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Baby-slapping incident on plane prompts corporal-punishment debate

By LEANNE ITALIE and SUE MAJOR HOLMES

The Associated Press

ALBUQUERQUE, N.M. — America's latest folk-hero flight attendant may be the one on a Southwest Airlines jet who took a 13-month-old baby from her mother after the woman slapped the crying child for kicking her. The attendant's actions, however, set off an intense debate: When and how should bystanders intervene?

Parents on both sides of the corporal-punishment debate agreed that hitting a baby that young was wrong. But they also empathized with the mother, saying they've been exactly where she found herself Monday on the Dallas-to-Seattle flight: stressed, and trapped on an airplane.

The federal laws that give crew members broad power to ensure safety can be invoked in situations like the one that unfolded on the flight, said Jerry Sterns, a San Francisco attorney specializing in aviation cases.

Acts of aggression against children in public places are often witnessed but frequently ignored, said Christin Jamieson, a spokeswoman for Washington state's blue-ribbon, anti-abuse commission called the Council of Children and Families.

"Simply put, most people don't know what to do," she said. "This is one of the most helpless feelings — both for the child and the witness — that you can imagine."

Flight attendant Beverly McCurley told officers that she saw the mother hit the child on the face with her open hand while the father yelled at the mother to stop screaming at the girl. She noted the girl had a black eye. The parents said the bruise was from a dog bite.

McCurley described the mother as agitated. She said the woman also slapped the baby on the legs and told the child to shut up. The mother later told police she "popped" the tired tot when the child kicked her, because "when she's screaming and she can't hear me say no, that's the only way I can get her to stop."

The flight attendant said she took the baby and walked to the rear of the plane. She said the father came back, took the child and stood there with her until she fell asleep.

At the request of the airline, authorities met the parents when the flight landed in Albuquerque, a scheduled stop. Paramedics checked out the child, and the family boarded another flight to continue their trip.

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #1 on: August 19, 2010, 08:21:00 AM »
Tough call. At the end of the day its no one's business to tell others how to discipline their kids. Mind you, if the person was slugging the crap outta their kids it would merit as child abuse.

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #2 on: August 19, 2010, 09:06:52 AM »
Leave them to it.

My parents gave me a slapped ass when I was a kid. I see no problem with it.

My son is 8 - he has had his ass slapped 1 time. He is an extremely well behaved and well balanced kid. He knows where the line is, he knows what happens if he crosses the line & life is fine.

The liberals just decided one day that you should talk things through with kids instead of a tap on the ass/back of the hand. Kids have been getting slapped for generations. Now you aren't supposed to do it & look at the cheeky, disrespectful little fuckers running around all over the place.

Next time you see a vegetarian - take a long hard look at their kids and tell me if you really want yours turning out like that.

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #3 on: August 19, 2010, 09:55:48 AM »
it depends.....sometime the kid needs their ass beat.......but if the parent is being crazy, or has been drinking, or under the influence of anything.....then its ok to stomp that parents ass...

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #4 on: August 19, 2010, 11:05:06 AM »



99% of american kids i see, i consider to be ill mannered and dont live up to standards that were set for me in a friggin 3rd world country....

shamefull
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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #5 on: August 19, 2010, 11:32:00 AM »
Leave them to it.

My parents gave me a slapped ass when I was a kid. I see no problem with it.

My son is 8 - he has had his ass slapped 1 time. He is an extremely well behaved and well balanced kid. He knows where the line is, he knows what happens if he crosses the line & life is fine.

The liberals just decided one day that you should talk things through with kids instead of a tap on the ass/back of the hand. Kids have been getting slapped for generations. Now you aren't supposed to do it & look at the cheeky, disrespectful little fuckers running around all over the place.

Next time you see a vegetarian - take a long hard look at their kids and tell me if you really want yours turning out like that.
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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #6 on: August 19, 2010, 11:44:11 AM »
Growing up when I misbehaved, I was hit with everything that wasn't nailed down to the ground. that's why I turned out normal. Now? These parents are way to easy with their kids / brats.

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #7 on: August 19, 2010, 11:52:57 AM »
if it was just a swat or slap on the leg I wouldnt say anything but from what I hear that child already had a black eye...

In that case I would more than likely alert authorties

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #8 on: August 19, 2010, 11:56:22 AM »
if it was just a swat or slap on the leg I wouldnt say anything but from what I hear that child already had a black eye...

In that case I would more than likely alert authorties
You wouldn't have to, now these spoiled brats have eye phones at age 10.

