Wiggs at it Again

[Krankenstein]

I'll keep it short...5 years ago when I was in korea for a year with the military, the wife fucked around on me...fucked my whole world up...we are still together but it took work

Just curious...its always amazed me when people say "it took work" to stay together after someone fucks around on them.  Were you in ANY WAY to blame....or were you made to feel that way because some counselor or therapist made seem like that.  Not fucking with you, just asking serious question.

Also, when you say you are 'old school' did you smack her around like it was 'old school'?  Again, no joke...but thats what that means to me.  I fucked around on my girlfriend a few years ago....and I did the "give me a second chance" thing...but I have since realized that someone cheats for a reason.  There is something that isnt all there in the relationship to keep it monogamous.  I wonder how many relationships would be "saved" if people agreed to have an "open" relationship.

[drkaje]

Just curious...its always amazed me when people say "it took work" to stay together after someone fucks around on them.  Were you in ANY WAY to blame....or were you made to feel that way because some counselor or therapist made seem like that.  Not fucking with you, just asking serious question.

Also, when you say you are 'old school' did you smack her around like it was 'old school'?  Again, no joke...but thats what that means to me.  I fucked around on my girlfriend a few years ago....and I did the "give me a second chance" thing...but I have since realized that someone cheats for a reason.  There is something that isnt all there in the relationship to keep it monogamous.  I wonder how many relationships would be "saved" if people agreed to have an "open" relationship.

Pretty simple, really. Guys generally blame themselves for being cheated on because they're too pussy-whipped to let a bitch they love go. Pretending she's perfect or who you thought she was takes a lot of work. Also, you have to pretend whoever she fucked around with isn't lying there between you two every night. She also usually gets to act like emotional needs weren't being met so the guy has to be in constant ass kissing mode. Not letting someone know that shit still stings (no matter how many years have passed) takes effort too!

Like the man said... it takes a lot of work.

[Krankenstein]

Pretty simple, really. Guys generally blame themselves for being cheated on because they're too pussy-whipped to let a bitch they love go. Pretending she's perfect or who you thought she was takes a lot of work. Also, you have to pretend whoever she fucked around with isn't lying there between you two every night. She also usually gets to act like emotional needs weren't being met so the guy has to be in constant ass kissing mode. Not letting someone know that shit still stings (no matter how many years have passed) takes effort too!

Like the man said... it takes a lot of work.

Again....work by which person?  The woman to "work" on not fucking around on the guy.....or the guy to "work" on not thinking there was another dick in her mouth 30 mins before he kissed her when he got home from work?

[Krankenstein]

I don't blame Wiggs, men are far more loyal than Women and in his heart he's convinced himself it was a one off.I had a similar situation just recently, though nowhere near as serious.I trusted this person even after she let me down once already and gave her a 2nd chance but I got it verified 2nd hand that I was a fool for doing so, which really got to me because I had helped her through tough times.

First I got angry but then I just gave her my last words nicely and said that was it and I wouldn't be contacting her anymore, I want nothing more to do with her.Got in touch with 3 women who had texted me for dates (who due to being faithful didn't reply to) during that period and I'm taking one out tonight and 2 out next week.Good thing is I can walk away knowing that I was loyal, the mindset of people who fuck over those they supposedly care for is something I just don't understand.

Not to bust your balls....how was it that women were texting you for dates while you were with someone.  Wasnt there some sort of interaction with these women that would have them believe you would be available for a date?  Did you not tell them you were in a relationship, basically keeping a 'back up plan' in case shit went south?  Just curious....not judging...I've done the same thing.

[drkaje]

Again....work by which person?  The woman to "work" on not fucking around on the guy.....or the guy to "work" on not thinking there was another dick in her mouth 30 mins before he kissed her when he got home from work?

Work by the man to ignore the 'dick thing' of which you speak.

We all know/accept that sex tends to be more intimate for women versus physical in the case of men. When your bitch strays the dude is just getting pussy but she's really giving him a little extra on some level. If it was just fucking most guys really wouldn't care too much (safe sex, of course) but an actual affair has other implications.

[Rearden Metal]

and its because men ALLOW IT. As seen by this fucking thread,

that people have the nerve to defend a bitch that cheating on her man while he was in the army is just fucking pathetic. god mfa'l <sg gs
bfs h

I totally agree with you, Swede. But whomever it was that posted that women cheat as much as men, just hide it better, was right. Chances are, you're being/been cheated on. And you're not gonna find out.

[Tapeworm]

[The Wizard of Truth]

I'll keep it short...5 years ago when I was in korea for a year with the military, the wife fucked around on me...fucked my whole world up...we are still together but it took work

Fuck man,didnt know that,I couldnt stay with a girl after that,but hey,if you love her and youre happy now then thats cool

[kiwiol]

Like said before women have it easy, most guys will get lulled in to a false sense of security and get told every line under the sun to make them feel secure, mean while she is busy checking out all her other options behind their back.Remember a woman never lets go of one cock til she has a firm grasp on another.The current Facebook era is gonna end ALOT of relationships in the coming years.

[FitnessFrenzy]

For Wiggs' sake I hope his wife didn't cheat on him with WingedLion. But statistically speaking, there is a very high chance of this. 

