The best way to find out is ramble on, how you can't stand people that get on homophobia/ have issues with the whole gay straight thing. If you make it sound like a completely irrelevant question people don't mind answering it.
This shit turns to nonsense so fucking fast. I really don't care what other men fuck, real simple, you can fuck ugo's dudes, fat chicks, black chicks, chicks with aids etc I don't care.
Unless your a woman I'm attracted to I could care less. In fact if I can tell or have to be reminded of whether your straight or gay, your probably just a shitty person.