Author Topic: Please help (Read 5104 times)

mr.turbo · « **Reply #50 on:** July 20, 2015, 06:35:34 PM »

I suspect you're not the type of fellow who is cut out for "dirty tricks"

I gather this relationship did not end amicably

sometimes the best solution is to sit down for lunch unless you're scared...?

El Diablo Blanco · « **Reply #51 on:** July 20, 2015, 06:35:38 PM »

Quote from: herefortheglitter on July 20, 2015, 02:39:35 PM

Have you posted any ads on CL with her information? Good place to start.

Fuck no. Cl tracks everything. She can trace it back to you in a heartbeat. Easiest thing to do is admit you like the cock and come out of the closet.

SquidVicious · « **Reply #52 on:** July 20, 2015, 06:37:21 PM »

I can help you but my special set of skills doesn't come cheap. Or you can just tell Avesher that's her in the cat stomping video and pass along her number.

Vince B · « **Reply #53 on:** July 20, 2015, 06:37:32 PM »

Quote from: Waller on July 20, 2015, 02:55:12 PM

Rape claims, fake pregnancies, filthy rumours, repeated drive bys of my house, my gym, actually changed to my last gym after the police issued a warning, fake suicide stories. The list just goes on and on.

I hope you listen to this. Put yourself in her position. What if she abandoned you and then never responded to you again? What if she was with someone else? Those two things can make someone desperate because there is little to no way to get you back. So what you did was make her want you more by abandoning her and not caring about her in any way. You made her fall more in love with you! So then she resorts to doing crazy stuff to try to get your attention.

She sounds like she has Borderline Personality Disorder. People with BPD don't handle being abandoned. They will also turn on you. It will be endless, one crazy thing after another.

What to do? Hard to say. But if you keep ignoring her you fuel whatever fire is burning in her heart. You used to be together so how come the total silence? She interprets this as your being heartless and uncaring. How could you do this to someone you cared for? Now you want to retaliate and make her suffer. I can tell you that unrequited love is very difficult to deal with. Her brain will be telling her to get you back no matter what and have children with you. She will be incapable of accessing her emotions so will seem crazy to you. Good luck.

mr.turbo · « **Reply #54 on:** July 20, 2015, 06:37:55 PM »

Quote from: Skorp1o on July 20, 2015, 02:26:10 PM

She's being like this towards you cos she feels that you're a push over....a guy with no spine, no back bone, a sort of guy who always lets shit slide....like being owed a $100 bet.

It's time you grew some Wes like "cojones"...big thick juicy El Chapo certified "cojones" and confronted this whore full on like a real man should and bitch slap the kunt as if Sean Connery was your god and he was watching and giving you the look of approval.

agreed

SquidVicious · « **Reply #55 on:** July 20, 2015, 06:56:28 PM »

I'll throw you a bone. The best way to deal with a stalker is through Transference. Once she finds another man and falls madly in love with him, she'll transfer all of her psychotic behavior to him upon their breakup. Just be patient. If she's half decent looking, the next sucker is right around the corner.

Tapeworm · « **Reply #56 on:** July 20, 2015, 07:39:41 PM »

Quote from: Vince B on July 20, 2015, 06:37:32 PM

I hope you listen to this. Put yourself in her position. What if she abandoned you and then never responded to you again? What if she was with someone else? Those two things can make someone desperate because there is little to no way to get you back. So what you did was make her want you more by abandoning her and not caring about her in any way. You made her fall more in love with you! So then she resorts to doing crazy stuff to try to get your attention.

She sounds like she has Borderline Personality Disorder. People with BPD don't handle being abandoned. They will also turn on you. It will be endless, one crazy thing after another.

What to do? Hard to say. But if you keep ignoring her you fuel whatever fire is burning in her heart. You used to be together so how come the total silence? She interprets this as your being heartless and uncaring. How could you do this to someone you cared for? Now you want to retaliate and make her suffer. I can tell you that unrequited love is very difficult to deal with. Her brain will be telling her to get you back no matter what and have children with you. She will be incapable of accessing her emotions so will seem crazy to you. Good luck.

This is no time for trolling, V. It's genuinely scary being stalked by a woman. No one will take you seriously and you are very aware that she could get your door kicked in by police any time she feels like giving herself a black eye.

And what's with all the women with 'diagnosed disorders' out there? Golly but there's a lot of them. And they love having it! "My Dr says I have _____! I'm not responsible for my own misbehavior!" Like it's a licence to be a pain in the ass. Well bullshit. This is what comes of a lifetime of zero consequences. They'll do the most egregious shit and then twirl their pigtails and throw out an insincere apology. It works like a charm over and over from the age of 6 and they're still out there in middle age doing the same old dance. Wtf. It's a disorder alright.

Vince B · « **Reply #57 on:** July 20, 2015, 07:45:35 PM »

Trolling?

Tapeworm · « **Reply #58 on:** July 20, 2015, 07:48:59 PM »

Don't try to talk him into making contact, man. It's the last thing he should do.

Batten those hatches, Waller!

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #59 on:** July 20, 2015, 08:04:29 PM »

Thread chock full of beta pussies

Vince B · « **Reply #60 on:** July 20, 2015, 08:19:19 PM »

Quote from: Tapeworm on July 20, 2015, 07:48:59 PM

Don't try to talk him into making contact, man. It's the last thing he should do.

