in general population of women, how much do they care about full head of hair?

[Nomad]

My issue is that I have enough wealth - made lots early on, and just kept at it. Wealth is the pleasant side-effect of applying intelligence in the pursuit of ambition, power and prestige. But I hide it. I don't like flaunting my wealth. If I'm being honest, I hoard my wealth for fear of losing it; and I abhor wasteful spending of my money...I worked hard for it and I'm not going to blow it on stupid emotional material possessions for the sake of peacocking.

So I have to let everything else do the talking. And since I never feel confident enough in the body I've developed (I'm a bodybuilder after all...we always hate the way we look), I never have the confidence to use how I look to attract women. Instead, I come off as aloof, stand-off-ish, cold, and distant. Meanwhile, I'm just hoping the hot chick comes over and talks to me, because I don't have the nuts to go talk to her. I have a million things to talk to her about...just have to figure out a way to meet her.

Worst of all, I can't stand rejection in any form. So I usually just say "ah...she probably wouldn't like a guy like me anyways...I work too much and she probably wants a guy who's less than 5% bodyfat and I'm only 12%". And then I convince myself I'm right. And then laugh at myself for being delusional...I'm the guy who can close a M&A in a boardroom with tempers flaring, but I can't talk to a lonely girl at a bar.

LOL...such high school drama. I laugh at my own ineptitudes with women. We all have our challenges.

Are you average or below average height?

Bald?

Average looks?

[anabolichalo]

create spider-man like muscles

ripped, dense, detailed, and seperated

then you're in  like flint

if this guy were bald he's look average at best

[dj181]

if this guy were bald he's look average at best

bullshit

that body is out-fucking-standing

[240_Iz_Nutz]

if this guy were bald he's look average at best

He is a lot better than her because he doesn't have some stupid tatt on his hand.

[Seven Copper Coins]

My issue is that I have enough wealth - made lots early on, and just kept at it. Wealth is the pleasant side-effect of applying intelligence in the pursuit of ambition, power and prestige. But I hide it. I don't like flaunting my wealth. If I'm being honest, I hoard my wealth for fear of losing it; and I abhor wasteful spending of my money...I worked hard for it and I'm not going to blow it on stupid emotional material possessions for the sake of peacocking.

So I have to let everything else do the talking. And since I never feel confident enough in the body I've developed (I'm a bodybuilder after all...we always hate the way we look), I never have the confidence to use how I look to attract women. Instead, I come off as aloof, stand-off-ish, cold, and distant. Meanwhile, I'm just hoping the hot chick comes over and talks to me, because I don't have the nuts to go talk to her. I have a million things to talk to her about...just have to figure out a way to meet her.

Worst of all, I can't stand rejection in any form. So I usually just say "ah...she probably wouldn't like a guy like me anyways...I work too much and she probably wants a guy who's less than 5% bodyfat and I'm only 12%". And then I convince myself I'm right. And then laugh at myself for being delusional...I'm the guy who can close a M&A in a boardroom with tempers flaring, but I can't talk to a lonely girl at a bar.

LOL...such high school drama. I laugh at my own ineptitudes with women. We all have our challenges.

So you're one of those rich guys that can't get laid, that we talk about here     

Seriously dude...are you THAT afraid of rejection ?

I got rejected once, in 1997 I think....it wasn't that bad...

All kidding aside they're just chicks dude, and they are just as insecure as you are.....you seem to have a lot to offer, relax man.

[_bruce_]

I am trying to go bald now.

Great.
I'm semi bald myself and the 50+ crowd loves it.

[kh300]

You're right about chronic over-thinking. I am naturally cautious and analytical - I do well in bear markets, not so much in the bull market (obligatory no homo).

So I tend to act like that no matter the situation, social settings included. That includes evaluating my chances with a woman. I will always lose out to the man who takes chances. As Wayne Gretzky said, "you miss 100% of the shots you never take". I'm so concerned with lining up the shot perfectly, that by the time I get around to convincing myself that the game is rigged in my favor, I've lost her attention, some other guy has come in, or the night has ended.

By it's a pathological fear of rejection that keeps me from over-riding the analytical thought process. I refuse to lose and will over-think every decision until I know victory is a near certainty. It's been my hallmark in business transactions. At first it held me back in business, as opportunities exploded before I could capitalize. But over time, I've grown and developed, and can keep up pretty well without over-extending my risk. But that ability to spot opportunities in business faster, has not been married to an ability to spot opportunities with women faster than when I was young. I'm still inept, slow, unresponsive and overly cautious.

