Author Topic: Approach anxiety with really hot women... (Read 9409 times)

HTexan · « **Reply #25 on:** March 30, 2011, 08:32:27 AM »

not at all.
but second dates are brutal.
because if she is a hoe you fucked on the first date. If she is not you most likely will fuck on the 3rd date. it is a weird post or pre fuck date.

Tito24 · « **Reply #26 on:** March 30, 2011, 08:42:43 AM »

there arent a lot of girls who start a conversation with you out of their own even if they desperately love to do it. its all up to the man unfortunately.

Super Natural · « **Reply #27 on:** March 30, 2011, 08:44:30 AM »

Quote from: Cleanest Natural on March 30, 2011, 07:53:56 AM

You gotta love how a gimmick with 194 posts knows everything discussed from years back ... who were u before ?

PS: since hot women provoke anxiety attacks try sticking to men

What ever blows your hair back

_bruce_ · « **Reply #28 on:** March 30, 2011, 02:52:09 PM »

If your anxiety is a persistent one - readjust your life for the better and reap the benefits.
"Hot" women are often testing your inner luck... in reality you are testing yourself by listening to your demons when potential tail is on the menu.

FREAKgeek · « **Reply #29 on:** March 30, 2011, 02:59:28 PM »

Quote from: CalvinH on March 30, 2011, 05:57:44 AM

GBr's have supermodels approach them,not the other way around.

X2

Cleanest Natural · « **Reply #30 on:** March 30, 2011, 03:29:59 PM »

SuperNatural .... as they say ... a pic is worth a thousand words ... you reek cock lol

ManBearPig... · « **Reply #31 on:** March 30, 2011, 03:46:57 PM »

i have a job, which puts me in the top 85th percentile.
i'm white, which puts me in the top 75th percentile.
i'm not fat, which puts me in the top 50th percentile.
i'm 5'11, which puts me in the top 25th percentile.

so, i'm a better human than 75 percent of the assholes out there just by default.

as for women, their worth goes down about 5% with each year past 20, so you do the math on how much attention you really should pay to them.

HTexan · « **Reply #32 on:** March 30, 2011, 04:51:34 PM »

Quote from: Tito24 on March 30, 2011, 08:42:43 AM

there arent a lot of girls who start a conversation with you out of their own even if they desperately love to do it. its all up to the man unfortunately.

i have had a lot of hot, and semi-hot chicks approach me and buy me drinks. so maybe it is you?

Captain Equipoise · « **Reply #33 on:** March 30, 2011, 05:02:29 PM »

Quote from: Super Natural on March 30, 2011, 01:37:21 AM

Picture the scene...

You're seated at the bar, Mike Mentzers demented ghost has a loaded revolver pressed to the back of your skull.
His challenge to you is to approach a gorgeous model.

If you fail and she rejects you, Mentzer will pull the trigger.

Do any of you guys experience a similar feeling of anxiety, when cold approaching super hot women & how do you personally go about curing it?

Go!

No, this only happens to losers or super geek's, doesn't happen when you're an Alpha male, because inside you know you're better then any bitch out there

The Abdominal Snoman · « **Reply #34 on:** March 30, 2011, 05:07:20 PM »

I'd walk over to her and say excuse me, do you see that alcoholic guy over there with the gay cop/porn star mustache? Well he just got his ass kicked by Arnold Schwarzenegger and now is pulling guns on beautiful women and any man with muscle. He reeks of really cheap booze and I believe both of our lives may be in jeopardy. He keeps talking very loud about H.I.T. or hitting something/someone. Quick grab my hand and lets move to the front of the bar and ask a bouncer to help us out.

Boost · « **Reply #35 on:** March 30, 2011, 05:13:11 PM »

Just don't be too aggressive with the approach....

Never know who you're dealing with

kiwiol · « **Reply #36 on:** March 30, 2011, 05:25:58 PM »

I'm smooth, like Ron Burgundy

tbombz · « **Reply #37 on:** March 30, 2011, 05:44:22 PM »

learn how to act! play the role. cool, calm, smart, witty, positive, masculine, domineering with class.. or if its a low class low intelligence girl ("dumb bitch") just be an asshole and then when no ones around pull out your cock and tell her to suck it....(this approach may work with dime pieces as well but proceed with caution)

muscularny · « **Reply #38 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:06:15 PM »

Quote from: ManBearPig... on March 30, 2011, 03:46:57 PM

i have a job, which puts me in the top 85th percentile.
i'm white, which puts me in the top 75th percentile.
i'm not fat, which puts me in the top 50th percentile.
i'm 5'11, which puts me in the top 25th percentile.

so, i'm a better human than 75 percent of the assholes out there just by default.

as for women, their worth goes down about 5% with each year past 20, so you do the math on how much attention you really should pay to them.

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great post and very true but when that super hot chic is in front of most guys this speech wont help

Captain Equipoise · « **Reply #39 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:10:02 PM »

Quote from: ManBearPig... on March 30, 2011, 03:46:57 PM

i have a job, which puts me in the top 85th percentile.
i'm white, which puts me in the top 75th percentile.
i'm not fat, which puts me in the top 50th percentile.
i'm 5'11, which puts me in the top 25th percentile.

so, i'm a better human than 75 percent of the assholes out there just by default.

as for women, their worth goes down about 5% with each year past 20, so you do the math on how much attention you really should pay to them.

I meet all those points listed above and disagree with you, here's a more accurate picture..

i have a job, which puts me in the top 85th percentile.
i'm white, which puts me in the top 95th percentile.
i'm not fat, which puts me in the top 60th percentile.
i'm 5'11, which puts me in the top 50th percentile.

