I'd rather have something done for me, like having my car detailed or something like that.
Yes, yes, yes! this is a good gift: you make up hand-made "gift vouchers" and staple them into a coupon book made with love...
You give your live-in lover a book of tokens, for example:
"one night off" and "stay in bed till noon"
and "a foot rub", "a back massage" and
"interior car vacuum and exterior polish""a blow job",
plus a few silly obvious things like "take rubbish out", "walk the dogs in the rain when it's my turn", "clean the toilet and sink and bath and floor" and "3 big fat sloppy kisses and a mad hug"
xxx
with love
Linda
ps: joke is, it's highly unlikely that they'll ever cash in any of these daft coupons you've made for them, they'd feel too embarrased and will instead just do it themselves. But it's funny, and it's the thought that counts...