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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2014, 02:57:50 PM »
Yes!

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #2 on: March 06, 2014, 03:02:32 PM »
That article and it's ideas are bullshit.


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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #3 on: March 06, 2014, 03:03:04 PM »
I should probably read this  8)
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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #4 on: March 06, 2014, 03:04:07 PM »
Bet the article is a steaming pile of shit.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #5 on: March 06, 2014, 03:05:38 PM »
Good article...

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #6 on: March 06, 2014, 03:06:24 PM »
Bet the article is a steaming pile of shit.
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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #7 on: March 06, 2014, 03:11:18 PM »

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #8 on: March 06, 2014, 03:12:10 PM »
Didn`t read,no interest in improving myself.  :D

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #9 on: March 06, 2014, 03:15:08 PM »
;D

Years of lurking for that first post. After two bottles of wine.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #10 on: March 06, 2014, 03:17:57 PM »
Years of lurking for that first post. After two bottles of wine.
Patience cynical drunk lurker of peace.  ;)

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #11 on: March 06, 2014, 03:20:54 PM »
Actually,I skimmed the article and I really NEED to put some of that stuff into practice.  :(

will read the rest later when my depression clears a bit.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #12 on: March 06, 2014, 03:50:35 PM »
What's wrong with being a cynical arsehole?  Isn't it only the newage positive affirmation fagboys that it upsets anyway, when you constantly smash their fabricated reality built on denial into thousands of pieces with doses of raw truth.  Not being cynical is what caused the world to be inhabited by billions of wishful thinking idiots desperately clinging to fantasy and imaginary friends.  What the world needs is MORE cynical arseholes, not less.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #13 on: March 06, 2014, 03:58:36 PM »
Since I am an asshole and I love being an asshole I wont bother to read it.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #14 on: March 06, 2014, 03:59:18 PM »
What's wrong with being a cynical arsehole?  Isn't it only the newage positive affirmation fagboys that it upsets anyway, when you constantly smash their fabricated reality built on denial into thousands of pieces with doses of raw truth.
having a positive affirmation is not new age, it's actually being a cynical a-hole that is more "new age".
Or maybe it's just that being a cynical a-hole is actually a cycle which societies go thru when they have reached a certain zenith (or low) and everything goes.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #15 on: March 06, 2014, 04:02:42 PM »
having a positive affirmation is not new age, it's actually being a cynical a-hole that is more "new age".
Or maybe it's just that being a cynical a-hole is actually a cycle which societies go thru when they have reached a certain zenith (or low) and everything goes.
Fuck off with your idiotic thinking, positive affirmation is littered throughout the newage propaganda.  Practising such a thing would have got you locked up two hundred years ago as a dangerously deluded idiot incapable of assessing reality.  Being cynical is the domain of those with accurate observational skills, Dr Wayne Dwyer and his cronies aren't writing about being cynical.  I swear to GOD Parker you are a massive closet homosexual.  You have got the whole white knight thing going on, now you are promoting gay new age concepts that encourage letting go of accurately assessing the world around you.  Next thing you know you will be telling us you are a vegan and have joined a chanting group that wears togas.  Cynical arseholes are easy to be around, it''s those deluded newage idiots forcing themselves to be a certain way with their faux happiness and their ridiculous worldview that are intolerable.

"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it."George Bernard Shaw
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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #16 on: March 06, 2014, 04:09:02 PM »
having a positive affirmation is not new age, it's actually being a cynical a-hole that is more "new age".
Or maybe it's just that being a cynical a-hole is actually a cycle which societies go thru when they have reached a certain zenith (or low) and everything goes.

I know BigRo agreed with article but I'm Irish too and we're generally horribly cynical here. Yes I used two adverbs side by side. When the economy was great people bitched about how money destroyed us, how materialistic we'd become etc. When shit hit the fan and the economy collapsed people bitched about economy, how much hubris there was etc.

It's probably something to do with our colonial past and being a poor nation, always the victim.

On the plus side, getbig's cynicism is positive. It opens your eyes to the lies of the supplement industry, the reality of "professional" bodybuilding (read schmoe squatting to stand on a pro stage) etc.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #17 on: March 06, 2014, 04:17:44 PM »
Fuck off with your idiotic thinking, positive affirmation is littered throughout the newage propaganda.  Practising such a thing would have got you locked up two hundred years ago as a dangerously deluded idiot incapable of assessing reality.  Being cynical is the domain of those with accurate observational skills, Dr Wayne Dwyer and his cronies aren't writing about being cynical.  I swear to GOD Parker you are a massive closet homosexual.  You have got the whole white knight thing going on, now you are promoting gay new age concepts that encourage letting go of accurately assessing the world around you.  Next thing you know you will be telling us you are a vegan and have joined a chanting group that wears togas.

"The power of accurate observation is commonly called cynicism by those who have not got it."George Bernard Shaw
Ahahaha, I don't know if you are massive troll or massively deluded.
White knight? Closeted? Man...

