x 2 on a second opinion, My ortho treats LA Galaxy and some Dodgers players so he's repaired multi million dollar joints, and he's ultra conservative. Some other, shittier, surgeons I've seen have been much more keen to cut me open
he's talked me out of surgery on my hip and my shoulder (torn labrums, bone spurs, tendon cleanup) and pushed rehab / mobilization work.
not that it might be appropriate for you, but I have an insane list of injuries from retarded lifting that I now work-around, mostly pain free and never had surgery (god willing it stays that way)
remember that most physios rehab is the worst kind of retarded broscience and can actually hurt you a lot more than sitting on the couch doing nothing