Author Topic: Gentlemen, I did a girl wrong and I'm not proud. (Read 16257 times)

Wiggs · « **on:** July 06, 2012, 06:28:05 AM »

I've been seeing this Latina, (Mexican). She's 25 has one kid. She's pretty decent girl. Cooks, cleans, happy being domesticated. We both started this relationship looking for the same thing...long term.

Her kid pisses me off...(It's just me not used to being around 4 year olds)
She keeps talking about having kids and I've known this broad for a month...up to and including going to those websites where you can take pics of the couple and it shows what your kid would look like...

$:-\$
Her face is awesome but her body isn't what I thought it was and now that I've hit it a couple times, I've lost interest and not contacted her since. I feel like a real piece of shit cause I've never done this before. I'm still feeling guilty but not enough to go back or whatever. I'm in uncharted waters but my Wiggs sense is tingling and I've got the feeling if I don't get out now, I'll end up with a little "El Wiggs" much sooner than I'd like. I'm thinking of telling her we need to slow down or just never calling her again. I really don't enjoy being a POS as I wouldn't want it done to me.

She's a good woman but holy fuck this broad moved quick...I feel my wonderful freedom slipping away...
She's texted me asking what's up? And to let her know if I didn't want to talk to her anymore and that she would leave me alone...like she expected it...I'm guessing she drives dudes away with this behavior...No out of respect to her, I'll not post pics.

Grape Ape · « **Reply #1 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:31:13 AM »

Guilt aside, if you're already losing interest after hitting it a few times, this relationship is not meant to be long term. Better for her and the kid in the long run that you get out now. Just don't be a dick about it - man up and tell her.

Borracho · « **Reply #2 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:32:03 AM »

Even if she didn't have the kid you'd still not want to commit. If she wasn't moving so fast I think you wouldn't be about to run away from this chick.

affeman · « **Reply #3 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:32:51 AM »

In b4 uberman blaming your father.

Shockwave · « **Reply #4 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:33:17 AM »

A. Bail now. If she already wants kids and youre already losing interest, this is already doomed to fail. She'll go psycho and start poking holes in condoms, lying about the pill, etc, and your life will go to hell.

B. Arent you still married?

Stark · « **Reply #5 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:33:47 AM »

Quote from: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:28:05 AM

I've been seeing this Latina, (Mexican). She's 25 has one kid. She's pretty decent girl. Cooks, cleans, happy being domesticated. We both started this relationship looking for the same thing...long term.

Her kid pisses me off...(It's just me not used to being around 4 year olds)
She keeps talking about having kids and I've known this broad for a month...up to and including going to those websites where you can take pics of the couple and it shows what your kid would look like... $:-\$
Her face is awesome but her body isn't what I thought it was and now that I've hit it a couple times, I've lost interest and not contacted her since. I feel like a real piece of shit cause I've never done this before. I'm still feeling guilty but not enough to go back or whatever. I'm in uncharted waters but my Wiggs sense is tingling and I've got the feeling if I don't get out now, I'll end up with a little "El Wiggs" much sooner than I'd like. I'm thinking of telling her we need to slow down or just never calling her again. I really don't enjoy being a POS as I wouldn't want it done to me.

She's a good woman but holy fuck this broad moved quick...I feel my wonderful freedom slipping away...
She's texted me asking what's up? And to let her know if I didn't want to talk to her anymore and that she would leave me alone...like she expected it...I'm guessing she drives dudes away with this behavior...No out of respect to her, I'll not post pics.

Wiggs if it makes you feel better, you are not that special she probably moved on already

Wiggs · « **Reply #6 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:35:19 AM »

Quote from: Shockwave on July 06, 2012, 06:33:17 AM

A. Bail now. If she already wants kids and youre already losing interest, this is already doomed to fail. She'll go psycho and start poking holes in condoms, lying about the pill, etc, and your life will go to hell.

B. Arent you still married?

A. What condom?
B. No

MORTALCOIL · « **Reply #7 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:35:34 AM »

Most women want the same thing; some are smarter than others and just don't tell you bluntly their master plan. Sooner then you know, you're cuffed. She's clearly no rocket scientist so you can dump her without any remorse.

irishdave · « **Reply #8 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:35:57 AM »

Quote from: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:33:47 AM

Wiggs if it makes you feel better, you are not that special she probably moved on already

Why would she bother with a deadbeat when she has a kid anyway?

Shockwave · « **Reply #9 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:36:34 AM »

Quote from: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:35:19 AM

A. What condom?
B. No

Hmm. I must be out of the loop.
Anyway, the (future) condom you start strapping on because youre scared she's lying about the pill and trying to get pregnant to keep you around.

Wiggs · « **Reply #10 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:37:19 AM »

Quote from: Borracho on July 06, 2012, 06:32:03 AM

Even if she didn't have the kid you'd still not want to commit. If she wasn't moving so fast I think you wouldn't be about to run away from this chick.

You're correct, it's not the kid. He's a 4 year old doing what 4 year olds do. Its that she's movin to fast. I thought I moved fast...this broad is scaring the black off me.

