So the real problem is I suck at Bulking. This is after breakfast. I literally eat everyday until I feel sick. I eat about 5 meals a day every 2-3 hours I am eating. I have to stay up late because I get hungry at bedtime. But when I decide to train and bulk I just get lean and stay the same damn size. I know up the calories I eat until I have to poop 10 times a day. This is me today on full bulk mode. I am back at 220 despite eating myself to 230 two week ago end of the day full of food and water. But if I am lifting weights my body just wont get soft no matter how much I force feed it. As far as cardio I am doing like 2 mile beach walks a couple times a week thats it I try to just eat and grow but body just doesnt want to get heavier. I havent been training heavy but I have been training and eating nonstop I shouldnt be this lean still. I may have to add a gallon of milk to the daily diet or something
Maybe you are trying too hard to achieve your goals and those goals may be unrealistic. I read somewhere that a 10 lb. solid weight gain in the course of a year is substantial. Most people's base weight changes throughout the day because of water gain or loss. It is a good idea to weigh yourself at about the same time and not more often than once a day. Otherwise, you'll make yourself crazy.
220 lbs is a lot to weigh if you are average height. I'm nowhere near as fit nor as muscular as you are (my excuse is that I am very old). I currently weigh somewhere between 175 - 180 lbs at 5' 10". When I was in my late 20's, I got up to 225 lbs. Although it was my goal to get big, it wasn't natural for me to weigh that much. Not natural includes the fact that I'd just completed a cycle of D-Bol. D-Bol was key for me when it came to gaining weight. Realistically, I was fat (some say bulked up) and that definitely was not a healthy weight for me.
I am no expert on diet, I just know what has worked for me. My advice is based on my personal experiences. Eating lots of meals a day is great as long as you keep them small. If you are eating 5 full-sized meals a day, you are overeating and your digestion can't handle it. It could be counter-productive in terms of weigh gain. Try eating less for awhile, like a week or two and see if it makes a difference. You might actually gain some weight.
Relax, don't stress out over this. It isn't worth it.