no offense dude, but you look exactly how I would picture an older closeted homosexual top to look. Lol.
I am not offended, but I am also not closeted nor homosexual....so, FOOLED YOU! Beware of stereotyping people. Older closeted and out homosexuals most likely look just like anyone else.
Here's an idea. How about you post your photo, either shirtless or not and then we can all comment on what you look like to us. I promise to be kind and not offensive although I cannot speak for others here.