Get real, you can't judge for other ectos and you should know that.
It's all about personal preferences/priorities; there's zero correlation between body types on happy couples. Why would a perfect looking woman make you a happy man, while there isn't any emotional/spiritual attraction
It's about the WHOLE picture, not just the size of her ass (yes, "grow the fuck up"
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Lord knows that i am trying to "grow the fuck up" man, but it aint' easy
but as far as your point about zero correlation btw couples body types and their level of happiness, i was taught at university (yeah i have a bachelor's degree in psychology) in some of my behavioral psych classes that individuals match much better, and feel better with, those who are very physically similar to them, and this has to do not just with romantic relationships but with friendships as well
in my own case, my best trusted friends were very similar to me, slim athletic guys who were above average height, and they all even had blue eyes

this isn't my own idea or theory man, this was taught to me at university and it came from data collected on looks and body type correlated with relationships, romantic and all other forms of relationships
but out of curiosity, are most of your male friends similar to you as far as looks and body type is concerned?