Batten those hatches, Waller!

What makes you so sure that is the best advice? When dealing with extreme behaviour it is never easy to know what is the best thing to do.

The woman sounds like the saying: 'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned'. The op sounds like he is dealing with a rejected woman who

is retaliating for what she feels he did to her and her life. We don't know her side so how the heck can we give informed advice except not to

inflame an already disastrous situation. Getting even with her will point to him so he can't contemplate any Josh stuff!

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #61 on:** July 20, 2015, 08:37:14 PM »

Quote from: Vince B on July 20, 2015, 08:19:19 PM

What makes you so sure that is the best advice? When dealing with extreme behaviour it is never easy to know what is the best thing to do.

The woman sounds like the saying: 'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned'. The op sounds like he is dealing with a rejected woman who

is retaliating for what she feels he did to her and her life. We don't know her side so how the heck can we give informed advice except not to

inflame an already disastrous situation. Getting even with her will point to him so he can't contemplate any Josh stuff!

Would you just fucking die already.....

SF1900 · « **Reply #62 on:** July 20, 2015, 08:43:45 PM »

Quote from: Vince B on July 20, 2015, 08:19:19 PM

What makes you so sure that is the best advice? When dealing with extreme behaviour it is never easy to know what is the best thing to do.

The woman sounds like the saying: 'Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned'. The op sounds like he is dealing with a rejected woman who

is retaliating for what she feels he did to her and her life. We don't know her side so how the heck can we give informed advice except not to

inflame an already disastrous situation. Getting even with her will point to him so he can't contemplate any Josh stuff!

Vince, do you use your big, hairy belly to attract the ladies??

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #63 on:** July 20, 2015, 08:55:42 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on July 20, 2015, 08:43:45 PM

Vince, do you use your big, hairy belly to attract the ladies??

Strange question for you to ask a closet homosexual

Thespritz0 · « **Reply #64 on:** July 20, 2015, 09:07:02 PM »

Quote from: SquidVicious on July 20, 2015, 06:56:28 PM

I'll throw you a bone. The best way to deal with a stalker is through Transference. Once she finds another man and falls madly in love with him, she'll transfer all of her psychotic behavior to him upon their breakup. Just be patient. If she's half decent looking, the next sucker is right around the corner.

^^
ACTUALLY he's right, the QUICKER she gets another man that's your ticket to freedom...
P.S. Just be careful not to go out with the same "TYPE" of girl again, it's easier than you think to get into this trap!

HTexan · « **Reply #65 on:** July 20, 2015, 09:15:59 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on July 20, 2015, 08:43:45 PM

Vince, do you use your big, hairy belly to attract the ladies??

Lol

Seriously tho, I wouldn't fuck with her, it will give her delusions that you still care about her.
I had a very similar thing happen with a crazy ex bitch. She would even ring my doorbell in the middle of the night and run away, this went on for 2 years. I was only with the bitch for a month too. $:-\$
Cut her off

SF1900 · « **Reply #66 on:** July 20, 2015, 09:19:49 PM »

Quote from: Walter Sobchak on July 20, 2015, 08:55:42 PM

Strange question for you to ask a closet homosexual

I thought Vince was married at some point. Could be wrong though.

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #67 on:** July 20, 2015, 09:21:41 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on July 20, 2015, 09:19:49 PM

I thought Vince was married at some point. Could be wrong though.

So was Rock Hudson....

Vince B · « **Reply #68 on:** July 20, 2015, 09:22:47 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on July 20, 2015, 09:19:49 PM

I thought Vince was married at some point. Could be wrong though.

Sobchak is a crazy mf. Hates this and hates that. My ex divorced me because of my interest in other women. No homo here!

What you Sobchak!

Walter Sobchak · « **Reply #69 on:** July 20, 2015, 10:03:29 PM »

Quote from: Vince B on July 20, 2015, 09:22:47 PM

Sobchak is a crazy mf. Hates this and hates that. My ex divorced me because of my interest in other women. No homo here!

What you Sobchak!

Do not believe one thing you say.

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #70 on:** July 20, 2015, 10:18:46 PM »

Quote from: Waller on July 20, 2015, 02:55:12 PM

Rape claims, fake pregnancies, filthy rumours, repeated drive bys of my house, my gym, actually changed to my last gym after the police issued a warning, fake suicide stories. The list just goes on and on.

Post her nudie images ASAP

Vince B · « **Reply #71 on:** July 20, 2015, 10:20:04 PM »

Quote from: Walter Sobchak on July 20, 2015, 10:03:29 PM

Do not believe one thing you say.

Walter Sobchak is a great guy!

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #72 on:** July 20, 2015, 10:21:22 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on July 20, 2015, 08:43:45 PM

Vince, do you use your big, hairy belly to attract the ladies??

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #73 on:** July 20, 2015, 10:22:33 PM »

Quote from: SF1900 on July 20, 2015, 09:19:49 PM

I thought Vince was married at some point. Could be wrong though.

His nick was CORNUTO

Teutonic Knight · « **Reply #74 on:** July 20, 2015, 10:23:58 PM »

Quote from: Walter Sobchak on July 20, 2015, 09:21:41 PM

So was Rock Hudson....