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #9 on: August 19, 2010, 12:52:44 PM »



99% of american kids i see, i consider to be ill mannered and dont live up to standards that were set for me in a friggin 3rd world country....

shamefull
thats no shit.....my mom was born and raised in germany....if i messed up she would beat the hell out of me and start yelling at me in german.....thats how i learned the language!!!

she still hits me when she gets mad....but now since i am grown she goes for closed fist to any uncovered bodypart.......

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #10 on: August 19, 2010, 01:56:15 PM »
I would stay out of it.  Don't agree with them intervening.  The kid sounds like she needed to be whacked.  I think the parent should have taken her to the bathroom and whupped her butt.  But I'm not that kid's parent.  Not my call.  Or the airline's.   

I wouldn't slap a kid that young (or slap a kid of any age for that matter), but if my kid ever hit or kicked me they would get knocked the !@#$ out.  They all know this.   :) 

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #11 on: August 19, 2010, 05:33:42 PM »
slapping is one thing but again...

This child apparently already had a black eye

if I see a little kid with a black eye getting slapped...ya Im probably going to say something

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #12 on: August 19, 2010, 05:58:47 PM »
taser them all

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #13 on: August 19, 2010, 06:09:21 PM »
taser them all
nah, spray em.....the tazer stops hurting after 5 seconds.....the spray ruins your entire week....

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #14 on: August 19, 2010, 06:43:36 PM »
especially if it touches your nether regions

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #15 on: August 19, 2010, 07:03:18 PM »
especially if it touches your nether regions
which HAS happened....

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #16 on: August 19, 2010, 07:09:52 PM »
yup, sucks

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #17 on: August 19, 2010, 07:31:31 PM »
yup, sucks
i am still peeling off some skin.......

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #18 on: August 21, 2010, 06:11:50 AM »
thats no shit.....my mom was born and raised in germany....if i messed up she would beat the hell out of me and start yelling at me in german.....thats how i learned the language!!!

she still hits me when she gets mad....but now since i am grown she goes for closed fist to any uncovered bodypart.......

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i ws constantly caned in school.....

99% of em were well deserved...

thing is...usually if u see ill mannered kids in pakistan, they belong to the lower classes and poor people. i moved to america expecting the same but NO....well educated upper class families have kids that behave like they came from down trodden uneducated parents. apparently people now a days dont believe that a kids manners are a reflection upon themselves.
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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #19 on: August 22, 2010, 12:44:31 PM »
The kid probably deserved it. My grandmother in Indonesia used to tie her kids to a tree and beat them with the iron end of a belt. The deserved it (my father or aunts).

Parents in the western world usually do not know how to discipline their children.

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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #20 on: August 22, 2010, 02:54:00 PM »


Parents in the western world usually do not  discipline their children.



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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #21 on: August 24, 2010, 11:05:44 PM »
Guys, there's a big difference between kids... and a 13 month old baby.

A swat on the ass of a 7 yr old is a far cy from slapping a 13 month old baby across the face for crying on an airplane. For cripes sakes, when my ears pop, I feel like crying, Can you imagine what a nightmare it is for a baby... and to slap a baby in the face? That can shake their brain and cause death. There's no excuse for it.
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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #22 on: August 25, 2010, 06:35:50 AM »
Guys, there's a big difference between kids... and a 13 month old baby.

A swat on the ass of a 7 yr old is a far cy from slapping a 13 month old baby across the face for crying on an airplane

Agree.

I believe I would intervene if I saw what the article states...at least to say something.


Do you guys remember the video of the woman that was beating the hell out of her daughter in the back of her car?  I believe I would physically intervene in that case.
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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #23 on: August 25, 2010, 07:16:53 AM »
Guys, there's a big difference between kids... and a 13 month old baby.



i'd slap the shit out of the mom....

when you have a child THAT young...

DONT FLY....PERIOD


goes along the same lines as...dont pull out breast out in public and start breastfeeding...ENUFF already...you r a new mom..fucking STAY HOME..or DONT HAVE KIDS if you r not willing to make a sacrifice...if the sacrifice is too much for you....


o yeah..throws that whole...i can have a kid without a man argument out of the window dosen't it  :-\
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Re: If you saw a parent/adult slapping/hitting a child, what would you do?
« Reply #24 on: August 25, 2010, 02:41:10 PM »
More kids should be slapped, and that flight attendant should have been slapped as well...

this is how the dumb flight attendant would have disciplined the child, "Now, it wrong to kick, you know that." Kid kicks her again, "I told you it was wrong, now stop..." And it goes on. You must show children that there is a consequence for bad actions, and especially if you tell them to stop doing something. And many many times, kids want to try you in public, thinking that they can get away with stuff.