Hulkotron · « **Reply #40 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:11:25 PM »

Quote from: Xerxes on March 30, 2011, 01:57:01 AM

It's the subconscious in you telling you you're not good enough. Now go and tell your subconscious to fuck off and approach that man.

johnnynoname · « **Reply #41 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:11:44 PM »

being a black guy who is also a coke dealer puts you in the 100% percentile

btw, that isn't me being facetious or trying to make a "joke"..........that shit is just the straight truth

Wiggs · « **Reply #42 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:19:23 PM »

(I'm going to be black Wiggs for this post so all you frightened whities don't thing Wiggs turned black)

Man, fuck these bitches man, how the fuck you gon' let a bitch thinks she's betta than you. With that kind of mindset putting a bitch on a pedestal of course you gon be weak in da knees and shit...Fucks dat that shit, I used a be a little bitch like that around broads like that and NEVVVVVER got any play. If you are confident and truly believe you are better than the other person that puts you in control and you treat these funky lil white broads like the wanna be treated with chocolate dick and a bigh fat nut sack....can't wait!....end

johnnynoname · « **Reply #43 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:28:03 PM »

highlight of this thread is the appearance of the "Niggs" character

monstercalves · « **Reply #44 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:29:31 PM »

Quote from: Big Dicked Bob on March 30, 2011, 07:26:26 PM

I usually scream mike mentzer sucks cock first thing when I'm at the bar.

LOOOL

che · « **Reply #45 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:33:36 PM »

Quote from: Big Dicked Bob on March 30, 2011, 07:26:26 PM

I usually scream mike mentzer sucks cock first thing when I'm at the bar.

kh300 · « **Reply #46 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:41:16 PM »

If you have the balls to walk up to a girl and say something shell give you her respect. That is if it isn't some stupid pick up line or some silly routine you read in the book 'the game'. Those are for dorks who need to resort to tricks and hit on as many girls as possible in hopes 1 out of 200 of them will throw out a fuck.

monstercalves · « **Reply #47 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:45:35 PM »

Quote from: kh300 on March 30, 2011, 07:41:16 PM

If you have the balls to walk up to a girl and say something shell give you her respect. That is if it isn't some stupid pick up line or some silly routine you read in the book 'the game'. Those are for dorks who need to resort to tricks and hit on as many girls as possible in hopes 1 out of 200 of them will throw out a fuck.

ahhahahha throw out a fuck!!!!!

luv it!

Brixtonbulldog · « **Reply #48 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:50:02 PM »

Quote from: no one on March 30, 2011, 08:19:28 AM

your anxious partly because you've already in your own mind placed an expectation of failure on the outcome.

first of all, don't approach any woman who hasn't looked at you or given the slightest inkiing she's interested in you. if a girl hasnt had the opportunity to notice you, give her that opportunity by walking by her. if she likes you she'll check you out initially and then a little later on- if she likes you she'll know exactly where you in that club at all times. you dont have to keep trying to be noticed once she first sees you. if a girl is in your vicinity, and she can see you, you'll know if shes into you. she'll look over at you. enough times to let you know shes interested, but not enough to look desperate.

now, you have to let her know that your interested too without looking creepy. dont stare at her or smile like 'hey is see you! wow your hot!' that screams desperate, just let her see you looking back and thats it. and technically you dont even have to let her know you see her checking you out. then go to the bar and get a drink. one of two things will happen now when you go to the bar for your drinks, she either go to the bar herself and stand beside you, or put yourself near enough to her to say hi. if she puts herself near you to say hi, dont just barge up to her and say hi- gotta be tactful and see who shes with- if shes with a group and conversing leave her be until she separates herself from the group for a bit and stand off to the side, which she will do eventually.

then just say 'hi' thats it. this isnt rocket science bro. if she digs you she will help you carry the conversation cause she wants you to be there. if shes not digging you you'll feel like conversation is a struggle. the key is to leave the conversation before you both get awkward, and when you leave dont close the conversation just leave it hanging on a good note cause you want her to want you to come back and not have it awkward to resume the conversation. you dont have to stay attached to her the rest of the night.

thats all there is to it dude. if you need directions after this point theres nothing i can do for you as getting to this point is tough part for most- the rest from this point on should sell itself. dude, just be yourself, dont try to be a certain way- relax and let shit play out. if its meant to be it'll be. if not nothing lost.... thats it.

i should be charging you for this shit.

not many good posts here but i'd go with this one. the best thing you can say to a chick you dont know is 'hi.'

Firemuscle · « **Reply #49 on:** March 30, 2011, 07:55:52 PM »

Quote from: Super Natural on March 30, 2011, 01:37:21 AM

Picture the scene...

You're seated at the bar, Mike Mentzers demented ghost has a loaded revolver pressed to the back of your skull.
His challenge to you is to approach a gorgeous model.

If you fail and she rejects you, Mentzer will pull the trigger.

Do any of you guys experience a similar feeling of anxiety, when cold approaching super hot women & how do you personally go about curing it?

Go!

Me and my buddies used to force each other to approach women. We would take turns and when it's your turn you must approach a woman with 20 minutes. After a while it got a LOT easier.

It doesn't matter what you say. Just how you say it, and how you look while you say it. The ice breaker is always awkward, but if you're clever you can make the conversation take off within about 30 seconds.

Don't fear rejection at all. When you get rejected, don't think twice about it and move along.