attracted to som men. the times when i see a ma im attracted to, i do not decide to e attracted to them. i simply see them, and am attracted.
whether or not i acted on my attraction, wether or not i had any kind of intimate or sexual interaction with another man, is of no consequence to whether or not im bisxual.
the mere fact that i get attracted to both men and women, makes me bisexual. not because i had had intimate interactions with both.
a totally heterosexual man could have had sex with another man, but if he was never attracted, he would nt be bisexual or homosexual. he would be heterosexual, because he is only attracted to females.
if a totally gay man had sex with a female, but was never attracted to her, he would still be homosexual, not bisexual or heterosexual, because at no point was he ever attracted to a female.
i CAN NOT wake up one day and tell myself "i will not become attracted to any man i see today regardless of whether i think hes cute or not"......
just like mal cant say "i will not be black today"