I do very well in social settings where there isn't pressure to "pick up" - I'm outgoing, funny, and love telling stories, which usually adds life to the party...I've lived a rich life so there's a lot to tell. And although I'm quite a dunce when it comes to picking on other women's cues that they may be interested, I've in fact had it told to me by a number of platonic female friends that "hey that girl likes you". Which I usually dismiss as whimsical female fancy. And even if I do consider it, my friend's opinion that I should "go hit that" is usually not enough to tip my scales...I seem to only respond to an overt display of interest (think along the lines of a girl saying "hey, you're really hot, and I need you now"). Anything short of that, and I get analysis paralysis.

It's all in my head. Just that my head is the only thing I ever listen to. LOL!

Starting today say hi to every girl you see. Hot ugly skinny fat old young doesn't matter. Don't start a conversation or say anything other then hello. Just say Hello and walk away. Do that for awhile and then worry about the next step. Before you know it you'll be able to walk up to any girl.

[Dr Dutch]

I have to laugh at the bald guys that have to be delusional and say women prefer bald men.

Who knows what women want? Men have been trying to figure this out forever. It's also age related too.
 1.Early 20's women don't care to much if a guy is not successful. They are looking for a good looking guy.

 2. Late 20's and 30's women want a guy who can provide for their future kids and themselves.

 3.In their 40's many single women find older men is their only option and it is the option they want.

4. In their 40's if they are divorced and got the house with alimony and child support they just play the field. They dream of finding a guy with money but most divorced men in their 40's are broke and they had to give their house to their ex.

5. In their 50's it is where it gets interesting. Many are not looking for marriage. Only a good time. They can go younger or older.
 

Haha oldtimer, I think this summary is about right 

[snx]

Are you average or below average height?

Bald?

Average looks?

Above average height.

Full head of hair.

Average looks (I've had some women say I'm handsome, but if I'm being honest, I'm probably just average looks in the face. Nothing memorable or overly attractive, but probably nothing grotesque, I would hope)

[snx]

So you're one of those rich guys that can't get laid, that we talk about here     

Seriously dude...are you THAT afraid of rejection ?

I got rejected once, in 1997 I think....it wasn't that bad...

All kidding aside they're just chicks dude, and they are just as insecure as you are.....you seem to have a lot to offer, relax man.

Hahaha...groink, you're like the last guy on this board to tell average looking guys about rejection.

To say your facial looks attract women is to say that the smell of blood attracts sharks.

But that aside, your message is a sage one. The one about relaxing. I have to find a way to do just that.

[snx]

Starting today say hi to every girl you see. Hot ugly skinny fat old young doesn't matter. Don't start a conversation or say anything other then hello. Just say Hello and walk away. Do that for awhile and then worry about the next step. Before you know it you'll be able to walk up to any girl.

Honestly, this seems like the best actionable advice I've gotten, so I'll seriously give it a shot. Just be a conversationalist and put zero expectations on it. Thanks KH.

[Seven Copper Coins]

Hahaha...groink, you're like the last guy on this board to tell average looking guys about rejection.

To say your facial looks attract women is to say that the smell of blood attracts sharks.

But that aside, your message is a sage one. The one about relaxing. I have to find a way to do just that.

I said this before...talk to women like you already know them, and have every right to be conversing with them.  Polite, but casual, i dont even bother with an introduction.  I just look for something, anything to talk about to break the ice...a lamp, some douchebag with a bad toupe, whatever. Make an astute and/or funny remark...you're a sharp dude..and just keep talking....LOL.

[cephissus]

hey, snx

ever since pickup videos became popular on youtube, there have been a couple of groups (simplepickup, vitalyzdtv) whose primary appeal is comedy, the actual pickup aspect being somewhat secondary.  as such, they go up to complete strangers day in and day out saying the most ridiculous shit ever -- you WILL cringe watching their videos... and, alarmingly, half of the time they get the girl's number anyway!  i'm not at all recommending these videos for "pickup advice" (), but, as someone who relates to the description you've given, what these videos did show me is there's really nothing to it.  if these guys can go up to people and say the stupidest, most crass, embarrassing shit imaginable and still get away with it half the time, then people like us have nothing to "fear".

