To the op here are some tips, do you have a friend who has a luxury car borrow it instead of driving a cheap car for the date, say in your profile that you are a romantic guy who loves the outdoors invite her to a picnic in the park, go to the supermarket pick up a can of caviar, nice wine make it look look classy, tell her that you love to cook order some nice takeout put it in a pot and say you cooked it, woman love that kind of shit the panties will come off fast.