MORTALCOIL · « **Reply #11 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:38:37 AM »

Quote from: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:37:19 AM

You're correct, it's not the kid. He's a 4 year old doing what 4 year olds do. Its that she's movin to fast. I thought I moved fast...this broad is scaring the black off me.

So you're actually waiting for the cunning/deceiver type?

Wiggs · « **Reply #12 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:38:59 AM »

Quote from: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:33:47 AM

Wiggs if it makes you feel better, you are not that special she probably moved on already

That would make me feel better Stark, it really would.

Borracho · « **Reply #13 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:39:27 AM »

Quote from: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:37:19 AM

You're correct, it's not the kid. He's a 4 year old doing what 4 year olds do. Its that she's movin to fast. I thought I moved fast...this broad is scaring the black off me.

hahah yeah you wish

Wiggs · « **Reply #14 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:40:31 AM »

Quote from: MORTALCOIL on July 06, 2012, 06:38:37 AM

So you're actually waiting for the cunning/deceiver type?

No, that's why I cut it off. I had to get some first.

Stark · « **Reply #15 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:40:57 AM »

Quote from: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:38:59 AM

That would make me feel better Stark, it really would.

Lol shut up I love you man but sometimes you're full of shit and don't you deny it I know you by now, you just have a bit of guilt feelings because you imagine her crying and sobbing and barely making it with her kid and all.
Get over yourself mate

she did fine before you and she probably bangs somebody else already.
She was a head wrecker ffs - any woman talking about kids and marriage after a few month dating is to be avoided like the plague.

Get yourself a white woman

Wiggs · « **Reply #16 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:41:44 AM »

Quote from: Borracho on July 06, 2012, 06:39:27 AM

hahah yeah you wish

Borracho · « **Reply #17 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:42:37 AM »

Quote from: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:40:57 AM

Lol shut up I love you man but sometimes you're full of shit and don't you deny it I know you by now, you just have a bit of guilt feelings because you imagine her crying and sobbing and barely making it with her kid and all.
Get over yourself mate she did fine before you and she probably bangs somebody else already.
She was a head wrecker ffs - any woman talking about kids and marriage after a few month dating is to be avoided like the plague.

Get yourself a white woman

This.

irishdave · « **Reply #18 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:42:40 AM »

Quote from: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:40:31 AM

No, that's why I cut it off. I had to get some first.

You're black. You better take as many 5's and 6's as you can get no matter how fat they are.

booty · « **Reply #19 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:42:53 AM »

Just tell her that shes moving too fast and that its pushing you away. Honestly one month into dating is far too soon for her to be talking about having a baby with you. Even a woman would run for the hills if it was reversed, I know I would.

MORTALCOIL · « **Reply #20 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:43:12 AM »

Quote from: Wiggs on July 06, 2012, 06:40:31 AM

No, that's why I cut it off. I had to get some first.

She's no Machiavelli from what you said. Most woman will put a mask on, be nice and all, crazy in bed 'til you're mesmerized then trouble begins. Lived that and seen it too many times. After all, the one that tells you from the get-go her intentions might not be the one to fear though she might be the scariest. See what I mean?

Wiggs · « **Reply #21 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:43:39 AM »

Quote from: Stark on July 06, 2012, 06:40:57 AM

Lol shut up I love you man but sometimes you're full of shit and don't you deny it I know you by now, you just have a bit of guilt feelings because you imagine her crying and sobbing and barely making it with her kid and all.
Get over yourself mate she did fine before you and she probably bangs somebody else already.
She was a head wrecker ffs - any woman talking about kids and marriage after a few month dating is to be avoided like the plague.

Get yourself a white woman

Of course I imagined that...minus the barely making it part.
I do miss my white womens.

MORTALCOIL · « **Reply #22 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:44:14 AM »

Quote from: booty on July 06, 2012, 06:42:53 AM

Just tell her that shes moving too fast and that its pushing you away. Honestly one month into dating is far too soon for her to be talking about having a baby with you. Even a woman would run for the hills if it was reversed, I know I would.

You's run for any hill as long as there's a penis nearby.

Butterbean · « **Reply #23 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:45:53 AM »

Quote from: Grape Ape on July 06, 2012, 06:31:13 AM

Guilt aside, if you're already losing interest after hitting it a few times, this relationship is not meant to be long term. Better for her and the kid in the long run that you get out now. Just don't be a dick about it - man up and tell her.

x2

You can tell her that she seems to have a strong desire for another child but that you're not ready for that yet so at this point so you think she would be happier w/someone more on the same page as her.

Shockwave · « **Reply #24 on:** July 06, 2012, 06:46:38 AM »

Quote from: MORTALCOIL on July 06, 2012, 06:43:12 AM

She's no Machiavelli from what you said. Most woman will put a mask on, be nice and all, crazy in bed 'til you're mesmerized then trouble begins. Lived that and seen it too many times. After all, the one that tells you from the get-go her intentions might not be the one to fear though she might be the scariest. See what I mean?

Agree with this. Lived it too, no fun.