pregnant gf decides not to move in with me because i'm this i'm that blabla

[anabolichalo]

she has a lot of excessive amniotic fluid probably caused by diabetus


so maybe the baby is extra shielded

[tu_holmes]

she has a lot of excessive amniotic fluid probably caused by diabetus


so maybe the baby is extra shielded

Possible... If it's extra fluid, it's possible the baby could have a birth defect and may not be healthy at delivery anyway.

I'm no doctor of course.

[DroppingPlates]

i can try to get custody of the kid and raise it myself, that would be responsible

not likely to happen tho

No, solve the issues with your girlfriend. It's time for some self reflection. Why is she so angry on you?

[anabolichalo]

No, solve the issues with your girlfriend. It's time for some self reflection. Why is she so angry on you?

i dunno we're not compatible at all


go figure

[NordicNerd]

...
and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"


the fuck is this

That, my friend, is crossing the line. What the f... does it concern her whether you brush your teeth in the morning?

The other stuff- you need to just learn to live with that. Most women I have known and seen in relationships, behave that way. Boring, tiresome and not respectful, but thats just the way women are.

NN

[DroppingPlates]

i dunno we're not compatible at all


go figure

So it's not worth to work on this relationship? That's kinda sad when a child is involved 

[anabolichalo]

i'm thinking if she manages to force me to pay for the child

maybe it will still end up being cheaper than having her live with me

[sync pulse]

breaking my balls over every little thing

like she is going to move into my place

but she wants to change everything

ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted

then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit

i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work

then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring

and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."

and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement

and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"


the fuck is this

What part of being a husband/domestic partner do you not understand?

[Henda]

Fuck her, she  would make your life a misery if you lived with her.

Come to your own arrangement with the kid rather than  through the csa. Id take nappies, milk, baby food ect so atleast you can be safe in the knowlege she isnt spending your money on anything other than the kid.

Also see the kid regularly. Or else you willgrow old with fucked up regrets

[anabolichalo]

Fuck her, she  would make your life a misery if you lived with her.

Come to your own arrangement with the kid rather than  through the csa. Id take nappies, milk, baby food ect so atleast you can be safe in the knowlege she isnt spending your money on anything other than the kid.

Also see the kid regularly. Or else you willgrow old with fucked up regrets

something like that she seems to suggest

[LanceD]

maybe she has a little accident, hmmm

[AbrahamG]

so....

this probably means i'm going to be paying for life to a bitch with a kid i will never see


any way to avoid having to pay all together?

Should never have stopped fucking dudes.

[anabolichalo]

Should never have stopped fucking prostitutes

fixed

[DroppingPlates]

breaking my balls over every little thing

like she is going to move into my place

but she wants to change everything

ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted

then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit

i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work

then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring

and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."

and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement

and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"


the fuck is this

(Sorry, I didn't noticed this post before)
If all of this is accurate, then she's one hell of a volatile, dominating & control freaking bitch  

[dj181]

maybe we can start cooking legit kigs and get rich

 

[doison]

breaking my balls over every little thing

like she is going to move into my place

but she wants to change everything

ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted

then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit

i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work

then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring

and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."

and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement

and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"


the fuck is this

A woman no longer hiding her true self.  What you've seen before this is a series of "chicks."  "Chick" is a role woman play before they feel they've sufficient trapped a man.

Happens after marriage and pregnancy.  

[anabolichalo]

(Sorry, I didn't noticed this post before)
If all of this is accurate, then she's one hell of a volatile, dominating & control freaking bitch  

yeah she always wants to get everything her way

and when she does

she doesnt even appreciate it, but thinks "its normal" and even complains that you resisted at first before giving in


fucking fuck

she's not a bad person at all, but fuck i dont want to be with her no more 

but now this kid matter


omg my dad will be disappoint son

[Princess L]

She has absolutely NO respect for you.  That has been evident since day one.  She walks all over you AND YOU LET HER (hence the no respect).  The two of you together = big mistake.

[Nomad]

breaking my balls over every little thing

like she is going to move into my place

but she wants to change everything

ok so i painted this whole place the way she wanted

then she wants to throw out my fridge, freezer, washing machine, table and chairs and wardrobe to change them with her shit

i relucatantly agree with this, even tho i dont likeit, but i figured i have to make this work

then she starts saying she wants to change the flooring

and i say "no. you changed enough. nothing is changing anymore untill further notice."

and she was pissed off and it became a whole big arguement

and she bitches and moans about things like "and yesterday you didnt brush your teeth in the morning before going to work. i know because your tooth brush was dry"


the fuck is this

[DroppingPlates]

yeah she always wants to get everything her way

and when she does

she doesnt even appreciate it, but thinks "its normal" and even complains that you resisted at first before giving in


fucking fuck

she's not a bad person at all, but fuck i dont want to be with her no more 

but now this kid matter


omg my dad will be disappoint son

Based on what you just wrote, her dominating attitude seems the only shitty part of her personalty, right? Can't you discus this with her?

[anabolichalo]

She has absolutely NO respect for you.  That has been evident since day one.  She walks all over you AND YOU LET HER (hence the no respect).  The two of you together = big mistake.

she always plays the "you have to respect me i'm older than you card"

and i think she should should respect me because i'm the man of the house and if she doesnt like it she can live in the street godddamnnjiiiit




i wish she can have a miscarriage but at this advanced stage of pregnancy the baby will not die anymore  

[anabolichalo]

Based on what you just wrote, her dominating attitude seems the only shitty part of her personalty, right? Can't you discus this with her?

she also doesnt understand the concept and value of frugality another major point of quarrels

but i dont think you can change a person anyway


at least not when they think they are right etc

[Natural Man]

Did your own father abandon your mother when she was 6 months pregnant with you?

[anabolichalo]

Did your own father abandon your mother when she was 6 months pregnant with you?

nope

they were married at that point and had a bunch of kids already

[DroppingPlates]

she also doesnt understand the concept and value of frugality another major point of quarrels

but i dont think you can change a person anyway


at least not when they think they are right etc

100% true