Trust me Swede I've thought about all that...I was even outside the guys house with a bat in hand ready to end his life but I didn't want to go to prison over a female.
I didn't have sex with her for 6 months after we got back together....I just couldn't..occasionally it will flash in my head what she did but like everything time heals wounds...forgivien but not forgotten.
I'm sorry... but, did the guy force her to have sex with him?
If not. why go there and try to beat up the guy?
Who knows probably he didn't even knew she was married.
It was her fault.
I will give you props for not killing anybody.
I will not judged you for some reasons.
1- I'm nobody to judged and I don't judged people.
2- Love and hate the 2 most powerful forces in the universe.
Hail Satan.