ive seen people in relationships (marraige) 40 plus years and all of a sudden they both dont love eachother anymore and they divorce,happens fast sometime.i guess what im saying is u never can tell whats on anothers mind in a relationship,sometimes u think everythings going beautiful and u get creamed with bad news overnight,she could wake up n tell u she doesnt love u no more and found someone else,u just never now