to make a long story short and becuase I really can't emotionally go through sasying the it tonight, it boils down to communication. Better said my lack there off. She needed me to do that for her and I for whatever reason, didn't get it. It's alittle thing she asked for (to me) but something that meant so very much to her.
If 'communication' = learning how to pretend the trivial is important..... what's the point?
Not saying people's feelings are real, just that any validity begins and ends with them. Was just joking about someone I dated years ago, LOL! She needed more attention than all three of my kids and probably still thinks I'm an ass for finally running out of patience with her.
Problem is, OS is half right. Women tend to confuse feelings with facts so there really is no such animal as a "little thing" in their minds.
She's only half right for neglecting to add that it's never, ever... ever ever ever "one thing". ): Someone's either happy or not. If you think doing that 'one thing' would have made everything right there's an adjustable rate mortgage I'd love to sell ya.
