Correct. When my wife cheated on me, it came as such a shock it changed my whole being and persona unconsciously. I became a very different person after that. Reason was, I never saw it coming and never thought she'd do it. I've never trusted anyone the same after that except my brothers, sisters and father.
But it made a man of me and I toughened up emotionally cause I was a naive little bitch...it also taught that broads are just a fucked up as men.
didnt you tell us once that you also cheated on her?
Anyway, whatever the way you look at it, if a woman cheats on you, it's your fault.