[drkaje]

For Wiggs' sake I hope his wife didn't cheat on him with WingedLion. But statistically speaking, there is a very high chance of this. 

Ownage would forever be redefined.

[CalvinH]

Fuck man,didnt know that,I couldnt stay with a girl after that,but hey,if you love her and youre happy now then thats cool

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[Mr Nobody]

haha, we are just victims of testosterone overdose, Nobody?

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[balight]

Lot of bullshit in this thread from guys who think they are real alphas. I've cheated on every single girlfriend i had, and always regretted it. And they always forgives me. And probably i will do it again, because thats the way how people work. Life is too short to always "play by the rules". My longest relationship was 3,5 years and it was fucking boring an monotonous at the end. Now i try to imagine a couple who are together for 10 years! FFS that must be a living hell without some extra excitement sometimes. So Swede and other young guys just STFU about thing we have no idea about. And try not to say bullshits like "i would kill both of them". Of course you wouldn't, you're too much a pussy to do that - men you're posting 10+ posts/day on a message board... Or if you aren't then you're mentally instable...

I would naturally forgive my woman if she says it was just sex. It would highly hypocritical of me, if i wouldn't do so. I can do that and she cant? Yeah i know lot of keyboard warrior think that this is the order of the world...

 But i could never forgive for "emotional-cheating". If she would fall in love with someone else. What would be the point to stay together after that? Love cant be "restored", but luckily love isn't JUST about her pussy...

[drkaje]

Lot of bullshit in this thread from guys who think they are real alphas. I've cheated on every single girlfriend i had, and always regretted it. And they always forgives me. And probably i will do it again, because thats the way how people work. Life is too short to always "play by the rules". My longest relationship was 3,5 years and it was fucking boring an monotonous at the end. Now i try to imagine a couple who are together for 10 years! FFS that must be a living hell without some extra excitement sometimes. So Swede and other young guys just STFU about thing we have no idea about. And try not to say bullshits like "i would kill both of them". Of course you wouldn't, you're too much a pussy to do that - men you're posting 10+ posts/day on a message board... Or if you aren't then you're mentally instable...

I would naturally forgive my woman if she says it was just sex. It would highly hypocritical of me, if i wouldn't do so. I can do that and she cant? Yeah i know lot of keyboard warrior think that this is the order of the world...

 But i could never forgive for "emotional-cheating". If she would fall in love with someone else. What would be the point to stay together after that? Love cant be "restored", but luckily love isn't JUST about her pussy...

No one mentioned alphas, Man. People either tolerate/forgive disrespect or they don't.

[balight]

The term alpha is strongly connected with words like "man's pride"; "kill the ones opposed me" and such medieval shits. And most of you constantly disrespect women verbally here, and what you write is what you think. Why do you await respect from them then? Hypocritical at least. Man are allowed to do anything, but women are whores when they cheat on them?

[jesusbod]

I'll keep it short...5 years ago when I was in korea for a year with the military, the wife fucked around on me...fucked my whole world up...we are still together but it took work

Glad to hear you were able to work it out. My wife cheated on me when I was in Korea.. I kicked that bitch to the curb when I got back...

[outby43]

The term alpha is strongly connected with words like "man's pride"; "kill the ones opposed me" and such medieval shits. And most of you constantly disrespect women verbally here, and what you write is what you think. Why do you await respect from them then? Hypocritical at least. Man are allowed to do anything, but women are whores when they cheat on them?

yes

[balight]

Intresting point of view. I disagree.

[nzmusclemonster]

Men get a bad wrap, but women are by far the biggest cheaters.

[Trapper_Slapper]

Glad to hear you were able to work it out. My wife cheated on me when I was in Korea.. I kicked that bitch to the curb when I got back...

I didn't know that we had so many vets on getbig. But I've heard many stories about unfaithful wives of Airmen & Soldiers on remote tours or deployments since I've been in. Personally, I think that it is a deplorable act, but the JAG will not punish a civilian spouse under the same terms of a DOD member unless there is undeniable proof of adultery committed. The most weird case, a military NCO found out his wife was cheating on him with his drinking buddy, and didn't confront her until his supervisor at work told him to do so. Well, it's illegal to commit adultery in serving in the armed forces, and by him not confronting the wife until 4+ months down the road, technically he was assisting in that illegal activity. So they issued him a letter of repremand(paper work that hurts your career) and deducted his pay for 6 months.....ugh!

[nycbull]

lot of generation nothingness in this thread. Some of you guys live in a disposable world. If something doesnt go as planned you just bail and dont give a shit except anyone but yourself. You all have a lot of narcissistic tendencies.

A relationship is a great thing and it is worth fighting for. I dont think a lot of you know the real value of a shared history with someone. To be there for someone for better or worse and they for you over a long period of time. It is worth standing up for and not throwing away the minute it gets tough.

[Nasty Nate]

I'll keep it short...5 years ago when I was in korea for a year with the military, the wife fucked around on me...fucked my whole world up...we are still together but it took work

If I was married and my wife cheated on me i'd have zero love for her... You should've stood your ground like a fucking man and told her to get out.

[balight]

[Kwon]

Dude was gone for 12 month, and her belly is in what month?