fact is people started consuming porn at the beginning of the generalization of the internet in the beginning of the 2000s... it means that for 11 years they consumed porn daily for hours. They never ever asked themselves what would be the long term effects of their use. It was quick, free, and "everyone was doing it".
Congrats, you fell for an addiction that has long lasting effects on the chemical production of neurotransmitters in your brains, and ultimately as a result has long lasting effects on your relationships with other human beings.