Mate like i told you...i am the Daddy here ok
Yes you are, and you are also coming across as a rude pompous ass-hole.
Donny having been a soldier and all - things have really gotten to your head, haven't they? In Freudian terminology, the latter is known as a 'super-ego'.
Furthermore, being patriotic is ok, but why are you going overboard with this shit by calling everyone a "boy". You think having served in the British military you're above everyone else? Or do you think we are still in the era of forced servitude when white masters referred to the black slaves as "boys" to demean and emasculate them in the literal sense of the word?
Now you want to be called "daddy"?
How did you ever cope in the army with the Irish? Were you just shooting at the kids straight out if they mouthed off at you and didn't call you "daddy"? Or do you have some other deep held convictions that only pillow-talk should know about?
Did you grow up without a father, because you have what in Freudian terms is known as the oedipal complex? You seem to have a fear of both literal and figurative emasculation. In other words, you have castration anxiety. You strike at anyone that comes across as more powerful in the figurative and literal sense of the word.