Author Topic: Do you want to be the biggest and the best? Or is moderate success enough?  (Read 3430 times)

Dave D

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I'd like to be the best me that I can be.

For awhile I thought I might devote time to getting owned the best in debates on getbig but even that is a serious undertaking,  there is some serious and stiff competition here.

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I'd like to be the best me that I can be.



Isn't this an inherently limiting prospect? Is the best you you can be great? Or is it just middle of the pack?

If you truly believed that you had the ability to earn a billion dollars, would you put in the effort to do that or would you be satisfied with less money? 

Is there ever an excuse to limit your potential?

Dave D

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Isn't this an inherently limiting prospect? Is the best you you can be great? Or is it just middle of the pack?

If you truly believed that you had the ability to earn a billion dollars, would you put in the effort to do that or would you be satisfied with less money? 

Is there ever an excuse to limit your potential?

I guess if the pursuit of money is your end goal when would enough be enough, why stop at a billion? I honestly don't think much in life is impossible,  it's whether you're willing to over come failure after failure, rejection after rejection until you find success.

  If I bench 600 pounds of course I'll want to bench more, but even when I reach that goal it won't be an act that I'll be able to do forever, it will be for a limited time like everything in life.

Since this is a bodybuilding board, we can see the mindset you describe in today's physiques, the constant effort to push just a little further,  to get a little bigger, lean out just a little more......except in this case we call that mindset a sickness.

How is being the best me I can be limiting myself? There will never be another me, or you.  Comparing your self to others is fine if that's what you do. That means you believe everyone is equal and the only limiting factors are how hard you work, the reality is that there is only one President of the United States at a time, and no matter how hard you work at becoming president you still face factors out of your control, but for the vast majority just being able to say you ran for the presidency is quite an accomplishment.

The question I think you want to ask yourself is how do you define success,  and how does that definition fit into your idea of happiness?

I think we should always be striving to grow and improve but it's also important to remember that we are passing through this life and we need to stop and enjoy what we do have and have accomplished.


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I'd like to be the best me that I can be.

For awhile I thought I might devote time to getting owned the best in debates on getbig but even that is a serious undertaking,  there is some serious and stiff competition here.

Yes, by now, you must be used to getting owned by AVXO.  :D :D
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Dave D

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Yes, by now, you must be used to getting owned by AVXO.  :D :D

 :)

He (or she) is well researched/educated and it saddens me that at this present time (not limiting myself here) I am not a match for him (or her).

 I will not take this lying down though, I will study and devote myself to proving via science that God is real and converting those who don't believe with the same scientific facts they hide behind! 

You've been warned SF1900. There is a conversion train coming full speed ahead and you're on the tracks.

 :)

 In all seriousness AVXO is a good dude, and I'm appreciative of his use of science to back up his statements.

Dave D

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Yes, by now, you must be used to getting owned by AVXO.  :D :D

Also don't sell yourself short there stud, you had a few decent owning of me as well.  ;)