[anabolichalo]

getting a girl's number is for amateurs


even i succeeded  recently at going home with two sluts (only banged one) at the same time without exchanging numbers


no numbers no trace

[flinstones1]

absolutely hilarious and true.

some women say they dont mind receeding hairline blabla.thats al relative compromises for them.

and if they like a famous actor whos bald, its bc hes an actor.

george clooney lookalike will not do as good as the real george clooney.

women have very good and brutal sense for atractivity,they just pretend to not and do make compromises.

.......If she doesn't feel attraction there is nothing you can do about it, if she does feel attraction there is nothing SHE can do about it.  as perfect as you might of thought she was....Im sure I can find 5 chicks hotter than her who dig you for you.

nothing like walking by a chick months down the road with a girl hotter than her....best feeling ever.

[FitnessFrenzy]

Fuck hair.

[Oly15]

I have tried to fake interest in women with money but I'm unable to do so. What is it that allows women to get with a man they feel no physical attraction for?

Is it in their genes?

Because theyre not dumb and breeding with some burrito race would contaminate their genetics. Europeans will stay pure from the fucking.jews pushing sick ass interbreeding the "white race" with 3tlrd world.destructicr animals. This is mostly to the sick fucking blacks, mexican cartel are also savages and their followers. Animals.

Stick with your race delusional clown. Niggs too.

Yes its in their genes

[flinstones1]

Because theyre not dumb and breeding with some burrito race would contaminate their genetics. Europeans will stay pure from the fucking.jews pushing sick ass interbreeding the "white race" with 3tlrd world.destructicr animals. This is mostly to the sick fucking blacks, mexican cartel are also savages and their followers. Animals.

Stick with your race delusional clown. Niggs too.

Yes its in their genes

interbreeding huh    yes that's why Israeli womena re some of the most beautiful women in the world.  ask arce...the best looking people are almost always of mixed races. It's a fact....

[flinstones1]

by mixed i dont mean mexican and half black or half white and half asian, just a bit of something.......Im in the south, and the majority of people here are average looking.....IF you have a bit of italian,russian,german, greek in you it goes a long ways. women like men with rare exotic features...be it darker than aveage eyebrows, .a black man with blue eyes, a white man with green eyes, a man with darker eyebrows, or olive skin....most guys find this true with women as well. Israeli and italian women , shit on the so called "southern belles" out here
 this is one of the reasons accents are so attractive to . bigger cultural difference better chance of different genes- healthier babies.  

[True]

Im also under the impression that chicks dig a guy with some nice and fairly long hair. However, I dont know how many times Ive seen this dude showing up on girls dating profiles:



That should tell you something.

Me myself like to keep my hair short, because I dont think I look that good with long hair. I either shave it off so Im left with a buzz cut similiar to this guy, or I just keep it short and style it with some wax. If Im going for the buzz cut look I could care less what women think though, because being that cut makes you both look and feel more hardcore and fresh.

[O.Z.]

women in general expect more than what they have to offer. Goes other way around for men. Its all about confidence and women generally are in front in that aspect

[_bruce_]

interbreeding huh    yes that's why Israeli womena re some of the most beautiful women in the world.  ask arce...the best looking people are almost always of mixed races. It's a fact....

[Borracho]

I have tried to fake interest in women with money but I'm unable to do so. What is it that allows women to get with a man they feel no physical attraction for?

Is it in their genes?

Because theyre not dumb and breeding with some burrito race would contaminate their genetics. Europeans will stay pure from the fucking.jews pushing sick ass interbreeding the "white race" with 3tlrd world.destructicr animals. This is mostly to the sick fucking blacks, mexican cartel are also savages and their followers. Animals.

Stick with your race delusional clown. Niggs too.

Yes its in their genes

LOL

Please humor me and tell me why it is that you think I'm delusional.  

[Archer77]

interbreeding huh    yes that's why Israeli womena re some of the most beautiful women in the world.  ask arce...the best looking people are almost always of mixed races. It's a fact....

Latin women are the best looking in the world alongside the non-hairy Mediterranean women.

[dj181]

Latin women are the best looking in the world alongside the non-hairy Mediterranean women.

stick to your own kind darkie