Wayne Dyer is a man respect.
But, let's go the definition of cynical

cyn·i·cal
ˈsinikəl/
adjective
adjective: cynical
1.
believing that people are motivated by self-interest; distrustful of human sincerity or integrity.
"her cynical attitude"
doubtful as to whether something will happen or whether it is worthwhile.
"most residents are cynical about efforts to clean mobsters out of their city"
synonyms:   skeptical, doubtful, distrustful, suspicious, disbelieving; More
antonyms:   idealistic
contemptuous; mocking.
"he gave a cynical laugh"
2.
concerned only with one's own interests and typically disregarding accepted or appropriate standards in order to achieve them.
"a cynical manipulation of public opinion"

You always take issue and go to extremes, you have a severe distrust of anybody who disagrees with you or doesn't have your viewpoint. And you argue obsessively that your view and only your view is correct.
If there are many paths to Rome, why is it that only your path is the quickest one?

I know BigRo agreed with article but I'm Irish too and we're generally horribly cynical here. Yes I used two adverbs side by side. When the economy was great people bitched about how money destroyed us, how materialistic we'd become etc. When shit hit the fan and the economy collapsed people bitched about economy, how much hubris there was etc.

It's probably something to do with our colonial past and being a poor nation, always the victim.

On the plus side, getbig's cynicism is positive. It opens your eyes to the lies of the supplement industry, the reality of "professional" bodybuilding (read schmoe squatting to stand on a pro stage) etc.
And I agree, especially about the last part. Cynicism is not bad, because a good dose of it is needed.
One shouldn't look at everything with a naive Smurfette outlook, but to be real about things. Nor should we have a depressive, negative "it's a rainy day everyday" outlook either.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #18 on: March 06, 2014, 04:34:54 PM »

And I agree, especially about the last part. Cynicism is not bad, because a good dose of it is needed.
One shouldn't look at everything with a naive Smurfette outlook, but to be real about things. Nor should we have a depressive, negative "it's a rainy day everyday" outlook either.

Countless trips to my psychiatrist told me don't assume because it's raining it'll be a bad day. Especially as it seems to rain here 364 days a year.

That said, every time it rains I wake up and say "fuck it". Pathetic fallacy.

I read article and while I'd say I'm a cynic I'm not close minded. Experience (and my profession - lawyer, background science) has taught me to start from a neutral position and ask questions. What is the agenda? Why is this idea/product/stance being promulgated? If the evidence seduces me I will change my stance and hold up my hands.




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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #19 on: March 06, 2014, 04:37:57 PM »
I have found if you think negatively, you'll be a negative person. Thoughts--->words--->actions--->reputation

Stay positive.
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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #20 on: March 06, 2014, 04:39:01 PM »
I have found if you think negatively, you'll be a negative person. Thoughts--->words--->actions--->reputation

Stay positive.

Like you are about the economy?

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #21 on: March 06, 2014, 05:01:31 PM »
Countless trips to my psychiatrist told me don't assume because it's raining it'll be a bad day. Especially as it seems to rain here 364 days a year.

That said, every time it rains I wake up and say "fuck it". Pathetic fallacy.

I read article and while I'd say I'm a cynic I'm not close minded. Experience (and my profession - lawyer, background science) has taught me to start from a neutral position and ask questions. What is the agenda? Why is this idea/product/stance being promulgated? If the evidence seduces me I will change my stance and hold up my hands.




I'm kinda like that with all this snow on the ground...but, I remember when I was a kid, that I liked snow on the ground because I could go sledding, and it meant that I didn't have to go to school. Positives.
Now, as an adult, it represents negatives---the driving, slipping on ice, and the weather in general.

And your last part, I think the same way as well. Which does bother people sometimes.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #22 on: March 06, 2014, 05:12:15 PM »
I'm kinda like that with all this snow on the ground...but, I remember when I was a kid, that I liked snow on the ground because I could go sledding, and it meant that I didn't have to go to school. Positives.
Now, as an adult, it represents negatives---the driving, slipping on ice, and the weather in general.

And your last part, I think the same way as well. Which does bother people sometimes.

O/T but we rarely get snow here. For two winters (09,10) we had snow. At first everyone loved it. Shithole houses in snow look "rustic" and it was fun. Shortly after the reality set in. Abandoning cars at the bottom of steep roads, cancelled plane flights and yes hilarious slipping.

Here's a video from the time, always makes me laugh:


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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #23 on: March 06, 2014, 05:22:18 PM »
O/T but we rarely get snow here. For two winters (09,10) we had snow. At first everyone loved it. Shithole houses in snow look "rustic" and it was fun. Shortly after the reality set in. Abandoning cars at the bottom of steep roads, cancelled plane flights and yes hilarious slipping.

Here's a video from the time, always makes me laugh:


Damn, that person took a serious "L" on the pavement...
Here in the US, businesses and people have been sued if they don't take care to remove the ice on the walks in front of their buildings.

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Re: How To Stop Being A Cynical A-hole
« Reply #24 on: March 06, 2014, 05:26:15 PM »
That's at the side of the courts, as in highest courts in Ireland. I was working there at the time with a high court judge. It was like walking on marbles.

Aside, finished third bottle of wine on beer now. Not much posting left in me,